Saturday, April 11, 2009
Outside the walls
There’s something else that happened during our prayer time that I want to share with you. Overlooking the arena where we were having chapel, there is a room that has floor to ceiling windows.
While we were in the arena with dimmed lights and experiencing prayer, there was a group of people enjoying a luncheon in that room. The bright light and moving bodies was a bit of a distraction since it was clearly visible to all who were a part of the chapel.
It made we wonder how many of us are often like the people at the luncheon, who seemed oblivious to the hundreds of students sitting just outside their window.
How often is God at work in plain view around us and we completely miss it? How many of us get so wrapped up in our days that we don’t see what God is doing right under our noses?
I often hear people ask, “Where is God?” The reality is that often God is already at work, even in the messiest of situations.
The problem is two-fold. First of all, like the people at the luncheon, we can be so consumed by what we want to do, that we miss out on what God is doing all around us.
The other problem is that we want God to work in ways we like or are comfortable with. But that’s often not how God works.
Jesus irritated the religious leaders of his day because he interacted with prostitutes, tax collectors, Samaritans, adulterers, lepers, and a host of other people who were considered “unclean” by those who ascribed to the religious status quo.
Jesus is calling us to a radical way of living. A way of life that calls us to abandon our selfish desires, allow God to transform us from the inside out, and engage a world in need of salvation.
Maybe it’s time to look outside the walls and see what God is doing all around us.
shine!
Jason
Thursday, April 02, 2009
Don't wrestle alone
Unfortunately, that’s not how it works. Yes, there is an aspect of our spiritual life which includes personal responsibility and choices. Yes, ultimately, we must make the decisions and deal with the consequences of our behavior. But God’s dream is not the American dream. God’s dream is echoed again and again throughout Scripture. God’s dream is about relationship.
In Deuteronomy 6, God says that we must love God and love our neighbor. Jesus echoes those very words in Matthew 22. James states that true religion is caring for widows and orphans, keeping yourself pure. God’s dream can only be realized in relationship. Relationship with God and relationship with one another.
This is just as true in our battle with sin. In Romans 7, Paul describes the challenge that even followers of Christ face in their battle with sin. Paul says, “I want to do what is right, but I can’t. I want to do what is good, but I don’t. I don’t want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway.” (Romans 7:18-19)
Can you relate to this? I know I can. It’s interesting that I struggle the most with sin when I try so hard to do it on my own.
Do you want to overcome sin? The answer is simple, but not easy. It begins by having a close relationship with God that includes tapping into the power of the Holy Spirit. It is further strengthened by surrounding yourself with Spirit-filled people who can encourage you and help you in your struggle.
Both of these are uncomfortable at times. When I am wrestling with sin is when I am most tempted to back away from God and fellow believers. But if we believe Paul’s words, that is the time it is more important to rely on those relationships.
shine!
Jason
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Paralyzed by the past
Whether I am looking at my own life or the lives of others, so many people are held captive by their past.
I have stood behind the bars of past mistakes. I have felt the imprisonment of regrets. I have experienced the hate, anger, guilt, and shame that result from poor decisions and unpleasant experiences.
My use of the past tense does not mean that I am completely free of those things. If I am completely honest, there are still times that I struggle with my past. I have times when I look back and feel the emotional and spiritual paralysis beginning to seep back into my life.
God never intended for us to look back. I think that is the real lesson in the story of Lot’s wife in Genesis 19. Jesus actually referred to this story when he told his disciples, “Remember what happened to Lot’s wife! If you cling to your life, you will lose it, and if you let your life go, you will save it.” (Luke 17:32-33)
Throughout history, God’s desire has been that we leave our past behind and look ahead to what God has in store. He wants our lives to be more than we can imagine. His dreams are bigger than our dreams. His hopes for us far exceed what we can imagine.
The apostle Paul may have put it best when he wrote, “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:12-14)
Don’t look back. Don’t be held captive by past mistakes or situations. Whether it’s choices you have made or things that have happened to you that are beyond your control, God is calling you into a better future.
This journey may not be easy and it’s nearly impossible to make the trip alone. We need each other to help us along the way. God called us into community for a purpose, and part of that purpose is to create a place of safety and encouragement where we can be there for one another.
Don’t look back.
Don’t be held captive.
Look forward to the incredible future God has in store for you.
We usually can’t see what the future holds, but when we trust God and lean on one another, we will move closer to the hope and healing that can only be found in Jesus Christ.
shine!
Jason
Saturday, March 28, 2009
An alternative community
Today, in discussion about the nature of church leadership, there is little theological wrestling with the questions of how to form or socialize a people into an alternative community. On the contrary, there is a growing emphasis on how to help seekers feel they belong in a congregation without any expectations or demands on their lives.
It is a strange twist of thinking to watch this kind of conversation. In the time of Tertullianm someone wanting to belong to the church had to go through a rigorous period of training focused on behavior (how daily life was actually lived). In other words, to belong to the new community of Jesus, a person was mentored in practicing change in habits. Today leaders talk about the need to create a safe, non-threatening, low threshold of belonging in order to draw people into the church. Note the two radically different ways in which the same language is being used. These approaches suggest contrasting sources of understanding. In the latter case and in our contemporary context, the source of this thinking in not a theologically, biblically formed imagination but the latest marking strategies that come from polls and studies about what people are looking for when they want to join a group. This is not to suggest that we not seek to welcome people into our churches. It is to point out the distinct sources of our leadership imagination today.
A little later, they wrote:
The Church entered the long period of Christendom and the focus of leadership shifted from formation of a people as a alternative society of God's future to oversight of orthodoxy, proper administration of the sacraments, and regulation of spiritualized and privatized ethical practices increasingly disconnected from any biblical or theological understanding of the ecclesia as the people of God.
I feel that in our efforts to spread the Kingdom we have lost some of the uniqueness of the Kingdom. We are called to be separate from the world. This doesn't mean we hide out and disengage from the world. Rather, it means we engage the world from a different perspective. But it seems that we have focused more on looking like the world and engaging the world on their terms instead.
Just last night I was talking with a teenager about the struggles of being a Christian teen. As I think about our conversation in the context of what I read last night, sometimes I feel like we have missed it. Instead of equipping students (and, just as importantly) their parents to develop spiritual habits and disciplines, we have focused on creating events and ministries that will appeal to today's teenagers.
Don't get me wrong. I love teenagers and spend most everyday thinking about how to reach them with the love of Jesus. But, in the words of one of my favorite college professors at Harding, "What you win them with, you win them to."
It feels like we have turned Christianity more into staying out of hell than living for heaven. For many, the question seems to have become, ""What do I need to do to get to heaven?" instead of "What does it mean to follow Jesus?"
I feel like I am beginning to ramble. There is so much going on right now in my mind as I wrestle with the words I read. God, hear my cry. Give me discernment. Where is it that you are calling God's people today as we face an unknown future? How can we move from being admirers of Jesus to committing our lives to him as his followers?
shine!
Jason
Friday, March 27, 2009
Camp out
You might think I am crazy to have a camp out in March in Michigan, but it's not exactly what you think.
From time to time, we will pull the cushion off the futon in our guest room and put it out in front of the the fireplace in the living room. Then we turn on the fireplace, which serves as our "campfire." Matthew and I lay there and pray together, talk for a bit, and then drift off to dreamland.
These are some of the moments that I will cherish the most as my little boy grows up. There will come a day when this may not be so fun and cool. However, I am hoping that one day they will transform into camp outs where we can sit around a real campfire and talk about more profound aspects of life.
Every moment is precious and I know I don't always make enough time for my family. But I know that little things like these "camp outs" will be more important than any investment I can make in a retirement account.
If you have children, be sure to make time for moments like this. Unlike money in a bank account, they are investments that can never be taken away. They are the down payment on your future relationship with your children. Don't trade them in for the cheap substitutes of money, power, prestige, and possessions. Make time for the most important things and you will be richer than you could ever imagine.
shine!
Jason
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Illuminate thank you's
Don McLaughlin, from the North Atlanta Church of Christ, was our keynote speaker who brought the word of God to life in a powerful way. He also stayed and spoke on Sunday morning.
