Why is sin often so enjoyable? I mean, if you think about it, why else would we sin?
Sure, we know it’s wrong. We know that God doesn’t want us to do it. Sometimes, we even know that sin will have negative consequences. Yet, in spite of all that, we sin anyway. What’s up with that?
The longer I live in this world, the more I realize that sin is often the symptom, not the problem. Sin is usually a shortcut to relieve pain, suffering, or emptiness. It is an unhealthy solution to something that is wrong in our lives.
Men engage in sexual sin because in some way they feel inadequate, alone, or helpless. They are simply looking for a place to find value and control over their situation. In the search for a solution, they often find a shortcut that brings temporary relief, but often unseen long-term consequences.
Women engage in gossip because they want everyone to know there is someone worse off than they are. In the search to feel better about themselves, the easiest solution is often to put someone else down.
Neither of these are exclusive to the gender I have ascribed them to, but these are a few common examples. Most of us, at times in our life, look for ways to heal the pain we feel.
God knows that we hurt. And God knows that sin will often bring a short-term solution to the pain. But God also knows that these "quick fixes" often lead to more pain in the long run. It could be days, months, or even years, but sin will usually come back with more pain than what we tried to fix in the first place.
God offers a different solution. Jesus said, "Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light." (Matthew 11:28-30) Although it is often not the easy path, it is the one that offers more than a “quick fix†and brings true healing.
shine!
Jason
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