My Grown Up Christmas List

My favorite Christmas song is "Grown Up Christmas List" as performed by Amy Grant. While there are a lot of Christmas songs that I really enjoy, there is something about the message of this song that gets to the heart of the One for whom the season is named.  Here is a section of the song that means a lot to me:

So here's my lifelong wish,
My grown-up Christmas list.
Not for myself,
But for a world in need.

No more lives torn apart,
That wars would never start,(and wars would never start)
And time would heal all hearts.
And everyone would have a friend,
And right would always win,
And love would never end.
This is my grown-up Christmas list.

This is still my list. In a world where we are inundated by TV commercials telling us what we need to be happy, this song gets to the heart of what will bring true joy.

You and I are created to be beings that give and are sent. The Father sent to Son to set us free. He sent the Spirit to empower us to be free. And we are sent to extend this freedom to those around us. Our Christmas list should, in the words of the song, be "not for myself, but for a world in need."

While I will still give presents to loved ones and I will enjoy receiving gifts from those I love, this day and season is about much more than presents under a tree. Christmas is ultimately about the Gift from God that hung on a tree and set you and me free to give ourselves for the benefit of God's Creation.

What's on your Christmas list? At the top of my list is to be more open to the leading of the Holy Spirit and to give myself to benefit those around me. May my life be an extension of the Christ who was sent for me.

shine!
Jason

Jesus is my friend?

In the midst of the Christmas season I was thinking about how people view the Christ. I hear a lot of people say that Jesus is their friend. As I started thinking about that, a few questions came to mind.

What if people treated their other friends the way they treat their friend Jesus? What if they only visited him once or twice a week, texted throughout the conversation, paid little attention to what he might be trying to say to them, and gossipped about some of their common friends?

If we are honest, many of us are friends with Jesus because of what's in it for us. Think about how life would be if we treated our other friends like that. What if you only talked to your friends when they were going to do something for you? What if you ignored your friends until you were in trouble and then you got mad when your friend didn't do everything you wanted them to when times get rough? What if your friend tried to give you advice but you ignored the advice because it wasn't what you wanted to do?

Abraham was called a friend of God because he was following God. He wasn't perfect and made plenty of mistakes, but he followed God to an unknown land.

God knows that we will make mistakes. He extends grace and mercy. And he is more faithful than any other friend.

The next time you or someone you know says, "Jesus is my friend," think about the implications in that statement. A friend listens. A friend makes time. A friend respects. If Jesus is really our friend, shouldn't we listen to him, make time for him, and respect him?

shine!
Jason

Giving thanks

People across our country today are celebrating Thanksgiving Day. Many people will eat turkey, enjoy football, visit with family, and enjoy a day of rest. We have come a long way from the small gathering at Plymouth in 1621. In 1863, President Abraham Lincoln signed into law the official holiday that we celebrate today.

For many people, today is the start of the Christmas season. As I sit at my dad's house and watch the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade, I know that Santa's arrival on 34th Street is not far away. Tomorrow morning (or even late tonight), millions of shoppers will descend on stores opening early for "Black Friday" specials. This weekend, our family will set up our Christmas decorations. By Sunday evening, we will have our tree up and the lights on. To quote Andy Williams, "It's the most wonderful time of the year!"

But as followers of Jesus, let's not get lost in the turkey, football, and shopping. Let's make sure we take time to be thankful. The apostle Paul wrote, "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." (Colossians 3:17)

Whether it's the way you treat other people on Black Friday, your reactions to the craziness of the coming month, or your attitude towards your Christmas list, remember to frame everything through the Kingdom of God.

When he was talking to the Ephesians elders. Paul said, "I have not coveted anyone’s silver or gold or clothing. You yourselves know that these hands of mine have supplied my own needs and the needs of my companions. In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: 'It is more blessed to give than to receive.'" (Acts 20:33-35)

In a season when every TV commercial seems to tell us to want, want, want, and take, take, take, let's fight against that trend and focus on giving. That begins with an attitude of thanksgiving. Whether it's Paul's words to the Colossians (quoted above) or his words to the church in Phlippi, our way of thinking shapes how we approach life. In Philippians 4:11-13, Paul wrote, "I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength."

Thankfulness often emerges from the willingness to give. I have learned that the more I learn to be content, the easier it is to be thankful. We are surrounded by a society that ties our contentment to our possessions. Almost every commercial tells us that our happiness is dependent upon buying their product.

While there is nothing wrong with getting a new toy, television, or car, we cannot allow our joy to be controlled by what we do or do not have. The more I have learned to be content with whatever I have, the more thankful I have become for what I have. One of the ironies of life is that many of the most joyful people I have met in my life have been the ones who have the least. Whether it's people in Brazil, children in inner-city Cincinnati, or homeless people in Oakland County, I have often found the strongest sense of thankfulness in the lives of people who, from the world's perspective, have the least amount to be thankful for.

Take time today to reflect on what you have instead of what you don't have. In last few weeks I have been reminded of what is truly important in life. Jeremy's death has reminded me that stuff isn't all that important, but that relationships are the most valuable things we share. Make sure that in this season of thankfulness that you take time to celebrate and focus on the relationships that you have. Hug your family. Make time for friends. Thank God for the people that are important to you. The ultimate gift is not anything you can buy. It's your time and presence in the lives of others than is the greatest thing you can give.

shine!
Jason

What if you were to live today?

I can't tell you how many times I have heard or read the question, "What if you were to die today?" It is usually followed by questions about eternal destiny, heaven, and hell. It has been used for years to scare people into "making a decision for Jesus."

Now, don't get me wrong. I think that eternal life is very real and the promises of God are very true. However, do you think that all God is concerned about is getting us into heaven? Of course, people will argue that the purpose of living a good life now is so you can have eternal life with God. While there is some truth in that statement, I don't really think God wants to bribe us into being good now so we can have eternal life later.

What if, instead, eternal life was the continuation and completion of the kingdom of God that is already unfolding in our midst? What if our good works weren't just for our benefit later, but, more importantly, for the benefit of others now? What if we didn't concern ourselves so much with where we will be later, and focused instead of who we are now?

As followers of Jesus, maybe we should spend a little more time looking in the mirror and asking ourselves some important questions. Jesus himself said, "And why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye when you have a log in your own? How can you think of saying to your friend, ‘Let me help you get rid of that speck in your eye,’ when you can’t see past the log in your own eye? Hypocrite! First get rid of the log in your own eye; then you will see well enough to deal with the speck in your friend’s eye." (Matthew 7:3-5)

Before we go around asking everyone else, "What if you were to die today," maybe we should start by asking ourselves, "What if you were to live today?"

shine!
Jason

Good words

I am still struggling with the reality of Jeremy King's death. This week I have still expected him to stick his head in my doorway, smile, and ask what he can do to help. That was who Jeremy was. He was a man who embodied humility and servanthood.

As I reflect on Jeremy's life and on my own, I am challenged by his example. I have had a number of people comment on the words I shared, along with Patrick and Adam, about Jeremy at his funeral. To every person who made a similar comment, I have responded by saying that Jeremy made it easy.

I have attended and participated in funerals where it might be a challenge to uncover a lot of good words about the person who was being remembered. In Jeremy's case, the opposite was true. There was not nearly enough time to share all of the good memories I have about Jeremy. While I would not consider him a close friend, we had grown much closer over the last year as we served alongside each other on staff here at Rochester Church.

Whether he was standing on stage, practicing with the praise team, or sitting in my office talking about ministry and life, Jeremy was always the same person. He didn't have any pretenses or pride. He was not arrogant or self-serving. He was a good husband and father. He was a trustworthy friend. He was a man of God.

The word eulogy is a Greek word meaning "good words." There have been endless good words shared about Jeremy over the last week because he was a good man. He was a witness to what it means to love God and love your neighbor as yourself. Reflecting on his life over the last week has challenged me to be a better husband, a better father, and a better friend. I pray that when my time on this earth comes to an end that I will have lived in such a way that people speak good words about me.

Jeremy, I miss you.

shine!
Jason

There are two funds that have been set up for Veronica and her children as they deal with the loss of Jeremy. If you would like to contribute, here is the information...

You can send funds to the Rochester Church of Christ. Checks should be made payable to "Rochester Church of Christ" and earmarked "Member Care Fund." It would also be helpful to enclose a note mentioning Jeremy. Those checks can be mailed to:

Rochester Church of Christ
250 West Avon Road
Rochester Hills, MI 48307

You can also donate to DeeperStill Ministries. Go to any Chase Bank, and make a deposit into account No. 879368868.