Sean Algaier, from the Jenks Church in Oklahoma, lead us in worship on Friday night and taught a parents/teens class on Sunday morning.
Our own Chris Lindsey led worship on Saturday as well as coordinating everything that happened during our worship times.
Ambassadors, from Ohio Valley University, provided dramas that enhanced the message of the weekend. They also led several breakout sessions.
Hoss Ridgeway provided a lot of laughs through his comedy and led two breakout sessions.
Pat Pugh, from Cincinnati Urban Ministry Outreach, led several breakout sessions.
Randy Hendrickson, from Parkersburg, West Virginia, shared his story in a breakout session.
John Reuben performed a great concert on Saturday night.
In addition to all of those guests, there was an army of people from here at the Rochester Church that made Illuminate happen. I want to thank each and every one of them for their time and energy to make this event possible. Without them, Illuminate would not have been possible:
KITCHEN
Scott Vasseur
Sue Vasseur
Gary Osborn
Dawn Osborn
Jim Lytle
Heidi Lytle
Paul Patrico
Michelle Patrico
Rick Hillman
Paul Shinsky
Barb Huey
Tracy DuBaere
Karen Demsich
Nora Muntz
Lisa Patrico
Jeanie King
Patti Jenema
Carolyn Palmer
Amber White
Dave Turner
SECURITY
Kerry DuBaere
Josh DuBaere
Jerry Ward
Reggie Hansen
Dave Palmer
Joey Kesler
Kevin Stewart
Duncan Mead
Gary Turner
Keith Huey
Bob Stewart
Allen Meinhard
Joe Demsich
Jim Lytle
Elijah Blake
Keith Huey
REGISTRATION & HOUSING
Laura Stewart
Barb Huey
Carolyn Palmer
Lisa Patrico
Heidi Lytle
Debi Gibbs
BREAK OUT SESSION REGISTRATION
Michelle Steckel
Betty Turner
Patti Jenema
GUEST HOSPITALITY
Katie Dear
Dana Spivy
Jenny Hoggatt
TECHNICAL SUPPORT
Gary Anspach
Jon Knutson
Dave Cassilly
Matt Brown
Woody Woodward
SET-UP/CLEAN-UP
Kevin O'Sullivan
Rick Hillman
Debi Gibbs
Joey Kesler
Trudy Kesler
SICK ROOM
Tammy Ward
VIDEOGRAPHY
Lee Higginbottom
PRAISE TEAM
Chris Lindsey
Vicki Lindsey
Jeremy King
Veronica King
John Knutson
Holly Knutson
Steve Corp
Brenden Davison
PRAISE TEAM BAND
Chris Lindsey
Sean Algaier
Andy Robinson
Neil Graney
Teresa Graney
Ben Ayers
Aaron Mize
BREAK-OUT SESSION TEACHERS
Patrick Mead
Brian Bowers
Robert Martin
Sara Barton
Scott Ockerman
Shaun Hover
Adam Hill
Adam Hacias
Katy Hacias
David Watts
David Rotberg
Krystal Rotberg
Ty Warczinsky
Brandi Warczinsky
Joe Howard
Chris Lindsey
SPONSORS
Rochester College
Ohio Valley University
York College
Harding University
Great Lakes Christian College
STAGE PREPARATION
Jodie Anspach
Vicki Lindsey
BABYSITTERS FOR VOLUNTEERS
Kerri O'Connor
Allyson Huey
Melody Hastings
Sarah Ageno
Meghan Palmer
PEOPLE WHO HOUSED (approx. 100) GUESTS
Russel & Karen Wilkinson
Bob & Sheila Sparks
Jerry & Tammy Ward
Bob & Laura Stewart
Gayle Flanigan
Duane and Pat Harrison
Bill & Paula Flowers
Todd & Patti Jenema
Mark & Linda Dear
Jeff & Mollie Debandt
Tom & Sara Hayman
Dave Cassilly
Jerry & Julie Parks
Scott & Renee Tekely
Dave & Karen Benedict
Gary & Dawn Osborn
Rick & Merry Hastings
Fred & Lisa Hartman
Keith & Barb Huey
EVERYWHERE
Trudy Kesler
Michelle Steckel
Jason Steckel
Once again, I want to thank everyone who was a part of the weekend. I hope I have not forgotten anyone’s name here, because I really appreciate all of you. Let me end this article with a comment from one of the youth ministers who was here for Illuminate:
“Illuminate was AMAZING! It is quickly becoming my favorite event of the year. Everyone involved did a great job. John Reuben was, as expected, excellent. Well, I am running out of synonyms for really good.”
shine!
Jason
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Illuminate videos
Illuminate 2009 Closing Highlights from Lee Higginbottom on Vimeo
Illuminate 2010 Promo - DRIVE from Lee Higginbottom on Vimeo
shine!
Jason
Monday, March 23, 2009
The day after
Over the last several months, I have probably put about 75 hours of time into Illuminate 2009. People ask me how I made Illuminate happen. It wasn't me all that much. There were another 1,425 hours of time put in by an army of people. I only contributed 5% of the time put into this event. The other 95% came from others who brought a variety of talents and abilities to the table.
Most of all, I want to thank God for being present in an amazing way! I was reminded once again this weekend of the power of God and the value of community. The Holy Spirit moved powerfully this weekend through the hearts, minds, and bodies of scores of people at the Rochester Church. I am blessed to be part of such an incredible church family.
shine!
Jason
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Two more days!
I am asking for everyone's prayers over the next couple of days. Pray specifically for the following people:
Don McLaughlin, who will be our main speaker
Chris Lindsey and Sean Algaier, who will be leading us in worship
Ambassadors as they present messages through drama
Hoss Ridgeway as he makes us laugh through his comedy
Ignite session leaders, including: Patrick Mead, Pat Pugh, Shaun Hover, a mission team, Randy Hendrickson and Scott Ockerman, Sara Barton, Ambassadors, and Hoss
The dozens of volunteers who are giving up hundreds of hours this week (and some for the last several weeks)
The hundreds of students, parents, and youth workers who will be converging on Rochester Church this weekend
Thank you for praying!!! Pray that God moves in very powerful ways this weekend and that people are set free from the things that bind them.
shine!
Jason
Sunday, March 15, 2009
The Ides of March
On this day in 44 BC, the Roman Senate tricked Caesar and killed him. While there is some dispute among historians about Julius Caesar’s last words, many believe that his last words may have been, “Et tu, Brute?” This phrase means, “You too, Brutus?” or “Even you, Brutus?”
Marcus Junius Brutus was a Roman Senator who Caesar had brought into his inner circle of associates. However, he was convinced by other senators to join the assassination plot against Caesar and was there for the killing of the Roman leader.
It was less than a century later that another man was betrayed by someone in his inner circle. We know this man as Judas Iscariot.
Judas was one of Jesus’ twelve apostles. He was chosen by Jesus as a member of his inner circle, his closest associates. Judas was even made treasurer of the group.
In spite of his close relationship with Jesus and the rest of the Twelve, he chose to betray Jesus. Ironically, it was with a kiss that he completed the betrayal.
I wonder if Jesus knew what would happen a few laters when he spoke these words in the Sermon on the Mount…
“You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike. If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much. If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that.” (Matthew 5:43-47)
Regardless of whether or not he knew at the time he spoke these words, Jesus lived them. Even as he was hanging on the cross, Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:24)
Whether it was Jesus befriending Judas even as he prepared to betray him or his prayer for those who had crucified him, Jesus lived what he preached until he breathed his last death.
On the anniversary of the betrayal of an ancient emperor, let’s take a minute to reflect on Jesus’ words and actions. Imagine how different our world would be if we could live like that. How would things be different if we truly loved our enemies and prayed for those who persecute us? Maybe that’s the recipe for true peace.
shine!
Jason
Monday, March 09, 2009
Who do you want to be?
Who do you want us to be?
These are the two questions I posed Wednesday night as we kicked off our small group time.
I am firmly convinced that how we answer these two questions will significantly impact where we go as individuals and a community.
Please slowly read and reflect on the Bible passages below…
But you are not controlled by your sinful nature. You are controlled by the Spirit if you have the Spirit of God living in you. (And remember that those who do not have the Spirit of Christ living in them do not belong to him at all.) And Christ lives within you, so even though your body will die because of sin, the Spirit gives you life because you have been made right with God. The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. And just as God raised Christ Jesus from the dead, he will give life to your mortal bodies by this same Spirit living within you….For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. (Romans 8:9-11,14)
Don’t you realize that your bodies are actually parts of Christ? (1 Corinthians 6:15)
The human body has many parts, but the many parts make up one whole body. So it is with the body of Christ…All of you together are Christ’s body, and each of you is a part of it.
(1 Corinthians 12:12,27)
And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful. (Colossians 3:15)
My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. (Galatians 2:20)
If we are truly Christ-followers, we must realize that the world does not revolve around us. Rather, we are called to be a part of a community, a body of believers. That requires us to consider others in all that we do. In addition, we must live a life that seeks to improve the health of the entire body.
For some of us, this means it’s time to stop “playing church.” In other words, church is not an activity in your planner or something you do when you feel like it. Church, the body, is who you are. It is your identity.
For others, it might mean it’s time to remove any spiritual cancer that is hurting you and maybe even those around you. Is there a habit or attitude you need to get rid of?
God has created us and called us to be part of a bigger plan. We are created in the image of God so that we can live out God’s dream in this world. That means we need to seriously consider the questions “who do you want to be?” and “who do you want us to be?” Those are the questions that should shape and direct every aspect of our lives.
shine!
Jason
Monday, March 02, 2009
Youth Dialogue Day - Middle School Edition
I was really impressed by many of the insights students shared. While middle school students have not changed much since I was there 25 years ago (wow, I feel old all of a sudden), some of the issues they are faced with have changed significantly.
There are pressures and choices that very few of my peers had to deal with. The conditions and culture have become more hectic than ever. The stress and anxiety are at levels I can't imagine. But in the midst of all of that, I met some students today who had some great thoughts about what they deal with on a daily basis.
One of the things that I heard a number of students share is that they wish their parents were more involved in their lives. I don't think that necessarily means they want parents who don't give them space and tend to stick their noses in everything. But there definitely seems to be a desire for parents to be more engaged.
Today we live in a culture where times have changed. It seems as though there are more two-income households than ever. I realize that some families need two incomes, but in other families it is more desire than need. A second income to live in a bigger house and drive nicer cars is not a need.
Every family is different and every situation is unique. However, I believe our society has often gotten our priorities out of order and missed the bigger picture. If you could get students to be honest, I believe that many of them would give up some material possessions in order to have parents who had time to listen to them.
One of the things I have become more and more aware of is the feeling of desertion and loneliness that many teenagers feel today. For many of these students that starts at home. They may come home to an empty house where there isn't a adult there until later in the evening. For others, it might result from being at school until five or six in the evening, running to another event, and getting home just in time for homework and bed. For others it might come from everyone in the family having a television in their room, so everyone can watch what they want in solitude. We have allowed our culture and our entertainment-focused society to drive wedges in the middle of our most crucial relationships.
While teenagers want their freedom and want to discover who they are, I am convinced that they will actually feel more free to explore the question of who they are when they know home is a place of safety and community. When they know their parents will actually take time to listen - not just instruct and give orders - teenagers will be more willing to ask questions and share their struggles.
Don't expect teenagers to tell you everything. They are seeking their own life and their own identity. But when we provide an environment where they know we are there, willing to listen and willing to make time for them, the results can be priceless. That's the kind of investment that lasts long after the things we thought were so important are in a landfill or in the rearview mirror of life
shine!
Jason
Sunday, March 01, 2009
Role Models
shine!
Jason
Discipline
This isn’t just a spiritual phenomenon. Think about the days, weeks, and months following September 11, 2001. While we were focused on what happened that fateful Tuesday morning for some time, eventually, most people’s lives returned to normal and what happened became less and less of a daily reality.
Think about marriage. A young couple looks each other in the eyes and love is in the air. But within a few months the stress of bills, a pregnancy, and life together can make the honeymoon seem like a vague memory.
Whether it’s a need to remain vigilant in a war, maintain romance in a marriage, or stay connected to God, it takes real work to go beyond the rush of the moment.
Spiritual disciplines are a significant way to maintain our connection with God. It isn’t difficult to connect with God during a time when you are away from everyday life at a special event. The real test comes at a time when life returns to “normal.”
Spiritual disciplines provide a method of making space for God, even in the midst of a hectic, busy schedule.
God has emphasized the importance of this space since the beginning of time. When He created the earth, God rested on the seventh day. By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. And God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done. (Genesis 2:2-3)
I firmly believe that God didn’t rest on that day because He was tired. Rather, He was setting an example for Creation. We need rest. We need space. We are not designed to run 24/7, seven days a week.
Whether it’s fasting, prayer, meditation, silence, confession, or a host of other spiritual disciplines, God created us as beings who need time to recharge. Fasting can cleanse our bodies and our minds. Prayer draws us closer in relationship to God. Meditation provides room for God’s word to speak to us. Silence allows us to hear the quiet, still voice of God. Confession gives us room to admit our shortcomings and deal with them.
Spiritual disciplines practiced on a regular basis are not just something we do because we are “good Christians.” They are exercises that make us better people. They give us the room to develop spiritually and allow God to form us into His image.
shine!
Jason
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Can you hear me now?
When I came to this retreat, I knew that I already believed in Jesus and made the commitment to follow him. But I realized that the way I was living for Him wasn’t exactly the way He wanted me to. I learned that I’d been believing in Him, but not acting on that. I’m going to try to act like I should and follow Jesus instead of just believing in Him.
God has spoken to me in ways I couldn’t even imagine before this weekend. I was lost and now I am found. Before now I never heard His call. I never heard His voice and now I do…I’ve learned no matter how many mistakes I have made I will always be surrounded by His joy, His mercy, grace, and love.
This weekend has changed my whole perspective of God. He’s not just a figure to worship. He’s now…something more tangible and real. This weekend, He showed Himself, a light, a small candle flame in the darkness that grew brighter and brighter…I feel like I can actually hear Him now. Before, He was just a murmur, a small dim light in the darkness. Now…it’s completely opposite. His quiet whisper is now as loud as the booming thunder.
This weekend, I became more spiritually aware. I feel more in tune with God, and more ready to hear His voice and do what He wants me to do.
God has shown me that prayer is not just thinking about stuff, it’s connecting with God. God has taught me that silence is very important.
This weekend the main thing I learned is how many distractions are in my life, and most importantly, how to deal with those distractions, get rid of them, and enter a new stage of my relationship with God.
God showed me that even though it is dark sometimes, there is always hope and light.
This weekend showed me that to follow God’s will you have to hear Him, but to hear Him, you have to listen first.
This was the first time I shared my addictions with a large group and I feel renewed after, because I knew people would be praying for me.
Even though silence is scary, it is needed. I need to stop and listen to what God is telling me instead of going with what I think it best.
This weekend has helped me in sooo many ways. I am so busy and just have a lot going on in my life right now, and a lot of stress. It gave me the break I needed and really helped me. I felt like Adam was talking right to me; it was amazing. I love Chris and his worship; it uplifted me a lot. This weekend was absolutely perfect for me; it touched me in so many ways.
Ironically, it is in the absence of noise that God’ voice is clearest, and it is not meant to be merely an occasional luxury, but an every day practice.
It was a much needed weekend for me to refocus, and more importantly, realize how much God loves me, and knowing that He wants us, and can use us, wherever we are on our journey.
It was a great weekend. I was so impressed by our students and how seriously they answered every challenge placed before them. Thank you to everyone who was a part of the retreat!
shine!
Jason
Monday, February 23, 2009
Don't miss the call
We have been created in the image of God to reflect the glory and character of God into a world covered by darkness. Christianity is not a private thing to only be practiced at church. This is a lifestyle. It is a way of living. That is why the church was called “The Way” in the first century. It was not something people did. It was who they are.