A new season of ministry

To my family at Rochester Church:

Yesterday, I announced I am expanding my responsibilities here at Rochester Church. I wanted to take a few minutes to address what that means for our church and the Ministry for Families with Youth.

I am excited for the future of Rochester Church. We are entering a new season filled with hope and opportunity and, as we partner with God in the future, I believe we will echo the words of the Apostle Paul, who wrote, “Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.” (Ephesians 3:20)

As we begin this new season of ministry, I want to begin by saying that I will continue to be involved with my ministry to Rochester’s families with youth. My new role is an expansion of what I have been doing for the last five years. My goal is to help create throughout all four LifeStages the environment we have developed over the last five years in Families with Youth. I will continue to work with our students and families as my responsibilities expand.

As I mentioned in a meeting with parents and students on September 1, my desire is to continue a significant level of personal interaction with students in the future. That will require us to raise up and equip more volunteers to help with some of the logistical functions I have personally taken care of in the past. These volunteers will allow me to continue to interact with students and families as well as address my new responsibilities. In addition, we will be considering additional staff that I would work with and mentor as a ministry partner. As we evaluate the best way to effectively minister to our families with youth, we plan to include our students and families in any significant decisions regarding staff.

In my new role, I will also be supporting and coordinating pastoral efforts for all LifeStages. Working with Elders, Pastoral Care Ministers, Staff, and others, my goal is to increase our pastoral care for the family here at Rochester Church. In addition to ministering to those in difficult situations and seasons, we are going to be more intentional about creating ways to increase ongoing pastoral connections with the families here.

There are two other aspects of my new role that we believe will aid people in getting connected and staying connected. I will be coordinating and supporting our new member integration efforts. As we seek to help people connect, grow, and serve here at Rochester Church, we are hoping to build on the things we are doing to facilitate even more opportunities for new members to become an active part of this church body.

The other piece is to help people stay connected. One of the most important venues for creating an environment where people can establish deeper roots at Rochester Church is through small groups. While small groups have been an important part of the lives of some of our members, we are convinced that we can, and must, place a more intentional focus on small groups. Small groups is one of the most important places at Rochester Church where we can connect, grow, and serve.

I am excited about the future here at Rochester Church. I believe that God is going to move powerfully around us, in us, and through us in the months and years ahead. As I have told some of you before, I believe that God does some of His best work in seasons of change. As we move into a new season of ministry here at Rochester Church, I am blessed to be a part of an incredible team and a wonderful church family. I will enjoy continuing to work with our students and their families while expanding into new areas of serving. I look forward to many more years of working in the Kingdom with you.

shine!
Jason

We actually played

Last night, Matthew and I went with Steven (one of my students) to Buffalo Wild Wings to watch the start of the NFL season and enjoy some 60-cent boneless wings.

Whenever Matthew goes to BW's with me, it usually involves playing some trivia while eating wings and watching some sporting event. This night was no different. True to form, as soon as the server came over, Matthew asked for the Buzztime unit.

Shortly after we got there, it was time for a new game to start. The game we begin to play is called "Six." I had never played it before, but quickly realized it resembles Trivia Pursuit in terms of content. There are six categories from which your questions come. There are a number of rounds that play out in various ways. I won't bore you with all of the details of the game. If you're really interested, visit the website to learn more.

Anyway, time to get to the point of the story. As we play on, I realize we're doing pretty well. We even answered all eighteen questions right in the "Marathon" round. As we finish the game, Matthew celebrates as the screen announces that we are the champions for this location.

But nothing could prepare Matthew for the next thing that comes up on the screen. It ends up that we are ranked 18th in the entire nation for the game. When the list of the top 20 scores from every location in the US shows up, there we are at number 18.

As we leave the place and begin our trip home, I get a text message from my wife asking where we are. She had just gotten home from a meeting and wondered why her 9-year-old son was not home and in bed at 10:05pm. Being the quick thinker I am, I hand the phone to Matthew and tell him to share with his mom our victory. Not bad thinking, eh? ;-)

After he hands the phone back to me, I hear Matthew from the back. "This is better than watching the Steelers win their 6th Super Bowl!"

Being the Steelers fan that I am (Matthew is a pretty big fan as well), I respond, "Really?"

The next words he speaks are still echoing in my mind. "Yes, because we actually played instead of watching someone else do it."

Profound words from the mouth of a young boy.

How often do we invest more energy, passion, and excitement in the accomplishments of an athlete, celebrity, and other professionals?

As I continue to reflect on his words, I wonder what the implications are for the church. Do we invest more energy in the words of a preacher than in our own abilities to speak love to others? Do we have more passion about a youth minister than pouring our own lives into those of our young people? Do we get more excited about a church program than starting our own ministry?

Don't misunderstand. I enjoy speaking and see a lot of value in doing it with quality. I love serving teenagers and their families. My role includes developing and carrying out quality programs. There is certainly importance for all of these things in a church community. But, what happens when that becomes the most important part of someone's spiritual identity? What are the implications for their spiritual development? What does all of that mean for the growth of the Kingdom of God?

Matthew reminded me of an important key to life. Accomplishments mean a lot more when we are intimately involved. Sure, I celebrated when the Steelers won their sixth Super Bowl a few years ago. But, Matthew is right. He, Steven, and I worked together to end up ranked 18th in the nation. No, it's not a Super Bowl trophy. True, the only people that know are probably those of you reading this blog. But, isn't Kingdom work often the same way?

There are people who serve and never get any recognition. The apostle Paul wrote, "The eye cannot say to the hand, 'I have no need of you,' nor again the head to the feet, 'I have no need of you.' On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor, and our unpresentable parts are treated with greater modesty, which our more presentable parts do not require. But God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it, that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together. Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it." (1 Corinthians 12:21-27)

To borrow another quote from the great theologians at Nike, "Just do it." In the Kingdom of God, we are broken people serving a world full of broken people. The greatest tragedy is not failure, but rather, the failure to try. As a cracked jar of clay, I would rather risk another crack than simply sit on a shelf and watch another, better-looking jar carry the water for me.

shine!
Jason

Conquering your fears

I have a fear of heights...a HUGE fear of heights. When we have gone on mission trips to Mississippi, I haven't even been able to do much work on the roof of a one-story house because I freeze up. I know I am a wimp when it comes to heights.

For ten years, the Millennium Force has taunted me. I have been there with family and they have chuckled at my fear. I have gone with youth groups and they have laughed and called me chicken. Regardless of the abuse I received, I have allowed my fear to remain stronger that anything people might say to me.

So what - or who - would finally push me beyond my fears? A nine-year-old boy. Specifically, a boy named Matthew who happens to share my last name.

Yesterday, Michelle, Matthew, and I went to Cedar Point. We rode a number of rides, but the Millennium Force was not on the list for a while. Then, as afternoon turned to evening, and the sun began to set, Matthew said the words that would force my hand. "I want to ride THAT!"

The lump formed in my throat. My heart skipped a beat. I was going to have to face the monster. I could resist others in my family who chuckled at my fear. I could ignore the laughs of teenagers. But, when my own son, my own nine-year-old son, wants to ride, I couldn't say no.

We got in line around 8:30pm. The sign said 1-3/4 hour from this point. Well, nothing like having time to think about what you're about to do. We wait and work our way through the line, starting up conversations with those around us. We got to know a really nice couple from Michigan who have a 22-year-old son in the Marines who will be deployed to Afghanistan later this year.

The conversations were a nice distraction from my fears. I was able to forget about what I was about to do. There were a few exceptions. The first was about 40 minutes into the wait when I realized there weren't any trains coming by us. The ride was stopped. But why?

We found out that a train had gotten stuck near the top of the first hill. Gulp! Wait! What am I doing?? Then I looked down at my son, who was undaunted by the news, and realized there was no turning back. Especially when he said, with determination, "I'm not leaving until I ride this."

Once the ride starting running again, the conversation resumed with our new friends and my fears faded. Until we started up the final ramp to the platform. As we entered the platform area, my fears resumed at a new level. I started asking myself, "What are you doing? Are you crazy?!?" My heart was pounding. My palms were sweaty.

We chose our line and there were three people in front of us. Good. I had a few minutes to prepare myself. The first two riders got on and their train left. I still had a few minutes to get ready. Then, another curve ball. The single rider in front of us jumped in with another single rider one car back and we were on now. What? Wait! I'm not ready yet. I thought I had a few minutes to prepare myself. But, suddenly, I found myself sitting in the car and strapping myself in.

As we are sitting there waiting, the lap bar releases. Um, hello, isn't that supposed to hold us in? The ride operator comes over the PA system. "Don't worry, we made it do that." Oh, now I feel better. (Insert sarcasm here.)

Finally, we are ready to go. The train goes forward and starts up the hill. In what seems like 2 seconds we are at the top of the hill. Way up there at the top of the hill. In this moment, I have a realization. There is nothing I can do about this. I am strapped into a chair 310 feet above the ground. I am about to drop at an 80 degree angle at speeds up to 93 miles per hour.

It is in this moment that I decide to let go and enjoy the ride. As we go over the top of the hill, I throw my arms up into the air and decide to confront my fear and engage the moment. My arms didn't come down until we pulled into the station. What an awesome ride!

As I look back on this experience, I come away with a few reflections...

Some fears are totally unfounded. While a fear of heights is not always bad, there are times that our fears can prevent us from enjoying life to the fullest.

I have a new appreciation for Christians who are afraid to fully embrace the call of Jesus to pick up their cross and follow Him. Picking up our cross can be a scary proposition.

At the same time, it gives me even more passion about calling people to conquer their fears, throw their arms up in the air, and enjoy the ride. John wrote that, "Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love." (1 John 4:18)

The more we understand the true implications of God's love for us, our fear subsides. One of the things that removed some of my fear on this roller coaster was the realization that hundreds of thousands of people have ridden this ride and survived. They have enjoyed the ride and been secure. While following Jesus is not always safe in the worldly sense, we are secure. God's love will never leave us and never forsake us. Regardless of what twists and turns we experience in life, God will always be there to embrace us.

Jesus said that, "My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life." (John 10:10)  I firmly believe that a lot of people turn to other things in life for satisfaction because they have not fully embraced the adventure of following Jesus. For many people, Christianity is primarily about rules and regulations and sitting in a building every week to listen to someone speak and sing a few songs. The rich and satisfying life is so much more and calls us to conquer our fears and follow Him.

This will look different for each person. It could mean overcoming our pride and serving others who may "damage" our reputation. It could mean facing our selfishness and giving away that which defines and consumes us. It could mean opening ourselves up to others and engaging in deep relationships we have avoided because we have been hurt before.

Regardless of what your "Millennium Force" is, God is calling you to conquer that fear and discover the rich and satisfying life He has for us. I know that the next time I am back at Cedar Point, I will be in line to ride again. Sure, I will still be a little nervous, but I am looking forward to going over that first hill and enjoying the ride.

shine!
Jason

Where did the summer go?

As you may have noticed in the last several days, I am trying to be more intentional and frequent in my blog posts. I wanted to take a few minutes today to reflect on this summer.

I am sitting here asking myself, "Wait! Is it really August 28?" I find it hard to believe that in a little over a week, it will be Labor Day and students will be returning to school. It seems like only yesterday that students were celebrating the end of the school year and we were gathering on the campus of Rochester College for Elevate. And now, it's time for buses, bells, and books. Really?

So what am I taking away from this summer? Well, I am still thinking about that. But here are a few things I have learned this summer.

The biggest lesson I have learned is to create space for others, especially my family. I tend to be a very busy person and I fill my schedule with things to do. While I still had a hectic summer, I found myself making more time for things like sitting in the backyard around the campfire with my wife and son. I didn't do this enough, but I feel like I made some headway.

I have also been challenged to make more room for God and others in my life. Often, I am so busy that I don't have time or space to stop and listen. That means my time with God often gets pushed aside. It also means I don't always have time to listen when someone else needs a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen. I have a long way to go with regards to this, but I feel like I have made progress this summer.

I am continuing to learn the value of self-control. Since it's a fruit of the Spirit, it's not as self-centered as it sounds. I have been learning that in areas where I lack control, I need to allow the Holy Spirit to invade and assume control. That means I need to make space (this keeps coming up, doesn't it) for God to dwell in my life. I don't do that enough, so I often lack the self-control I should have.

However, not everything in the area of self-control is going poorly. Through a variety of circumstances, including self-control, we have paid off our car and we are about to finish paying off some other debt as well. In addition, I have lost over 50 pounds through watching what I eat. I feel like this has been a year of considerable growth in the area of self-control, but I have a long way to go.

I am sure there are more things that I have learned, but these are the things on my mind right now. I look forward to seeing what other lessons God has in store for me as summer transitions into autumn. Seasons remind me that life is never static and always in transition, so I am waiting to see what awaits in the season ahead...

shine!
Jason

From Luther to the Lake

This morning I am sitting in Tony's lake house on Eagle Lake, watching the sunrise and reflecting on the week. It seems like this week has been much longer than seven days. We started out with a weekend retreat at Luther Seminary where we spent a few days with Sara Barton. It was a chance to evaluate our Rule of Life and share our lives.

Sunday morning we worshipped at St. Matthew's Episcopal Church and then we went to Como Park. Sunday evening was spent with the community of Solomon's Porch, first in their worship gathering, and then over a Burrito Bol at Chipotle. Our evening ended by settling down at Tony's house.

Monday and Tuesday were action-packed days spent with Tony Jones, Doug Pagitt, and Carla Barnhill from the Porch. We also had a chance to Skype with Nanette Sawyer from Wicker Park Grace in Chicago. Tuesday afternoon was spent at the home of Tim and Jill Geoffrion, where we had a chance to talk about leadership and experience a prayer labyrinth.

After spending the night at the home of a Solomon's Porch member Tuesday night, on Wednesday, we traveled up here to Tony's family cabin a few hours north of the Twin Cities. We have spent the last few days reading, discussing, reflecting, praying, journaling, boating, and more. It has been a holistic learning experience around the idea of hospitality. I have enjoyed spending time sitting at the feet of Tony Jones and Mark Love. They, along with my cohort - Doug Sanders, Mark Brazle, Wayne Beason, Ryan Woods, CindyLou Owen, and Courtney Jenko - have challenged me to think about what it means to be a follower of Jesus and extend hospitality to God, others, and creation.

Well, it's time to go make breakfast for everyone. I am making scrambled eggs and bacon. I'm looking forward to our last couple of hours together this morning as we continue the conversation...

shine!
Jason

What's been going on?

I have not blogged in a few weeks, so I am going to try to reflect on what I have experienced over the last couple of weeks...

From August 7-14, I was in Cincinnati with 26 RCC students, a handful of adults, and a team from the Warrenton (Virginia) Church of Christ. It was an incredible week where everyone worked hard and accomplished a lot for the Kingdom. Our team painted three houses and spent time with children in the community (as well as feeding them a meal each day). Even though the temperatures were in the mid-90's all week (with a heat index well over 100), everyone worked without complaining. I was amazed by their attitudes and desire to finish the tasks before them. I am pretty sure that Cincinnati impacted most us as much, if not more, than we impacted it. It was a great week!

After a few days home to catch my breath (which really means taking care of all of the details that get neglected when you're out of town), I left for the trip I am currently on. Last Friday, I spent the day traveling to Minnesota for a retreat and week-long intensive class for MREML program. Over the weekend, I stayed on campus at Luther Seminary, hung out with Mark Love, Sara Barton, and my cohort. We discussed a variety of things and ended the weekend worshipping at St. Matthew's Episcopal Church and then Solomon's Porch.

The last two days have been spent hanging out with Tony Jones, Doug Pagitt, and the authors of the other two books we are reading for this class. (Well, we had to Skype with the one who lives in Chicago.) We have been spending our days at Solomon's Porch and our evenings enjoying the Twin Cities. (Despite what Ryan Woods says, the Twin Cities have some good coffee and good coffee shops.) One of the highlights of the week so far for me was walking through a prayer labyrinth this afternoon.

The next couple of days will be spent further discussing hospitality as leadership (this is the title of our class). I am still trying to process the things we are hearing and learning, and I am listening to hear what God might be trying to tell me in this season of life and ministry. When you turn 40 - as I did in May of this year - your perspective on life makes a shift. Well, at least mine has. I am realizing that I have (statistically) lived over half of my life.

What am I going to do with the rest of my life? What does God have in store for me? What do I need to learn? How can I listen better to God? What does it mean to be a follower of Jesus?

As I reflect on the last couple of weeks, I realize that God is not done with me yet. He has turned dread into joy. He has opened my eyes to new things. He is transforming frustration into hope. And there is so much more He is doing that I am not realizing.

I have more questions that I do answers. I continue to learn that the more I discover, the less I know. God continues to remind me that He is God and I am not. Every time I think I know what I am doing, I realize that I am pretty clueless.

I consider myself a cautious optimist. I try to look at the glass as half full without trying to convince myself that I am promised a free refill. As I consider my life, my family, and my ministry, I am hopeful for the future. I believe that God has great things in mind for the Steckel family and the Rochester Church. I know that the road ahead will not always be easy, but I can find peace in the fact that regardless of where the road leads, God will be there.