Consider what Paul wrote to the church in Corinth as well as his “sons in the faith,” Timothy and Titus:
So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God— even as I try to please everybody in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved. Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ. (1 Corinthians 10:31-11:1)
Don’t let anyone think less of you because you are young. Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity. (1 Timothy 4:12)
Encourage the young men to live wisely. And you yourself must be an example to them by doing good works of every kind. Let everything you do reflect the integrity and seriousness of your teaching. Teach the truth so that your teaching can’t be criticized. Then those who oppose us will be ashamed and have nothing bad to say about us. (Titus 2:6-8)
We are not Christians solely and primarily for our own benefit. We are called to be a part of a larger community where we seek to live as Christ-followers in every aspect of our lives.
One of the most troubling trends I have seen in my decade or so of youth ministry is the way that older Christian teens seem to neglect their call to mature in their faith at a time when they are positioned to have significant impact.
Whether it’s the example they set for their peers or the way that younger teens and children look up to them, older teenagers have power and influence that they often fail to realize. This is a great opportunity not only to grow as individuals; it is a great time to contribute to the larger Christian community.
My prayer is that instead of buying into the lie where culture teaches older teens to become more self-absorbed, Christian teenagers would hear the call and live a life where they are the light that shines in the midst of a dark world.
shine!
Jason
Monday, February 16, 2009
A great diet
How many of you really believe me?
If most of us actually ate this way expecting to lose weight, people would think we are crazy.
As crazy as that sounds, many Christians are doing this very thing spiritually and expecting to become a stronger, more dedicated follower of Jesus.
They might start their morning out listening to music that glorifies violence, the objectification of women, greed, or other ungodly desires or actions. Then they go to work or school and engage in conversations that are filled with gossip, hateful words, pride, and more. They jump on the Internet and look at images that make women sexual objects instead of daughters of God. Or they might go to social networking pages where they create profiles that are at best, flirty, often laced with sexual overtones or pictures that do the same.
The day is not done yet. Now it’s time to listen to some more music. This music might reinforce the fact that life is hopeless or that life is not complete without a boyfriend or girlfriend. Then it’s time to sit in front of the television and watch a few shows whose messages say that premarital sex seldom has consequences, treating your parents with disrespect is a funny thing, and morals and integrity are optional.
It’s almost bedtime now, so there is time to chat online or text message. (Which has probably been going on most of the day.) Again we find gossip and slander. But this time it’s even more dangerous because the friend might be texting the very person being gossiped about. There could be a dozen interrelated text conversations going on where no one knows the whole story.
Wait. Forgot about Bible reading. Well, it’s late and time for bed. That can wait for tomorrow. Plus, I’ll hear about God in church on Sunday. (If I’m not too busy talking and texting during worship and class.)
The apostle Paul wrote, “Physical training is good, but training for godliness is much better, promising benefits in this life and in the life to come.” This is a trustworthy saying, and everyone should accept it. This is why we work hard and continue to struggle, for our hope is in the living God, who is the Savior of all people and particularly of all believers. (1 Timothy 4:8-10)
Unless we’re willing to train for godliness it will never happen. Maybe it’s time to take a long look at what kind of “training” you are doing now and see if it’s time for a new spiritual fitness plan.
shine!
Jason
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
A new birth
Monday, February 09, 2009
Identity
What defines us?
Who determines our worth?
Where do we find our value?
Identity is such a powerful thing, especially in the life of a teenager. After a dozen years of being defined primarily by their relationship with their family, teenagers begin to seek their own identity.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of voices out there trying to tell us what our identity should be. Listen to this music. Wear these clothes. Talk a certain way. Get drunk. Lie to your parents. Have sex. Be disrespectful. The list goes on and on.
But there is only one place to find our true identity. It’s the one the Creator intended for us. Jesus said the following:
“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. Remain in me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.” (John 15:1-4)
So what kind of fruit is that? What kind of fruit is Jesus wanting us to bear? Maybe it’s the fruit that Paul wrote about in his letter to the Galatian church:
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” (Galatians 5:22-23)
Our true identity is not determined by what we wear or drive. It can’t be measured by where we live or how popular we are.
Our true identity is determined by what kind of person we are. Notice that we are called human beings, not human doings. What are we today and what are we becoming? That is the question that counts.
In a world that so often measures us on the outside, we have a Creator God that uses a different method. When looking for a king to lead Israel, the Lord told Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7)
When we can start worrying more about who we are on the inside instead of the outside, we will begin to make room for God to transform us. Then he can reveal to us our true identity and we can experience the peace that only comes from knowing Him.
shine!
Jason
Monday, February 02, 2009
Who gets the glory?
This year’s downshift seems more pronounced than any I remember in my lifetime by a President. Maybe it’s the way the media covered this election. Maybe it’s because of the intricate web of communication used during the campaign that utilized the best marketing plan I have ever witnessed by a Presidential campaign team. I am sure that the financial crisis we are in the midst of caused many to hope for a quick solution.
Regardless of the reasons, many people seemed to expect this President to step into office and almost immediately solve the crises at hand. In the midst of the campaign, the candidate seemed more than happy to use this expectation to bolster his campaign.
Today’s politicians are quite a contrast with our Savior. While politicians seek out attention and trumpet their bold dreams, Jesus was quite the opposite.
Never one to desire the spotlight, Jesus often seemed to go out of His way to avoid attention. Many times in His ministry, we see Jesus healing people and telling them not to tell anyone. He would try to sneak away from the crowds. And when He did get praise, He directed it to the Father. Consider a few of the things Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount:
"So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full.” (Matthew 6:2)
"And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full.” (Matthew 6:5)
"When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show men they are fasting. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full.” (Matthew 6:16)
Whether we are running for President or an average citizen, we can learn from the example of Christ. If we want to bring forth the Kingdom of God in this world, it can’t be about us. It’s not about making big promises or taking advantage of people’s fear or anticipation. It’s about seeking what is in the best interest of God and others while sacrificing our own glory.
shine!
Jason
Monday, January 26, 2009
The war continues...
I have become even more convinced of this in recent months. I am not talking about anything happening in Iraq, Afghanistan, or the Gaza Strip. I am talking about what is happening right here among us.
I have watched students who have grown up in Christian homes become entangled in behavior that would have been unthinkable for them a few years ago. I have seen students become apathetic about their faith, treating it more like a hobby or activity than a lifestyle. Some of these students have continued to appear dedicated to Jesus on Sundays and Wednesdays while the rest of the week is spent engaging the worlds passions and desires.
On the other hand, I have seen others display self-righteous attitudes that exclude all but those who appear to be “good Christians.” When those who do not know Jesus are in our midst, they seem to be unable or unwilling to engage those who Jesus calls us to seek.
In both cases I sense the undercurrent of spiritual warfare. When we as families are unwilling to focus on spiritual training or place an emphasis on Kingdom-focused living, we can expect both of these results. For some, Christianity becomes a performance to put on when we “come to church.” For others, Christianity is knowing we are right and protecting ourselves from the “sinners.”
Both of these are unhealthy and immature. If we are going to be serious about the spiritual war we find ourselves in, we must be willing to dedicate the time and energy needed to fight the good fight.
The apostle Paul wrote, “Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies and tricks of the Devil. For we are not fighting against people made of flesh and blood, but against the evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, and against wicked spirits in the heavenly realms.” (Ephesians 6:11-12)
In World War II, everyone realized what was at stake and made sacrifices. Some went to the front lines. Others served as sergeants and generals, directing the battle. Those at home were willing to give up some of their comforts to support those who were in the heat of the battle. One of the main reasons we won that war was because everyone did their part.
Unfortunately, I believe we live in a time where many people have become comfortable and are either unwilling to sacrifice or unable to see the need to sacrifice. Although we are currently in a time of financial downturn, we are still more prosperous than most previous generations.
Until we are willing to commit ourselves to what it takes to win the war, Satan will continue to take his shots and inflict damage.
I am encouraged by some of the stories I have heard already from those who are participating in our 40 days of fasting and prayer. I sense that some among us are reclaiming territory from the evil one and engaging in the battle at hand. It’s time for all of us to arm ourselves and join the war that has already been declared against us.
shine!
Jason
Friday, January 23, 2009
Who gets the credit?
While I struggle to live out this motto at times, I strive to allow these words to echo in my mind.
Another man who I greatly admire has lived by this creed for much of his life. Church Noll coached the Pittsburgh Steelers from 1969 until 1991. He is the only head coach to win four Super Bowl titles. He is in the Pro Football Hall of Fame. In spite of all of these accomplishments, he never looked for fame or fortune. He quietly headed into retirement.