Well, I could go on (and I already have too much), but this is just an update on where life has taken me over the month of August. I miss my wife, I miss my son, and I miss my Rochester family. I can't wait to get back home and reunite with all of them as we continue on this journey of faith that we are pursuing as a family and community.

shine!
Jason

Stick and stones may break my bones...

Why do we have such a hard time controlling our tongue? This week in reCharge we considered James’ words about this subject. Here is what James had to say…

Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. For we all stumble in many ways. And if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body. If we put bits into the mouths of horses so that they obey us, we guide their whole bodies as well. Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things.

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so. Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and salt water? Can a fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a grapevine produce figs? Neither can a salt pond yield fresh water. (James 3:1-12)

It is amazing how a few words can destroy a relationship, a family, or even a church. Like a bit in the mouth of a horse, a rudder on a ship, or a small fire, this small part of our body can change the course of something much bigger.

The old saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me,” is such a lie. We all can likely remember hurtful words that were spoken to us. For some of us, those words may have been spoken years ago, but their sting still hurts. Words have the potential to hurt in ways that sticks and stones never will. Physical wounds usually heal pretty quickly, but verbal wounds can last a lifetime.

When we talk to other people, we must always remember the potential we have to damage someone. We cannot praise God in one moment and curse someone who is created in His image the next. That is an inconsistency that reveals immaturity and contradicts the nature and character of God.

shine!

Jason

Faith, works, and salvation

What is the relationship between faith and works? As we look at what James says in James 2:14-26, we need to begin by seeking an understanding of salvation. Salvation is already, right now, and not yet.

When we are baptized into Christ, we experience the already sense of salvation. In baptism we receive the Holy Spirit, the down payment towards our inheritance (Ephesians 1:13-14). However, we have not “arrived” at that point. We are simply beginning the journey.

The right now aspect of salvation is an ongoing act of transformation. Once we experience the already aspect of salvation, the rest of our lives are committed to God’s continuing transforming of our heart and mind (Romans 12:1-2). If we ever become complacent and stop seeking and growing, we are abandoning God’s desire to save us. But we also know that we will never completely arrive as long as sin exists in the world. So we look forward to a better day.

This not yet aspect of salvation is both the dream we pursue and goal we seek. One day, Jesus will return with a new heaven and a new earth. In this act of restoring Creation, God is promising to make all things new (Revelation 21:1-15). This is the yet unrealized completion of God’s dream. As Christ’s ambassadors, we are called to partner with God in His movement towards the renewal of all things.

When we understand the amazing interplay of the already, right now, and not yet aspects of salvation, we can appreciate the rich relationship between faith and works. James writes in his letter that, “Just as the body is dead without breath, so also faith is dead without good works.” (James 1:26) Good works reveal our reaction to the already aspect of salvation. They engage us in the transformation focus of salvation right now. Works move us towards the not yet act of final salvation that we will experience when Christ returns.

Do our good works earn our salvation? No, but they help us grow in our faith and salvation.

Do our good works reveal our salvation? Absolutely! They are a sign of the change we are experiencing in our hearts and minds.

Faith without works is dead precisely because works are the fruit of faith. Faith, if it is real, must be more than belief. As James says, even the demons believe in God. True faith is active. Active faith is a life-long journey. A tree that isn’t producing fruit is dead. The same is true of a Christian who isn’t producing fruit.

Faith should be producing the kind of fruit that Paul writes about in Galatians 5…love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. If there isn’t fruit, then just like a body without breath, faith without good works is dead.

shine!

Jason

Favoritism

This week in reCharge, we focused on James 2:1-13, where James discusses the idea of favoritism. Here is the text we considered…

My dear brothers and sisters, how can you claim to have faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ if you favor some people over others?

For example, suppose someone comes into your meeting dressed in fancy clothes and expensive jewelry, and another comes in who is poor and dressed in dirty clothes. If you give special attention and a good seat to the rich person, but you say to the poor one, “You can stand over there, or else sit on the floor”—well, doesn’t this discrimination show that your judgments are guided by evil motives?

Listen to me, dear brothers and sisters. Hasn’t God chosen the poor in this world to be rich in faith? Aren’t they the ones who will inherit the Kingdom he promised to those who love him? But you dishonor the poor! Isn’t it the rich who oppress you and drag you into court? Aren’t they the ones who slander Jesus Christ, whose noble name you bear?

Yes indeed, it is good when you obey the royal law as found in the Scriptures: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you favor some people over others, you are committing a sin. You are guilty of breaking the law.

For the person who keeps all of the laws except one is as guilty as a person who has broken all of God’s laws. For the same God who said, “You must not commit adultery,” also said, “You must not murder.” So if you murder someone but do not commit adultery, you have still broken the law.

So whatever you say or whatever you do, remember that you will be judged by the law that sets you free. There will be no mercy for those who have not shown mercy to others. But if you have been merciful, God will be merciful when he judges you.

I wanted to quote the whole passage because there is a powerful message in what James says. As I said on Wednesday night, favoritism can be cancerous to a country, a family, a church, and even a youth group.

Avoiding favoritism doesn’t mean you can’t have close friends. It doesn’t mean you have to have the same level of relationship with everyone.

Avoiding favoritism is much deeper than that. It means that regardless of the depth or level of your relationship with someone, everyone deserves the same level of respect. No one deserves to be gossiped about or treated poorly. As followers of Christ, we are called to treat every person we encounter as a neighbor worthy of our love.

shine!

Jason

We're in a battle

I have spent the last week on campus at Rochester College for Elevate. In one of our evening youth group devotionals, we discussed the fact that we are in a spiritual battle.

A final word: Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil. For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places. (Ephesians 6:10-12)

Our battle is real and it is not for the weak-hearted. We cannot win the battle alone, but only when we rely on God, His power, and the strength we can only find in Christian community. Peter also warns us about our enemy when he writes:

Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. Stand firm against him, and be strong in your faith. (1 Peter 5:8-9)

If we are going to stand and stay alert, it requires us to have a firm foundation. Earlier in his letter to the Ephesians, Paul offered the following prayer:

When I think of all this, I fall to my knees and pray to the Father, the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth. I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong. And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is. May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.

Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think. Glory to him in the church and in Christ Jesus through all generations forever and ever! Amen. (Ephesians 3:14-21)

Following Jesus is not a spectator sport. It requires our involvement and dedication. It requires us to be empowered by the strength of the Holy Spirit, to allow Christ to make his home in our hearts, and to be rooted in the love of God. It is only when we live in the reality of all three of these that we will be made complete. It is not until we daily devote ourselves to time with God that we can find wholeness as God’s mighty power works within us.

shine!

Jason

In pursuit of Jesus

I just finished reading a book by Richard Foster titled, Streams of Living Water: Celebrating the Great Traditions of Christian Faith.  In this book, Foster examines what he calls the six great traditions of the Christian faith: Contemplative, Holiness, Charismatic, Social Justice, Evangelical, and Incarnational.

I appreciated the level of research and reflection that was obviously put into this book. It challenged me to consider some of my own biases and presuppositions. It also challenged me in my own faith. I see areas of my spirituality where I am lacking in faith and zeal.

In the first chapter of his book, Foster shares some thoughts that both convict and comfort me:

One of the best things we can do for one another, then, is to encourage regular immersion in the Gospel narratives, helping each other understand Jesus’ perceptions into life and his counsels for growth and then making constant application to our daily experience. The dimensions of this task are infinite, of course. However, for the sake of our concern here we want to consider how Jesus in his living provides us a clear paradigm for our living, especially as Jesus’ living relates to the several streams of devotion that frame the structure of this book.

I am convinced that we must dedicate a significant amount of our time to the study of the Gospels. This is where we can intimately get to know God in a way that is unlike any other portion of our Bibles. Yes, God’s story and God are the main character throughout the words of Scripture. But only in the Gospel narratives do we encounter the God-Man. It is in these four renderings of the Jesus story that, “the Word became human and made his home among us.” (John 1:14)

If we are going to be Christians, we must know Jesus. The Greek word Χριστιανός (christianos)—meaning "follower of Christ"—comes from Χριστός (christos)—meaning "anointed one"—with an ending borrowed from Latin to denote adhering to, or even belonging to, as in slave ownership.

If we are truly going to be followers of Christ, people who belong to the anointed one, we must devote ourselves to knowing the One whom we follow. This must be the primary task in our lives.

For many of us, following Jesus can often seem more like a hobby than a calling. Like a pick-up game of basketball or scrapbooking, we might do the “Jesus thing” when we have a little spare time. This is not what it means to be a Christian. It means that our devotion, our allegiance, is first and foremost to God. It means that everything else we do, every word we speak, and every thought we entertain, must be in allegiance to the One who we follow. And while we may not reach that goal with perfection, it should be our goal and purpose every day.

shine!