This morning I read a great article about Noll that reminded me what kind of man he is and was.
As I think about men like Ronald Reagan and Chuck Noll, I think about the man who embodied this kind of humility and accomplished the greatest fete in the history of mankind. This man was no ordinary man. He was more than a man. He was God, in the flesh. Paul describes Him this way in the letter to the Philippian church:
Though he was God,
he did not think of equality with God
as something to cling to.
Instead, he gave up his divine privileges;
he took the humble position of a slave
and was born as a human being.
When he appeared in human form,
he humbled himself in obedience to God
and died a criminal’s death on a cross.
Therefore, God elevated him to the place of highest honor
and gave him the name above all other names,
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.
When I think about men like Reagan and Noll, I believe that while none of us are perfect, we can strive to have the attitude of Christ. And while both of them had plenty of faults - don't we all - they exhibited a humility that I wish could be a bigger part of who I am.
I am convinced that what often holds me back from accomplishing greater things is me. If I could set down my pride, stop worrying about what people will think about me, and focus on carrying out Kingdom work and considering others more, I am sure that God could use me to do much more than I can ask or imagine.
shine!
Jason
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Name change
We are in the process of transitioning the name of our ministry from “180” to “Arise.” This decision was made after almost a year of conversation and prayer by our leadership.
For the last year we have contemplated how the “180” fits the overall purpose of our ministry and the Rochester Church. Last year, the church transitioned to the “Connect. Grow. Serve.” vision. We are seeking, as an entire church body to connect, grow, and serve, in our personal lives as well as our Christian community. (This vision is being and has been discussed in our Sunday morning sermon series this month.)
We felt that the “180” name did not best communicate this vision or the shift to a ministry for families with youth that we have been undergoing over the last several years. However, we were having a difficult time agreeing on a name that fit.
Last fall we launched our “Arise” campaign that is challenging our parents to collectively engage in 2009 hours of service, and challenges our students to do the same. Late in 2008, the idea of transitioning our name to “Arise” came to light. Everyone on our team felt this was a name that better communicated our vision and purpose.
In terms of the church’s vision, “Arise” is a natural fit with “Connect. Grow. Serve.” It is an action word that better communicates the call for students and parents alike to rise to the call to connect, grow, and serve.
With regard to our specific ministry’s purpose, it addresses all three areas of our ministry. Students who are beginning to discover and develop their own identity are called to arise into what God created them to be. It’s time for students to arise from their childhood and find their own active faith. Parenting teenagers can be challenging, so parents are called to arise into the challenge of leading their families during this time. This requires personal growth as well family interaction. When students and parents are answering their individual calls in this period of their families’ life, our families will arise to be the outposts for the Kingdom of God that they are meant to be.
On a more practical note, this shift will take a few months. There are already some noticable differences in our publications and language. Other changes, such as our website, make take a little longer. There will also be an article in the February article of Rochester Church's REACH newsletter relaying many of the same things I shared here.
I am excited about the days ahead and seeing what God has in store for us. As we arise as followers of Christ, we may be amazed at what God will be able to do in and through our ministry.
shine!
Jason
Friday, January 16, 2009
Everyday hero
One of the main heroes in this real-life drama was Chesley B. Sullenburger III. Who is that you ask? According to an AP article, "the 57-year-old, of Danville, Calif., is a former fighter pilot who runs a safety consulting firm in addition to flying commercial aircraft."
They also mentioned in the news article that, "Sullenberger, who has flown for US Airways since 1980, flew F-4 fighter jets with the Air Force in the 1970s. He then served on a board that investigated aircraft accidents and participated later in several National Transportation Safety Board investigations."
Here is a man who was in the right place at the right time. We can debate whether or not God placed this man in the pilot's seat of this plane. But what if God knew this was going to happen and gave this man the abilities he used in this scenario?
I do not believe that God has the days of our life pre-planned for us, but I believe that God has foreknowledge of what will happen in our lives. And I believe that God has given each of us specific talents and abilities for a reason.
Were Sullenberger's passions and talents provided by God for this very moment? We will never know. But I am convinced that his training and background made him one of the best pilots to navigate this potential disaster. Had either wing of the plane gone into the water on landing, the plane likely would have flipped and killed many on board. The abilities of this pilot probably saved dozens of lives.
Which makes we wonder...
How many of us have been given specific abilities and gifts and fail to use them at the right time or right place? The apostle Paul wrote, "But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part just where he wants it." (1 Corinthians 12:18)
You may never be the pilot of a plane that needs to make an emergency landing, but we all have opportunities to save people. God has created each of us uniquely to bring forth the Kingdom of God.
In a culture where we are encouraged to use our talents and abilities to bring honor to ourselves, what if we questioned and altered our motives? What if we stopped trying to make ourselves look good and challenged ourselves to be selfless heroes, living out the mission we were created to fulfill?
You are special. You are different than anyone else. You, and only you, have the set of passions and gifts that God created within you. You have been made with a purpose.
Instead of trying to look like everyone else or fit into an image that the world has created, look for ways to be the person God meant for you to be. Regardless of who you are, you can be a hero. You can save a life. You may not save anyone from a plane sinking in the Hudson River, but you can save someone who is drowning in the darkness of the moment. All it takes is looking at ourselves as instruments of God, parts of a body that has been created to be the hands and feet of God in this world.
shine!
Jason
Thursday, January 15, 2009
40 day adventure
Fasting is a spiritual discipline that is often avoided or ignored. Maybe this is because we don’t understand. It could be that we really don’t want to engage in the type of sacrifices that fasting calls us to undertake.
My prayer is that over the next six weeks, our families will be drawn closer to God and each other. As God speaks through periods of time where we go without eating or set aside aspects of our life that we typically enjoy, may the Holy Spirit convict and confront us in our comfortableness.
Fasting pushes us out of our routine and often makes us think about things we often take for granted. During times I have fasted in the past, I have found myself reaching for something to snack on and suddenly remembering my fast. There have even been times I prematurely ended my fast – both intentionally and accidentally – and was reminded of the difficultly of true sacrifice and self-control.
On the other hand, fasting has been a powerful spiritual discipline that I have used – not even close to often enough – in times of decision or discernment. When I was contemplating going to school for ministry, a period of fasting provided clarity and made it possible to hear God more clearly.
As for this current period of fasting, I will be participating in both ways I am advocating. I will be giving up all carbonated beverages for the entire forty-day period. From Monday, January 12, until Friday, February 20, I will not drink any carbonated beverages. I really enjoy drinking pop, and this will be difficult. But every time I think about getting a drink of pop, I will remember Christ’s sacrifice and my call to set my selfish desires aside in an effort to bring forth God’s kingdom in this world.
I will also observe several days of fasting from food during the forty-day period.
Whether you are a part of our LifeStage or not, I challenge you to join us on this journey.
The weekend of February 20-22, our students will be participating in a retreat designed to focus on our connecting with God through the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. My prayer is that God will use the forty days leading up to that weekend to prepare their hearts and minds for what He has in store.
Fasting is not meant to be comfortable or convenient. It is a spiritual discipline that calls us to look outside of ourselves and acknowledge Creator God and give more intentional thought to what it means to depend on God as our Provider and Refuge.
shine!
Jason
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Dedication
Along Avon Road I saw a group of about half a dozen Oakland University students jogging on the side of the road. What makes it so amazing isn't that they were jogging. (If you saw me out there, that would be amazing.) What makes it so incredible is the weather conditions.
This morning on my way to work the temperature was a few degrees above zero with a wind chill likely floating around zero. It was just plain cold. In spite of those conditions, these college athletes (I am assuming they are training for a sport) were out running and getting ready for whatever they are training for.
What if Christians showed that kind of dedication to spiritual disciplines? But many of us don't.
We'll set aside Bible study because there is a TV show we really want to watch.
We are a little tired, so prayer gets pushed aside.
Fasting? No way am I going without something I want.
In my decade of youth ministry I have watched a lot of teenagers say they're serious about Jesus, but their actions betray them. They put far more effort into training and practicing for a sport or hobby then they do spiritual formation. Basketball, for example (since it is the current sport), might consume a few hours every day for practice. But how many of those students are giving two hours a week for spiritual training?
Adults, we are not off the hook. In regards to both our children and ourselves.
Many parents will push their children to practice, practice, practice for a sport. But are they encouraging spiritual training?
In addition, and I believe, more importantly, are they modeling that?
Confession time. I will admit that my spiritual training habits are not what they need to be. These thoughts are aimed as much at me as they are anyone else. I know I should be doing more and dedicating more time to this.
Sometimes it amazes me that we pour hour upon hour into activities, that while not bad, are not Kingdom-focused. Sports are not bad. Hobbies are not bad. Even video games are not bad. But if those things consume so much of our time and energy that we neglect our primary calling, we have gotten things out of order.
Maybe it's time for God's people to show the kind of dedication to spiritual training that I saw on the side of a road in the middle of winter. Maybe that's the change that will make following Jesus a lifestyle, not another activity on our calendar.
shine!
Jason
Saturday, January 03, 2009
A New Year
I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us. (Philippians 3:12-14)
A new year is a time for a fresh start. Many people get caught in one of two traps at the start of a new year. Some will be unable to escape the negative memories of the past year. Others will look back at the previous year’s success and become complacent. Paul’s words challenge both of these missteps.
When we dwell on the mistakes of our past, it keeps us from finding the healing and hope that God offers us. We cannot act like the past never happened, but neither can we allow ourselves to be weighed down. God offers second chances and opportunities to change. A new year is a great time to look for a chance to change direction or reach for new goals.
On the other end of the spectrum, we can become lazy if we bask in the glory of previous triumphs. If we simply look back with pride with what we have done, it can cause us to stall in our growth and miss opportunities that God will put before us. Focusing on previous success can be a barrier to our future success.
Paul’s words of advice are as true today as they were when he penned them almost two thousand years ago. Don’t think you have arrived. Don’t dwell on the past. Look to the future and seek what God is calling you to be on the road ahead. When we are willing to trust God and look forward, we will receive the prize for which God is calling us.
shine!
Jason
Thursday, December 25, 2008
God appears in a football stadium
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Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Stuck in the snow
For some reason, I cannot access my blog from the church office. It's really weird. The only sites I cannot access at the office are WordPress sites. I can't get to mine. I can't access Patrick's either.
Yesterday I couldn't have blogged because I was out playing in the snow all day. There is a family in our church who owns a large snow removal company, and I am one of many from our church who are a part of their team.
For a few days I was anticipating the many hours I would spend in the snow yesterday. And then yesterday came. And snow it did! There was one point yesterday morning when the area I just shoveled would be snow covered again in a matter of minutes. It was crazy! Snow was falling at a rate of one to two inches per hour.
One of the most interesting sights yesterday was by a Rite Aid in Pontiac. Several semi trucks were attempting to go up a road with a fairly steep incline. But once one of them was stuck, it was all over. There must have been over two dozen vehicles stuck for at least an hour or two. The entire stretch of road was shut down, and evidently the police came shortly after we headed off to our next stop.
Isn't it funny how people sometimes try to take on something without the proper help? I watched these trucks take on a road that never should have been attempted until they were properly treated by the road crews. Instead, they tried anyway and got stuck in the process.
That can happen to us in our spiritual journey as well. Sometimes we tell God we can take care of it ourselves and plow ahead, regardless of whether or not God is with us. We try to conquer things that can only be conquered through prayer without taking the time to pray. We make big decisions without fasting or a period of discernment. We rush into situations where we know we will be tempted without considering the consequences.
Just like the police and the road crews that eventually helped everyone out, God will be there when we ask for help. But when we move forward without God, it will often result in frustration and pain. Wouldn't it be better if we were to seek out the wisdom of God before going down a road that might be a little difficult to travel?
shine!
Jason
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Monday, December 08, 2008
Hospitality
Have you ever had an 'a-ha' moment when something that has been right in front of you for a long time becomes obvious?
I had one of those moments yesterday during our church service. During the sermon, Josh Graves was talking about hospitality. In the midst of his words, I realized something.
My dad is one of the most hospitable people I know.
When we go to his house, he makes you feel like he really wants you to be there. He makes sure he has drinks on hand that we like. He makes food that he knows we like. He serves us while we're there. When he brings you something to eat, he waits for your reaction to see how much you enjoy it.
He has always been like that.
Thanks, Dad, for helping me learn what it means to be a servant and a host.
shine!
Jason
Thursday, December 04, 2008
Getting some rest
I have been fighting a nagging illness all week. Every time I feel like I am getting better, I feel worse a few hours later. It is honestly pretty annoying.
I realize part of the reason is because I have not gotten enough sleep this week. Between my huge paper for my grad class and snow removal, most nights have been limited and broken sleep.
I have been reminded this week of the importance of rest. It is vital to remain healthy.
Rest can come in many forms.
Sleep is a necessary rest. I always find it interesting when teenagers are on edge because they have been texting half the night. They wonder why their emotions are frayed and they are on edge. Maybe they haven't gotten enough rest.
Quiet is a necessary rest. So many people today seemed to be stressed to the max. I wonder how many of them build quiet time into their day. There is value in turning off the TV, pulling out the earphones, and enjoying stillness and silence.
Vacation is a necessary rest. Workaholics can put in hours upon hours at work and seldom take a break. With cell phones, smart phones, and the other communication tools we have, it is pretty easy to never leave your work alone.
Seek opportunities to slow down and take a break.
I don't think God took a Sabbath because He needed rest. I believe God wanted us to realize the importance of rest.
In today's "on-the-go" society, it can be challenging to build rest into your schedule.
Confession time. I am a work-a-holic who always feels like he needs to be busy. I have a really hard time just sitting still and being. I either want music in the background or a TV on. If I start to get restless, I will find something to do.
Not a day goes by when a teenager doesn't tell me or text me, "I'm bored." We have lost the fine art of rest in our world. We entertain and work ourselves to death. Maybe part of the cause of more cancer and illness is because we don't give our bodies time to rest.
I remember when I was a teenager, the local police department bought extra police cars. Before, the different shifts would share cars. That would mean that a car was being driven all day and night. By getting extra cars, they found the number of hours a car could drive would increase.
If cars are less effective when they don't get rest, shouldn't it be even more true for the human body? The next time you feel overwhelmed or stressed, don't increase your stress level by accelerating your speed. Take a few minutes to be still and enjoy the rest God intended you to have.
shine!
Jason
Monday, December 01, 2008
Giving for a change
The craziness of Christmas is now officially in full swing. This past Friday, millions of people camped out for hours in the cold, waiting to be the first line of invaders into stores.
For the next month – and to be honest for a while before now – we have been told that we need that certain gift. We have been shown in commercial after commercial that a specific brand name or product will bring us happiness, make our marriage better, or improve our lives.
While it is true that some things can help make our lives better, we have to be careful not to buy into the lie that those things are the ultimate source of satisfaction in our lives.
Jesus himself warned us about this very thing.
"And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." (Matthew 6:28-34)
Stuff is not the source of our problems. It is the unhealthy desire for stuff that causes so many struggles. People steal so they can have someone else's things and make their life better. Others cheat in school to get better grades to make more money someday, and thus have a "great life."
In this season that is so focused on getting, let’s do all we can to focus on the attitude and action of giving. True life, true freedom, and true joy are not found in how much we can accumulate. Rather, the more we give away, the more life we experience, the more free we feel, and the more joyful we may become.
It’s not always easy – and if we are honest, it’s not always enjoyable – but it is the path to peace and fulfillment.
Be open during the Christmas season to new ways to give. Time. Energy. Attention. Money. Possessions. Love. They are all things God has provided for us. But He has not given them as things to be hoarded. Instead, He wants us to give away all that we can, and in the process, change the world one transaction at a time.
Giving should not be something we do. It must become who we are. We should do all we can to make giving as natural as taking a breath. Watch what God can do with a heart like that.
shine!