Jason

Do Hard Things

I have been reading the book Do Hard Things by twin brothers Alex & Brett Harris. After reading this book, I feel that it should be a must-read for all teenagers. One of the amazing things about this book is that it is written for teenagers by teenagers. It is a call for a teenage rebellion against low expectations. At the start of the book, Alex and Bret invite readers to explore some radical questions. Let me share them with you here:

• Is it possible that even though teens today have more freedom than any other generation in history, we’re actually missing out on some of the best years of our lives?


• Is it possible that what our culture says about the purpose and potential of the teen years is a lie and that we are its victims?


• Is it possible that our teen years give us a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for huge accomplishments – as individuals and as a generation?


• And finally, what would our lives look like if we set out on a different path entirely – a path that required more effort but promised a lot more rewards?

I am impressed with the wisdom, maturity, and spiritual depth of these two young men. They are challenging their peers to consider something outside themselves and pursue a path that can change the world.

If you have not read this book yet, I would recommend getting a copy and reading it. I am strongly considering a teaching series on Wednesday nights this fall built around the material in this book.

If you want to learn more about Alex and Bret, you can visit their website: www.THEREBELution.com. There you will find their blog as well other information about their life, dreams, and passions.

One of the verses that Alex and Brett quote is 1 Timothy 4:12: “Don’t let anyone think less of you because you are young. Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity.” Often, Christian teenagers are more often being told what not to do than they are what to do. Alex and Brett would argue, and I agree, that Christianity needs to be as much – if not more – about what we do as it is about what we don’t do.

Are there certain behaviors and habits we need to avoid? Absolutely! But if all we do is live to avoid poor choices, we won’t discover the abundant life Jesus speaks of in John 10. Instead, let us consider the words of Paul in 2 Timothy 2:22: “Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.”

shine!

Jason

The Lord's Army

Last Sunday, several teens and I led a class for some of the elementary-aged children. One of the songs we sang with the children was “The Lord’s Army.”

This got me to thinking. How many of us really are in “The Lord’s Army?” You might wonder what I mean, so let me explain.

When you are in the Army, you enlist and basically commit your life to the cause. You spend time training every day and focus on preparing for the battle.

There is also an option to join the Army Reserves. This group commits to one weekend a month and two weeks every year to prepare in the event they are needed.

The question I want us to consider is this: Which one of these reflects our situation in God’s Kingdom?

Are we people who are enrolled in Lord’s Reserves? Do we show up for some weekends and take part in a few weeks of serving on a mission trip or camp.

Or, are we serving in the Lord’s Army? Do we dedicate time every day to training? Are we engaged in spiritual disciplines on a daily basis? Do we seek to make the Kingdom of God our number one priority throughout every day?

When he was writing to Timothy, Paul said the following: Endure hardship with us like a good soldier of Christ Jesus. No one serving as a soldier gets involved in civilian affairs—he wants to please his commanding officer. (2 Timothy 2:3-4)

Paul’s words are as relevant to us as they were two thousand years ago. We have to decide what kind of soldiers we want to be in God’s Kingdom. We can be in the reserves, showing up once in a while in the event we might be needed sometime in the future. Or, we can be committed to the army. We can be the kind of people who look for opportunities every day to further the cause of the Kingdom of God.

As Paul finished some of his last recorded words to Timothy, he offers the following words of encouragement…

For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time has come for my departure. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing. (2 Timothy 4:6-8)

Paul lived in wholehearted devotion to the Kingdom. It was his first priority, regardless of where he was or what he faced. His words were backed up by action. Let us be the kind of people who don’t just sing about the Lord’s Army, but ones who live it as well.

shine!

Jason

Like a morning fog

It’s hard to believe that another year has passed and another group of students is entering 7^th grade and becoming a part of our youth group. This will be the fifth year I have witnessed a new group of students entering the youth ministry and a group of seniors graduating from high school. The seventh graders I met when I moved here are about to become seniors. That is crazy!

This summer our lessons for reCharge will focus on the book of James. This is a very practical letter in which James offers a lot of good advice for living a life of faith. In James 4:14, he writes, “How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow? Your life is like the morning fog—it’s here a little while, then it’s gone.”

What truth this verse holds. So often we get so wrapped up in the moment that we miss the big picture. I think part of the point of what James is trying to say is that we need to look at the big picture so we can more fully embrace the present.

There is nothing wrong with planning for the future or looking forward to something. However, we should never forget that today is the only thing that is for sure. In the grand scope of the world and time, our life is but a blip. But it is a blip with immense importance to God and His Kingdom.

We must learn to grasp our insignificance and significance at the same time. It can be hard to admit that in 100 years almost no one will remember us. In a culture that tells us to pursue fame and fortune above everything else, the reality is that most of us will not find either one.

Think about this… What were your great-great-grandparents names? I would imagine most of us couldn’t answer that question without asking a parent or grandparent. Now tell me what that person did for a living. That’s probably even a little harder.

So what’s the point?

I believe that the point is that in a few years, the details of today will not matter. However, the impact of the decisions you make could last for years. There are families who still suffer relational and emotional struggles because of the actions of a family member two and three generations ago. Whether it was abuse, an addiction, or some other choice, those are the things that last. Someone may not know what the decision or action was, but I am willing to bet that they are feeling its impact.

If we are going to be Kingdom-people, we need to look beyond ourselves. We need to take action based on what will match up with God’s dreams and aspirations. Rather than seeking something that satisfies us in the short-term, look for things that will impact the future. Then, even if your life is but a morning fog, it can leave behind something that lasts much longer.

shine!
Jason

Remembering the reason

Sometimes I feel like we have gotten away from the reason for holidays For example, this weekend is Memorial Day. It was created over a century ago to remember those who died in our nation’s service. All over the country on Monday, people will assemble at cemeteries and other places to honor those who have given their lives to serve our nation.

However, many people may not even take the time to think about these fallen heroes. They will rejoice at an extra day off of work. They will engage in a variety of activities that aren’t bad at all, but may have nothing to do with the purpose for the holiday.

I am not saying that there is anything wrong with having cookouts, spending time with friends, or enjoying a day off on Memorial Day. I have, and plan to continue, to do these kinds of things on those days. However, I make a concerted effort every year to attend a Memorial Day service in my community.

How often are we guilty of treating church the same way? How often do we assemble to see our friends and participate in some religious rituals without stopping to reflect on the significance of what our assembly is really about?

I hear parents who are more concerned about their children wanting to have fun at church than growing in their faith. Youth ministries often pour much more energy into making an event cool than thinking about how to encourage students to grow spiritually. Churches sometimes seem to create worship services that are designed more to attract new people than to call the existing members to a deeper engagement in the Kingdom of God.

Don’t get me wrong. I want to provide opportunities for children that aren’t boring and dry. Youth ministry should be relevant and engaging. Churches should be seeking ways to reach out to others. However, should those things be elevated to a higher level of significance that being Kingdom-focused and Christ-shaped?

When we gather as Christ-followers, we should rejoice at our relationships and engage in spiritual practices that form us as people of God. But at the same time, let us not forget the ultimate focus and purpose of our existence, to engage in the life-altering, world-changing call of God to participate in his mission. We are called to be people who make things right in the world. We do that through relationships. We are molded by our spiritual practices. But we must never allow the mission to be left out of the methods.

Just like a holiday where the real purpose is forgotten in the midst of parties and self-serving activities, assembling with God’s people should be a social event where we never forget or neglect the significant spiritual purposes that call us together.

shine!
Jason

Free to be selfless

It often seems as though we love freedom, but we’re not so fond of responsibility. On a broader, societal scale, I personally believe this is one of the underlying issues that we face a nation. People want to be able to do what they want without having to face the consequences or responsibility that often come with it.

This idea of selfishness, even in the church, is not a new occurrence. In his letter to the Corinthian church, Paul wrote, "All things are lawful," but not all things are helpful. "All things are lawful," but not all things build up. Let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor.” (1 Corinthians 10:23-24)

It seems as though Paul was dealing with a situation where people in the church wanted to use their freedom to do what they wanted, without really considering other people.

In another letter, Paul says, “For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another.” (Galatians 5:13-15)

So often in the church, we look more like the world than we are willing to admit. We want things our way, whether that’s style of worship, meeting our “needs,” or catering to a host of other desires we have. If we aren’t careful, we sound more like a group of individuals than a body of believers.