Jason
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Ending the moratorium
The moratorium is officially over. In the Steckel house, we do not begin listening to Christmas music and putting up decorations until after Thanksgiving. But after Thanksgiving, it's Christmas 24/7. :-)
If you want Christmas 365 days a year, you can drive an hour north from my house up I-75 to Bronner's Christmas Wonderland in Frankenmuth, Michigan. (It's a pretty cool place. If you've never been there, it's worth the trip.)
Many people have their own family traditions regarding Christmas and when they begin celebrating the season. Some enjoy Christmas music in October and November. Others wait until the week of the big day. Which ever one you prefer doesn't really matter.
But I also see a lot of Christians who treat their walk with Jesus like I treat Christmas music. They treat their week like I treat Christmas from January to November. They consider it a time to take a break from things that focus on Christ. The music of their life is whatever they choose, but Christ-focused living is packed away in boxes until the next Sunday.
Then it's time to pull the decorations out and get ready for church. Time to put on the Christian mask and start using church-speak. Time to celebrate Christ for a day until it's time to put things away until next weekend.
On Monday, it's back to living for self-centered agendas and forgetting the life worthy of the calling we have received. Just like I pack up the Christmas decorations and my home returns to normal, some will pack away the things they sang about on Sunday morning.
This is not what we are called to do or be. Consider these excerpts from Ephesians 5...
Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children.
Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ.
So live as people of light! For this light within you produces only what is good and right and true.
Carefully determine what pleases the Lord.
So be careful how you live.
Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise.
Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do.
Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, and making music to the Lord in your hearts.
And give thanks for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
We all need to live our lives like Bronner's celebrates Christmas - 365 days a year. Being a Christian isn't something we should celebrate once a week; it should be something we live every day of our lives. When we assemble on Sundays, it shouldn't only be a reminder about God and His work in the world. It should be a time when God's people come together to celebrate how they have been caring out the work of the Kingdom of God all week long.
shine!
Jason
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving
I hope everyone has a very Happy Thanksgiving. I am thankful for so many things....
A loving God
A wonderful partner in my wife Michelle
An amazing son in Matthew
A great dad who is also a wonderful grandpa
A church family at Rochester that is a constant source of blessings
A great youth group
A church staff that is second to none
A supportive group of elders
A house to live in
Food to eat
The grace and mercy of Creator God
The sacrificial life of my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ
The gift and outpouring of the Holy Spirit
The ability to love
What are you thankful for?
shine!
Jason
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
If it feels good...
Have you ever heard someone say they did something because it "feels right?" Emotions are a powerful thing. They have started wars, ended marriages, and changed the dynamics of families.
So how do we know when to listen to our emotions? Whether it's your "gut instinct" or one of those "I've got a feeling moments," how can we determine when to listen to that voice inside?
First, I believe we should be very careful about letting our emotions take control. This can be very challenging for us today. It was only a few decades ago that our culture frowned on emotions. Just think about some of the phrases that still remain in our lexicon:
"Real mean don't show emotions."
"You want me to give you something to cry about."
"Crying is weakness."
"Why are you so emotional?"
Obviously, times have changed. We now have an entire teen subculture named after being emotional. The pendulum seems to have swung the other way. This is even true in many churches.
If you think about the songs and style of worship, much has changed. The "old hymns" seemed to carry a deeper, internal emotion that was to be displayed. They told stories or proclaimed truths about God. They were designed to stimulate our minds much more than our hearts.
Today many of our songs are praise and worship songs that touch our hearts (sometimes to the neglect of our minds, I fear). Emotion appears to be much more accepted in today's church.
So what does all of this have to do with listening to our emotions? First, we must acknowledge that we are often handicapped because the previous generations don't have the experience to help us sort through all of this. Many who are my age and older have parents who did not live in the world we live in. Their world wasn't as open to a public display of emotions.
Second, we have to understand that God created us to be a holistic person. That means that emotions and facts are both important, and neither can stand alone. They must both have their place at the table.
Without emotions, we make decisions that look at the "cold hard" facts. This can cause us to hurt other people and ourselves because we are blind to the emotional aspects of our actions.
On the other hand, decisions made without engaging our mind can lead to foolish decisions that didn't consider the consequences. Proverb 15:14 says, "The discerning heart seeks knowledge, but the mouth of a fool feeds on folly."
So how do we find a good balance? Why not ask the One who designed us in the first place. Let's consider the words of the Apostle Paul...
And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God. (Philipians 1:9-11)
True balance comes through having the right perspective. Paul's prayer was that their love would abound in knowledge and depth of insight. How do we listen to our emotions and our mind? We seek the heart and mind of God.
I have found in my life that the more distant from God I become, the more my balance gets out of whack. Sometimes I will make decisions without engaging my emotions and other times I will act on my emotions without thinking. Both can have damaging results.
If I have a "gut instinct" or a feeling about something, I will begin by considering the heart and mind of Christ. That means I need to be in tune with the heart and mind of Christ. Without that connection, the discernment is much more challenging.
I realize that some of us may be overwhelmed by emotions or emotionally numb. (And sometimes both at the same time.) Those extreme situations may require professional help or at least a long period of working through things. That can be a long, challenging journey, but it is worth it.
In today's "if it feels good, do it" world, we are in a battle for our hearts and minds. If we can seek that balance that is centered on God, then we can be "filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ."
shine!
Jason
Friday, November 21, 2008
Shhh
Music… TV… Cell phones... Text messages... Internet... Movies... Earphones.
Silence…
We struggle with silence. There are so many things that distract us and keep us from simply being still. For many, it has gotten to the point where being silent is extremely uncomfortable.
One of the biggest barriers that keeps many people from growing closer to God is the lack of silence in their lives.
Consider the words of the Psalmist in Psalm 46:
God is our refuge and strength,
an ever-present help in trouble.
Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way
and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea,
though its waters roar and foam
and the mountains quake with their surging.
There is a river whose streams make glad the city of God,
the holy place where the Most High dwells.
God is within her, she will not fall;
God will help her at break of day.
Nations are in uproar, kingdoms fall;
he lifts his voice, the earth melts.
The LORD Almighty is with us;
the God of Jacob is our fortress.
Come and see the works of the LORD,
the desolations he has brought on the earth.
He makes wars cease to the ends of the earth;
he breaks the bow and shatters the spear,
he burns the shields with fire.
Be still, and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth."
The LORD Almighty is with us;
the God of Jacob is our fortress.
In the midst of our trouble, we should be still. When defeat seems inevitable, we need to be still. When trouble is before us, we must be still.
If we want to experience God and hear His voice, maybe we need to quiet the hundreds of other voices that can drown His out.
The problem is that we like the noise. It helps us try to cover the pain, confusion, and hurt that many of us hide below the surface. Maybe it’s time for you to be still and know that He is God. Let Him be your fortress instead of settling for a bunch of inferior, noisy alternatives.
shine!
Jason
Monday, November 17, 2008
Friday, November 14, 2008
The church?
What do you think of when you think of church? A building? An activity? Worship?
I think that the early Christians would look at our meanings for the word "church" and wonder what we are talking about.
Constantine did the body of Christ a huge disservice when he essentially hijacked it for his purposes. When he decried Christianity as a "socially acceptable" religion, he opened the door to the institutionalization of the church.
While I believe God used this to aide his purposes, I also believe it began the distortion of what it means to be a follower of Jesus.
No longer was following Jesus a risky proposition. Instead of a conscious decision to follow the way of Jesus, regardless of the costs, following Jesus became a part of the Roman Empire. The orders of one man took a counter-cultural movement and integrated it into the mainstream.
So what does that mean for us?
It impacts us in many ways and forces us to evaluate what it means to be a "Christian." Consider some of the things Paul wrote:
"Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God?" (1 Corinthians 6:19)
"Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church. He makes the whole body fit together perfectly. As each part does its own special work, it helps the other parts grow, so that the whole body is healthy and growing and full of love." (Ephesians 4:15-16)
"He is the God who made the world and everything in it. Since he is Lord of heaven and earth, he doesn’t live in man-made temples, and human hands can’t serve his needs—for he has no needs." (Acts 17:24-25)
I often hear people say things like "you can’t say that in church" or "you can’t do that in the church building." How would our behavior change if we acknowledged that we are the "church building?"
We are the temple of God and the body of Christ. We are called to be the presence of God wherever we find ourselves. It doesn’t matter if we are in a building with a sign out front that says "Church of Christ", sitting in our living room, at work, or walking the halls of our school. If we are a baptized believer, then we are the church. We are the dwelling place of God in this world. The only building that really matters is the body that you live in every day.
shine!
Jason
Monday, November 10, 2008
An afternoon at Focus: HOPE
Yesterday was our first Sunday afternoon at Focus: HOPE. We had over two dozen students and adults venture down to the Focus: HOPE campus in Detroit to make some new friends. While there were not a lot of children this first time, I feel like we made an impact on the children and adults that were there.
During our time there, we were able to share a meal, play some games, and build relationships. In the months ahead, I am hopeful that the numbers will grow and we will be able to meet more children from inner-city Detroit. But one thing I have learned in ministry, is that numbers aren't the most important thing. If we are able to make a positive impact on the life of one child, our trip has had value.
I am looking forward to developing an on-going relationship with the children and adults at Focus: HOPE. As we seek to live out Jesus-shaped lives, this is a great opportunity to live out our faith. And in the process, we can show the love of Jesus to those we encounter.
shine!
Jason
Friday, November 07, 2008
Bridging the gap
I love the Fall. I think there is something amazing about the changing leaves and the cool air. There are few things more beautiful in the world than the color of Autumn leaves.
The amazing thing is that the beauty emerges, even in the face of death. The changing of the leaves from green to red, orange, and yellow is actually the process of leaves dying and falling off of the tree.
While we appreciate that beauty, we often miss the beauty to be found in the older members of our society.
In recent years, our society has been more and more trained to look down on senior citizens and even middle-age adults. Many shows aimed at teenagers and pre-teens show parents as foolish and clueless. Commercials often portray the children as the smartest person in the family.
I don’t discount children and teenagers, and I admit that there have been times that their voices have unfairly been silenced or minimized. But swinging to the other extreme doesn’t make things any better.
I am witnessing a generation who is growing up without listening to very many of the voices of experience. Our mobile culture that moves families around the country and away from family has severed those connections. Churches where the teenagers often sit together and away from the adults has cut off that spiritual connection.
It saddens me when I listen to students who feel abandoned and alone. I know that there is plenty of blame to go around. Adults have ignored youth just as much as youth have pushed away from adults. But the reality is that there are as many lonely adults – especially senior citizens – sitting in the pews as there are teenagers.
I believe that one of the most overlooked opportunities in many churches, especially larger ones, is the chance for youth to connect with our older generations. In a world where so many institutions and organizations drive wedges between generations and separate us into sub-cultures, the church has a unique position. We can be a place where generations are drawn back together and voices of all ages can be heard.
If you are a teenager or pre-teen, my challenge to you is to approach an older member of the church and build a relationship. For our older adult members I would say this: Don’t be afraid to connect with the youth. While it may seem like their world is so much different than the one you grew up in (and it is), there are still many things where you can find common ground.
If the church can grab onto this great opportunity for community, I believe it can have a positive impact for everyone involved. Let’s bridge the gap.
shine!
Jason
Thursday, November 06, 2008
"Star Wars" - an a capella tribute to John Williams
I found this on YouTube. It is worth the 4 minutes, especially if you are a John Williams or Star Wars fan!
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
The morning after
The commercials are done. The speeches are over. The votes have been cast.
History has yet to determine what this election means for our nation. In a little over two months, Barack Obama will be inaugurated as the 44th President of the United States. Then we will see what the future holds.
While I fundamentally disagree with much of Obama's philosophy and many of his approaches to the role of government, I can't deny the historic relevance of this election. While I hope that those who voted, voted for the candidate's platform, not his race, I know that for some that is not true.
Regardless of how you voted and why you voted that way, it's time for our nation to display the spirit of unity that has held us together for over two centuries. This nation has suffered through many challenging times, but the beauty of our country is the peaceful change in leadership that has helped make us who we are.
I will still stand up for what I believe is the best way for our government to function. Just like in the church, unity does not mean everyone agrees. Unity means that everyone stands for one purpose greater than themselves. Whether we are talking about the Kingdom of Heaven or the United States of America, this message rings true. When we can look beyond ourselves to the greater good, we can overcome.
Today is a new day in America. We have elected to office a man who would have likely served on a plantation, not had a right to vote, and only counted as 3/5 of a person earlier in our nation's history. Agree or disagree with his style of governing, this is a historic day in our nation's history.
On the other hand, I hope that we don't let the significance of this moment keep us from engaging in serious dialogue in the days ahead. Some would use the historic nature of this election as a buffer to dispel disagreement and silence dissent. To me, that would discount the importance of this moment.
As with most things in life, we must always seek a balance between sensitivity and substance. We must strive to find ways to work together while remaining true to our principles. It is of the utmost importance that as we move into the future, we start from our common ground and engage in serious dialogue about the issues at hand. This is how we can mature and seek what is best.
While I am talking about our country, I believe the same is true with the church. We can disagree about the way we "do church" and the methods we use to engage our mission, but we must start with Christ as our foundation, our cornerstone, and our starting point. From there we can embark on our mission that will call us to change the world and bring the Kingdom of God to the lives around us.
shine!
Jason
Tuesday, November 04, 2008
My vote
I am glad this is finally over. While I have a minor in political science, I get weary of the long political season.
As I woke up this morning, something hit me. Why do Christians invest so much in the election of a President?
Don't get me wrong, I think it's OK to be involved in the political process. I believe we have a responsibility to participate in elections; that's not what I am talking about.
I am referring to Christians and Christian groups who have spent hours and hours making phone calls, handing out fliers, and investing a significant amount of energy campaigning - for either candidate. Giving that kind of time is not inherently a bad thing. But here is the question I want to pose against this:
If a follower of Jesus spends hours and hours campaigning for a candidate for President, how much time are they investing on a regular basis in the Kingdom of God?
I don't take issue with those who consistently engage in spiritual disciplines and offer their time and resources to carry out the work of the Kingdom. My concern is with those who generally give a lot less time to Kingdom work than a political campaign. Where are they putting their trust?
At the end of the day (or maybe days, depending on what happens - remember 2000?), our nation will have elected a new President. On January 20, 2009, either John McCain or Barack Obama will be inaugurated as the 44th President of United States.
While I am voting today, and I do feel that one man is the better choice, my hope does not rest on who lives at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue. My hope rests with the One who sits on the throne of Heaven. So that's where I want to invest the majority of my time, energy, and resources.
I will vote for the President of the United States, but I live for the Lord and Savior of all mankind.
shine!
Jason
Sunday, November 02, 2008
Significant or symbolic?
I walked by a high school football team practicing yesterday and noticed the oddest thing. They didn’t have a football. The offense just ran their plays, but without a ball to throw or run.
Then I watched a mechanic working on a car. It was weird; he didn’t have a wrench. He used his fingers to tighten the lug nuts.
Then I walked in the front door of my house to find Michelle in the kitchen, cooking dinner. The weird thing was she was trying to mix some ingredients together, but she didn’t have a spoon. She was kind of tilting the pan from side to side, hoping the ingredients would mix together.
OK, so none of these stories are real. But I witness something equally as strange weekly. I see dozens of students coming to Bible class without a Bible. I was especially surprised a few weeks ago when the class I was teaching divided into groups to look at a passage of Scripture. In a class of over two-dozen students, only two students had a Bible.
A football player wouldn’t imagine going to practice without his equipment. A mechanic would never think about working on a car without his tools. Michelle wouldn’t entertain the idea of cooking without utensils.
Paul wrote the following words to the church in Colosse:
Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. (Colossians 3:15-17)
Paul encourages the church to “let the word of Christ dwell in you richly.” He reminds each of us about the importance of letting the word of God be a part of who we are.
I am not sure what the reason, but it seems like the number of people bringing their Bible to church has significantly decreased, especially with teenagers.
We set our TiVo so we don’t miss our favorite shows. We carry our cell phones everywhere so we don’t miss a call or text message. We always have our debit card for that purchase we might want to make.
But the Book that contains the words of God and wisdom to make us more Christ-like? Evidently, it is supposed to stay on the bookshelf at home where it’s simply a symbol of the faith we claim.
shine!
Jason