Jesus dealt with this attitude among his twelve disciples. When the mother of James and John asked for her sons to have a special place of honor, this is how Jesus responded…

Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave—just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Matthew 20:25-28)

Unfortunately, many people act as though church is another place to exercise their right to have what they want. They often exercise their freedom without considering their responsibility to the rest of the body. Jesus said, “Every kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and every city or household divided against itself will not stand.” (Matthew 12:25) While he wasn’t referring directly to the church, his point stands true for us today. When the church is full of people who fight for their individual rights, that will lead to division. And a church divided will be ruined and will not stand. This kind of selfishness is slowly destroying our nation and a lot of churches. If we are really going to be followers of Jesus, it’s probably time for us to listen to his advice and stop being so self-centered.

shine!
Jason

Remembering a fallen soldier

On Thursday, May 20, I had the honor of offering the invocation for the Michigan State Senate. Following the prayer, I went upstairs and sat in the gallery. A few minutes later, one of the state senators stepped to a microphone and began to read a dedication for Army Sgt. Lucas Beachnaw, who was killed in Afghanistan on January 13, 2010. As this senator read the dedication, I realized I was sitting next to several members of the Beachnaw family.
It was a solemn and honoring moment for the family of a young man who, at the age of 23, sacrificed his life for his country. I can't imagine how it would feel to be the mother of this young man. I felt honored to be present for this sacred moment.
Sgt. Beachnaw was a brother and a son. His absence surely leaves a void in the lives of those who knew and loved him. While I never had an opportunity to meet him, it was evident that there are many who miss this young man.
War is a complex thing and people have argued and will continue to argue about the need for war. My purpose in this post is not to discuss of debate the merits of war. Rather, it is to remind us that every war comes at a cost, and that cost often involves human lives. Some lose their lives and others suffer physical and emotional injuries that they carry for the rest of their lives.
I honor Sgt. Beachnaw for his sacrifice. I pray for his friends and family as they continue to deal with their loss. Let us never forget those who suffer from the consequences of war, both the soldiers and their friends and family.

shine!
Jason

Invocation

Here is the text of the invocation I delivered at the Michigan Senate on Thursday, May 20, 2010:


Father, today we begin by praying for those in this chamber and their families. We thank you for the loved ones who sacrifice time with these men and women so they are able to engage in the work of the senate. Protect the husbands, wives, children, and others who are back home.

Father, we also thank you for the millions of citizens across the state of Michigan who are represented by those who sit here. I ask you to remind these senators about those whom they represent as they debate, deliberate, and decide on the legislation before them. Help them to always be mindful of those whom they have been elected to represent.

Father, please provide wisdom for these men and women. Let them lean on eternal wisdom from above that can only be provided by You. Help them to look beyond themselves and provide them with the ability to discern what is best, not for their self interests, but for the people of the State of Michigan.

Father, I ask that the dialogues and debates that occur today will be carried out with a measure of civility. Let words of passion be tempered with humility. May words of disagreement be softened by compassion. Allow anger to be resolved without malice and forgiveness to be the rule rather than the exception.

Father, in all the laws that are written, debated, and voted upon, allow there to be a measure of justice. May the laws this body approves consider those who are overlooked, forgotten, neglected, or otherwise mistreated. Let divine justice, the justice that sets the world right, be the justice that emerges from this chamber.

In addition, Father, we ask for mercy to be at the heart of the business of this body. While we acknowledge the importance of law, let us never forget the importance of mercy. Law without mercy leads to oppression. Mercy without law leads to disorder. Let us seek a balance of justice and mercy that protects all, serves all, and provides everyone with the ability to pursue the dreams you have planted in their hearts.

Father, as these men and women begin the work of their day, help them, above all, to remember that they have been granted a unique and special opportunity. They have been chosen by their neighbors across this great state to determine the laws that will govern us. Help them to embrace the gravity and significance of this task and not become absorbed in their own political preservation. Allow the decisions made in this chamber to be about the future of the state of Michigan, not the political aspirations of the men and women assembled in this room.

We offer this prayer in the name of the One who created us and provided us with the ability to serve and love others; the God who shows us grace and mercy and asks us to do the same to one another. Amen.

Being Jesus in a diverse world

I have really enjoyed the first half of our month-long class, “Being Jesus in a Diverse World.” It has been interesting to learn more about Judaism and Islam, as well as listening to and interacting with a Rabbi and an Imam.
In my opinion, one of the most important things about our Wednesday night guests has been the ability to associate a person with each faith. One of the main causes of hostility between religious groups is the dehumanization of those of the other faith. When we can get to know individuals who practice a certain faith and get to know them, we often get a different view of their religious tribe.
An expert in the law asked Jesus, "And who is my neighbor?" (Lk 10:29)
Jesus did not answer with a statement; He answered with a story…
“A Jewish man was traveling on a trip from Jerusalem to Jericho, and he was attacked by bandits. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him up, and left him half dead beside the road.
“By chance a priest came along. But when he saw the man lying there, he crossed to the other side of the road and passed him by. A Temple assistant walked over and looked at him lying there, but he also passed by on the other side.
“Then a despised Samaritan came along, and when he saw the man, he felt compassion for him. Going over to him, the Samaritan soothed his wounds with olive oil and wine and bandaged them. Then he put the man on his own donkey and took him to an inn, where he took care of him. The next day he handed the innkeeper two silver coins, telling him, ‘Take care of this man. If his bill runs higher than this, I’ll pay you the next time I’m here.’
“Now which of these three would you say was a neighbor to the man who was attacked by bandits?” Jesus asked.
The man replied, “The one who showed him mercy.”
Then Jesus said, “Yes, now go and do the same.” (Luke 10:30-37)
Being a neighbor is not determined by what you believe. Being a neighbor is based on your religious preferences. We are all neighbors because we are all human beings created in the image of God.
One of the lessons we hope to learn out of this month’s classes is to have a better appreciation for those of different faiths. This does not mean we are going to embrace their beliefs or water down our faith. In actuality, this is an opportunity to more fully live out what we say we believe.
If we are truly going to love our neighbors as Jesus asks us to, our neighbors must include Jews, Muslims, Hindus, and Buddhists. If Jews in Jesus’ day were asked to look at Samaritans as neighbors, then Christians today have a long way to go to live out the world Jesus imagined. Jews would have probably looked at Samaritans like many Christians look at Muslims today. I believe that, for many of us, these few weeks are a good step in the right direction of learning what it means to be Jesus in a diverse world.

shine!
Jason

The Big 4-0!

On this day in 1970, I entered the world. The last four decades have been filled with joy and sorrow, victories and failures. I have seen relatives born. I have seen loved one die. I've gotten married. I have a child. I have graduated from college, twice. I have changed addresses over a dozen times. I have managed teenagers and college students at Cedar Point, sold insurance for MetLife, sold Konica copiers, and - for the last decade - I have ministered to people in Ohio and Michigan. (I am sure I have forgotten some important aspects of my life, but I am getting old, so cut me some slack.)
Regardless of where I have lived and what I have done, one thing has never changed. God has always been present. Even in the first half of my life, when I barely acknowledged His existence, God was faithful. He pursued me as I ignored Him. He whispered in my ear as I began to look for Him. He led me places I never would have imagined as I began to follow Him. He has given me opportunities beyond compare as I have served His church.
Forty seems like it could be old. Many people - some joking and some serious - commiserate at 40 because it marks a significant step towards getting older. In a society where youth rules the day, getting old is often viewed as a bad thing. I actually look at turning forty as a golden opportunity. It's a chance to look back at what I have experienced, where I have failed, and what I have learned. It's a chance to look ahead to see what else God has in store for me.
Forty really isn't that bad. Before he turned 40, Moses hadn't seen the Burning Bush, hadn't led God's people out of Egypt, and hadn't seen the promised land. He had so much life ahead of him. I feel the same way. Rather than focusing so much on what is behind me, I am hoping to reflect on my past and focus on what God has in store in the future. If God could use an 80 year old man to lead millions out of captivity, I am sure he can do something with this "old" guy.

shine!
Jason

It takes a village

As I think about Mother's Day, I think about the African proverb, "It takes a village to raise a child." While much has been made about these words since Hillary Clinton used them as a title for a book and in her campaign, I want to consider them in light of the call for the church to be a place of community.
While our society has embraced this proverb through some of our actions, I believe we have abandoned some key elements of this attitude at the same time. When it comes to schools, sports teams, various activities, and even spiritual formation, many parents have looked to the village to raise their child. However, we often miss what I believe is an important part of being a village.
Parents seem to have become defensive when people actually try to act as a village. While I am not one to look back at the "good old days" with blind delusions of awe and wonder, I do sense we have lost an important part of what it means to be a village. We are often unable to criticize (constructively) or discipline (appropriately) other people's children. Whether it's a school official, a coach, or even a fellow church member, many of us have gotten to the point where we lash out at anyone who questions the behavior or attitude of our children.
While I am not sure what all has caused this shift, I am pretty sure it has not been for our good.
Those of us in the church should embrace and, if we have abandoned it, return to the idea that we are a village. While children have one mother who is ultimately responsible for rearing them, the church is full of mothers (and fathers) who can and should be helping with the rearing of every child.
I will admit that this is challenging for me at times. It's not always enjoyable as a parent to hear that your child behaved in a certain way. Sometimes it challenges my parenting, which can make me defensive. But if my primary concern is the development of my child, and not my pride or the way people perceive me, then I will receive those words with humility and openness.
Maybe this gets to the heart of one of the biggest deficiencies in the church today, the unwillingness to be confronted about much of anything. As much as my child needs other adults to observe and correct behavior and attitudes, I need the same thing. If the church could be a place where people are invited to lovingly confront others for behaviors and attitudes that don't reflect the nature and character of Christ, maybe we could experience a new level of spiritual development.
It doesn't just take a village to raise a child; it takes a village for each of us to grow as disciples of the One who made us a village in the first place.

shine!
Jason

Surprise!

It’s hard to believe that in less than a week I will turn 40!
I wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who was a part of my surprise party last weekend! It was truly a blessing to spend the evening with so many of you. Thank you for the gifts, cards, food, and most importantly, your presence.
The last four and half years have been some of the best years of my life, and much of that joy is because of everyone at Rochester Church! We have laughed together and cried together. We have celebrated and mourned together. We have rejoiced in new life and suffered through death and loss.
As I look back on the last four decades of my life, it is amazing to see all of the ways that God has been leading me and all of the relationships God has made it possible for me to enjoy.
As I think about so many of you who have become an important part of my life, let me share with you the words of the apostle Paul. I believe that they reflect my thoughts about so many of you (except for the imprisonment part…haha):
Every time I think of you, I give thanks to my God. Whenever I pray, I make my requests for all of you with joy, for you have been my partners in spreading the Good News about Christ from the time you first heard it until now. And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.
So it is right that I should feel as I do about all of you, for you have a special place in my heart. You share with me the special favor of God, both in my imprisonment and in defending and confirming the truth of the Good News. God knows how much I love you and long for you with the tender compassion of Christ Jesus.
I pray that your love will overflow more and more, and that you will keep on growing in knowledge and understanding. For I want you to understand what really matters, so that you may live pure and blameless lives until the day of Christ’s return. May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation—the righteous character produced in your life by Jesus Christ—for this will bring much glory and praise to God. (Philippians 1:3-11)
Thanks again to all of you for your various signs of appreciation. I was touched by your thoughtfulness and willingness to sacrifice an evening on my behalf. Your love never ceases to amaze me! Michelle, Matthew, and I consider it a blessing from God to call all of you friends and family.

shine!
Jason

O Caminho Church in Niteroi, Brazil

Check out this video from the O Caminho Church in Niteroi, Brazil. I met one of the members of the team, Juliana, when she was a member at a church in Belo Horizonte. It is amazing to see how God is using her now to minister to her native country.

Do I listen?

Do you have a hard time listening?
I know that I often have a hard time listening. Sure, I can hear. But do I listen?
I often find myself in conversation thinking about my response before the other person is done talking. So rather than really listening, I am half-listening. This is even true in my relationship with God. There are often times when I want to answer God or ask God something before I have really taken time to listen.
The psalmist has a powerful message that reminds us who God is and why it is important for us to listen to Him…
God is our refuge and strength,
a very present help in trouble.
Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way,
though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea,
though its waters roar and foam,
though the mountains tremble at its swelling.
There is a river whose streams make glad the city of God,
the holy habitation of the Most High.
God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved;
God will help her when morning dawns.
The nations rage, the kingdoms totter;
he utters his voice, the earth melts.
The LORD of hosts is with us;
the God of Jacob is our fortress.
Come, behold the works of the LORD,
how he has brought desolations on the earth.
He makes wars cease to the end of the earth;
he breaks the bow and shatters the spear;
he burns the chariots with fire.
"Be still, and know that I am God.?
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth!"
The LORD of hosts is with us;
the God of Jacob is our fortress. (Psalm 46)
Here we read a brief description of the power of our God. We are reminded of his strength, his peace, and his protection.
So often in life we feel helpless or hopeless and we make ourselves even busier in an attempt to run or hide from our problems. If we listen to the words of Psalm 46, we discover a different approach. When we can be still, we can hear God. In the midst of all of the noise in the world, God seeks a place to speak into our lives. If you feel overwhelmed or burdened, be still…

shine!
Jason

Fasting, silence, and Scripture

After listening to Patrick Mead's sermon this past Sunday, I have decided to dedicate this week to fasting, silence, and Scripture for myself and the Rochester Church. We are in the midst of a season of change, and I am seeking to hear God's voice as we travel along this journey into God's preferred future for the family of believers that assemble here.
I am inviting you to join me in this spiritual adventure this week. Here is what I am doing:

Each day I will fast from food from 6:00am until 6:00pm.

In lieu of lunch, I am dedicating approximately 45 minutes to silence and Scripture. Each day, I will sit in silence for 20 minutes, read Acts 20:24 several times slowly and deliberately, then engage in another 20 minutes of silence.

You do not have to fast from the same thing as me or in the same manner that I am. However, I do invite you to fast from something this week. You could fast from your iPod, a certain food, television, or a host of other things.
Having just finished my first 45 minutes of silence and Scripture, I can tell you it was refreshing. It was interesting as I re-encountered noise how much I noticed every little noise. Sometimes - almost all the time I would argue - we are surrounded by so much noise, we miss hearing some of the most important things.
Let me finish with some thoughts from M. Basil Pennington:

Silence is the very presence of God - always there. But activity hides it. We need to leave activity long enough to discover the Presence - then we can return to activity with it.
Stillness is present throughout the run at every point. But if one only runs, he never knows stillness.
God is present in all beings, but we will never be aware of him if we never stop and leave behind all beings to be to him.

shine!
Jason

Hearing voices

There are many voices calling for our attention. We must always be asking ourselves if we are listening to the right voices. In John’s gospel, Jesus says the following:
“I tell you the truth, anyone who sneaks over the wall of a sheepfold, rather than going through the gate, must surely be a thief and a robber! But the one who enters through the gate is the shepherd of the sheep. The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep recognize his voice and come to him. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. After he has gathered his own flock, he walks ahead of them, and they follow him because they know his voice. They won’t follow a stranger; they will run from him because they don’t know his voice.”
Those who heard Jesus use this illustration didn’t understand what he meant, so he explained it to them: “I tell you the truth, I am the gate for the sheep. All who came before me were thieves and robbers. But the true sheep did not listen to them. Yes, I am the gate. Those who come in through me will be saved. They will come and go freely and will find good pastures. The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.” (John 10:1-10)
We must always be careful about which voices become the dominant ones in our lives. In my experience, I have witnessed Christians who act in a way they think is appropriate because they have allowed themselves to become used to the wrong voices.
Jesus said, “They won’t follow a stranger; they will run from him because they don’t know his voice.” Unfortunately, some Christians listen to Jesus’ voice so seldom that it sounds like a stranger’s voice to them.
If we want to be able to follow the voice of God, we must constantly be listening to see what that voice sounds like.
In Colossians 3:16, Paul writes, “Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts.” It’s not until the message fills us that it becomes a familiar voice.
When my closest friends call me on the phone, I can often tell who it is by the sound of their voice. However, if someone I don’t know well calls, I typically can’t tell who it is.
If our conversations with God are infrequent and brief, we will find it very difficult to know His voice. It may even be that His voice will sound like a stranger. If we want to discover the rich and satisfying life that Jesus talks about in John 10, maybe we better start listening to Him more often so we can tell which voices belong to God and which don’t.

shine!
Jason

Those who are lost

In our Wednesday night time this week, we meditated on and discussed Jesus’ words in Luke 19:10…
“For the Son of Man came to seek and save those who are lost.”
One of the things that we can overlook is that Jesus does not stop seeking and saving us once we are baptized. I think we often fall into the trap of looking at saved and lost as a “black and white” issue. While it is certainly true that we are saved when we are baptized into Christ, that is not where the saving stops. Salvation is both an event and a process.
The event that occurs at baptism enters us into a covenant with God that promises eternal life. There is something very significant and important about that event. It gives us hope and a future.
At the same time, anyone who has been a Christian for any length of time knows that at baptism we do not suddenly become people who are never tempted, never make mistakes, and don’t need to be saved any longer. Salvation is also a process because we still need to be transformed and conformed to the image of the Son on a daily basis.
When it comes to following Jesus, being saved and lost is a “full-color” issue; it’s not just “black and white.” While we have the security of God’s promises as Christians, we also continue to struggle with life. Here are a few examples I shared with my students on Wednesday…
When a close friend or family member dies suddenly, you feel lost.
When your parents tell you they are planning to get divorced, you feel lost.
When someone starts a rumor that spreads through the school and damages your reputation, you feel lost.
The list could go on and on of situations where even those who are committed followers of Jesus can feel lost. While being lost can describe our relationship with God, it can also describe where we find ourselves in life at any given time. As I said earlier, being saved is both an event and a process.
Christians who are allowing themselves to be conformed to the image of Jesus should be living out his desire to “seek and save those who are lost.” This means that not only do we help lead people to the event of salvation through baptism, we also stand beside each other through life as we go through the process of salvation on a daily basis.
This calls us to a higher level of commitment with one another. We must trust one another and hold each other accountable. We must be willing to share our struggles while not allowing one another to be comfortable with our sins. We must pray for one another, challenge one another, and encourage one another.
Seeking and saving the lost is not for the timid. It is a radical commitment to a relationship with God and others.

shine!
Jason

Under a bridge

I just spent a week driving from Michigan to St. Louis to Jenks, Oklahama, to Abilene, Texas. Then from Abilene to Oklahoma City to Searcy, Arkansas, to Nashville, and back to Michigan. Sound tiring? Maybe a little. But at the same time, it was a refreshing time to connect with old friends and make new ones.
One of the coolest groups of new friends we made were at Tent City in Nashville. We were able to go with Doug Sanders, a friend of mine in Nashville, and visit a community of those who are homeless. They allowed us to come onto their turf under the highway and spend time with them. We were able to talk with them, laugh with them, and cry with them.
As I reflect on our time with our new friends, the following words of Jesus came to mind…
'Then the righteous will answer him, saying, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?' And the King will answer them, 'Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.' (Matthew 25:37-40)
Every time I read this passage I am reminded of an important lesson. When we seek to serve others, we must always have our ears, eyes, and hearts open towards God. It is often in those moments that we see God in the faces of those we serve as much as or even more than they see God in our faces.
When we humbly seek to serve others and recognize that we need God as much as those around us who are “in need,” it can change the way we view everything. Jesus said it well near the start of his ministry. This is the way Matthew records it in his gospel (Matthew 5:3-8):
Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.
Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
May there be the words on our lips, the intentions of our hearts, and the passions of our lives. For when we truly seek to live out the Kingdom of God in and around us, God will do incredible things. It is when we pursue the Kingdom that we be able to see God in every part of our lives and every person that we encounter, even a homeless man under a bridge in Nashville, Tennessee.

shine!
Jason

Now what do we do?

Most of the earliest manuscripts of the Gospel of Mark that have been found, end at Mark 16:8. Here is how Mark 16:1-8 reads and how the early Christians would have encountered the end of the story…
When the Sabbath was past, Mary Magdalene and Mary the mother of James and Salome bought spices, so that they might go and anoint him. And very early on the first day of the week, when the sun had risen, they went to the tomb. And they were saying to one another, "Who will roll away the stone for us from the entrance of the tomb?" And looking up, they saw that the stone had been rolled back— it was very large. And entering the tomb, they saw a young man sitting on the right side, dressed in a white robe, and they were alarmed. And he said to them, "Do not be alarmed. You seek Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified. He has risen; he is not here. See the place where they laid him. But go, tell his disciples and Peter that he is going before you to Galilee. There you will see him, just as he told you." And they went out and fled from the tomb, for trembling and astonishment had seized them, and they said nothing to anyone, for they were afraid.
Here we encounter a very unique end to the story of the resurrection.
As we reflect on the significance of the resurrection event, Mark’s telling of the story leaves us with a lack of closure. There is no ascension. We do not read about them seeing the body of the risen Christ. As a matter of fact, they are afraid. They don’t know what is next or what happened for sure.
I believe that we have often become so comfortable with the resurrection story that we miss the tension that it brings. We miss the story of the death of the man they thought would save them. We miss the idea that many of these people had lost hope when Jesus died on the cross. They didn’t know the end of the story. They didn’t expect a crucified and resurrected Messiah.
Today as we focus on the resurrection of Jesus, take time to think back to what it must have felt like to be one of Jesus’ followers then. Think about how the two women must have felt as they discovered that Jesus’ tomb had been opened. They were not excited. They were alarmed. They were trembling. They were afraid.
Is that ever how we react to the empty tomb? Or do we just take it for granted? A story we have heard most of our lives.
Allow yourself to go back to that day. Stand there with the women as they wrestle with the news. Jesus has been raised from the dead. He is no longer in the tomb. What does that mean? What is the significance? Now what do we do?

shine!
Jason

Intimacy through reconciliation

Our brokenness and unwillingness to forgive ourselves and forgive others is one of the greatest hindrances to intimacy.
For many of us, the biggest barrier between us and other people is undealt with anger, bitterness, and grudges. We are often either unwilling or unable to forgive someone who has wronged us. We read passages like Matthew 18:21-22 and wonder how we could ever do this.
Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?" Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.
I think that the parable Jesus tells during this conversation with Peter gives us a glimpse of what Jesus has in mind…
"Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. And since he could not pay, his master ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.' And out of pity for him, the master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. But when that same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii, and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, 'Pay what you owe.' So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you.' He refused and went and put him in prison until he should pay the debt. When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that had taken place. Then his master summoned him and said to him, 'You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?' And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt. So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart." (Matthew 18:23-35)
While I believe that Jesus is talking primarily about the religious leaders of his day who were very judgmental towards others, I also believe there is a lesson in this parable for you and me.
As long as we refuse to forgive those who wrong us, we will find it impossible to truly receive God’s forgiveness. While we are offered something we cannot possibly purchase, we must be willing to receive and share the reconciliation that God offers us.

shine!
Jason

A Titanic misunderstanding

A renewed doctrine of salvation fundamentally alters the way we view mission. Instead of seeking to help people board the life-raft (church) on the sinking Titanic (the world), we are called to work with God in saving the whole ship. The "Titanic" theology that assumes we are simply trying to save souls misses the boat (pun intended). We cannot desert the ship.
The mission of the church is to renew the world with God, knowing that one day God will make all things new. In the meantime, the church works as an extension of God to bring renewal now. We live in the already/not yet tension of God's inbreaking future and save the people, not from the world, but for the renewal of the world.
N.T. Wright is right when he says, "the way forward is to rediscover a true eschatology." (Surprised by Hope, 264) If we want to move towards God's future, we must understand where that future is heading. If our understanding of the eschaton is destruction and desertion of the world, we will marginalize the world. If, instead, the eschaton is renewal and redemption of the world, we will engage the world and join what God is already starting to do here. This is a fundamentally different approach to the mission of the church and, ultimately and essentially, the mission of God.

shine!
Jason

Drive

This weekend at Illuminate our theme has been “Drive.” Since I am writing this in advance of the weekend, I am leaning on the Spirit’s leading to mesh this with David’s lessons. I know that the key passage he will be using (used) this weekend is 2 Corinthians 2:14-15…
For Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again.
If we are compelled by Christ’s love, that means we are driven by something working in us and among us. We shouldn’t wait for a youth minister, preacher, or someone else to push us. We should be led by the Spirit of God. As Paul says in Romans 8:9-11, You, however, are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if in fact the Spirit of God dwells in you. Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to him. But if Christ is in you, although the body is dead because of sin, the Spirit is life because of righteousness. If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you.
This means our focus as Christians is not to do what is right. Rather, we are called to pursue the One who is righteous. When we focus on works, we miss the point. That would be like pushing your car. When we are filled and led by the Spirit, it’s like having a tank full of gas and using the accelerator. While not a perfect analogy, I hope it makes the point.
If our Christianity is about trying to do the right things without the righteousness of God living in us through the Spirit, it feels like pushing a car without gas. When we allow God’s Spirit to dwell in us, connecting with and pursing God’s will can be much easier.
That doesn’t mean things will be easier, it means that following God will be easier in the sense that it will be more clear. Just like driving a car through mud can still be difficult, pushing a car through mud is virtually impossible. So it is with us and the Spirit of God.
At the same time, we cannot forget that there is an essential communal nature of God’s work. God’s greatest power and work come when we live as the body of Christ. God himself works in community as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Can we expect – as human beings created in the image of God – to function any differently?
This means that to be compelled, driven, by Christ’s love we must embody that love towards God, other Christians, and every other human being we encounter. Without the love of Christ in us, through us, and among us, we will find it difficult to allow that love to drive us.

shine!
Jason