Showing posts with label Rochester Church. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Rochester Church. Show all posts

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Taking it home

We added two new items to our Families with Youth newsletter this week that I hope will help families engage their faith at home.

In the “Pass It On” segment, I am inviting a different parent to write something each week where they can briefly share a way they pass on their faith to their children. Part of this comes from a passage in Deuteronomy that we discussed in our Parent/Student Meeting a few weeks ago:

4Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. 5Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. 6These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. 7Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. 8Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. 9Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates. (Deuteronomy 6:4-9)

This does not have to be anything complex or fancy. It might describing a weekly family devotional. It could talk about how a family prays together each day or week. They might share a special service opportunity they participate in as a family. It could be as simple as some way they weave faith into their everyday conversations. The options are endless.

Thank you to one of our parents, Laura Stewart, for her willingness to be my “guinea pig” by writing the first “Pass It On” entry. Parents are asked to email their submissions so I can include them in upcoming newsletters.

The second new segment is entitled, “Faith@Home.” In this section, I will be providing the title and description for our current series as well as the specific class topic for the current week. The “Talk about it” section of this segment will offer a few questions for discussion as well as an action point. Families may choose to read these questions verbatim or use them to formulate their own questions. In the action point, families are asked to put what they have discussed into practice.

As our ministry enters into this new season of helping the home become the center of spiritual formation, I am hoping these new resources will help our families along the way.

 

shine!
Jason

Tuesday, September 06, 2011

The Big Idea

Starting in September, we will be kicking off a new church-wide initiative on Sunday mornings and Wednesday nights. We will be using The Big Idea as a way to help us think more deeply about a particular theme. Our Sunday morning sermon, adult Bible classes, and teen classes will approach this main theme from a variety of angles and perspectives.

The first theme is “Who We Are,” and will run for the month of September. Here is The Really Big Idea that will drive our theme:
We so what we are. Our activity is the result of our identity. We serve a God who created us for community, called us to greater faith and discipleship, and empowered is to partner with him in service for his kingdom. Especially in times of transition, we need to remind ourselves that as the church we have a mission and calling that is rooted in God. As we transition in our leadership, we are standing firm in our commitment to being the people of God who will live as his people in this time and place – Rochester Church is still a place where people can connect, grow, and serve in Christ.

It is a great time to be the church. As the church, we are the people of God – we are defined and identified by his presence. And out identity points us towards our activity. In short, we do what we are. Put another way, our activity is the result of our identity. In every season, we must remind ourselves that we serve a God who created us for community, called us to greater faith and discipleship, and empowered us to partner with him in service for his kingdom. This is the mission of the Rochester Church of Christ.

Our Sunday morning and Wednesday evening series will both take different angles on this theme. The Sunday morning series, BFF, will consider what it means to make our relationship with God the central piece of our identity. On Wednesday nights, we will look at what it means to make godly love a core characteristic of who we are.

I am looking forward to this Fall and all of the opportunities we will have to explore what it means to live in God’s kingdom.

 

shine!
Jason

 

Sunday, July 03, 2011

Back where I belong

Last Sunday, June 26, we announced that I was returning to my role as Minister for Families with Youth at Rochester Church. Below is what I shared with the parents and students that morning...

Let me begin by extending a thank you to this church and to our elders. Thank you for your ongoing support. Thank you for the opportunity to explore a different role here at Rochester Church. And, thank you for allowing and affirming my return to the role that I believe God has designed me for.

So how did we get here today? Let me start near the end of the story.

Four weeks ago today, Michelle and I were in this very room setting up tables and chairs for the annual Backyard BBQ. As many of you know, that became a basement BBQ because of the rain that had fallen and the threat of storms.

How many of you have seen the movie The Sixth Sense? If you haven’t, I apologize because I am about to ruin the ending.

Anyway, in the midst of setting up chairs, I had a moment very similar to the one Bruce Willis’ character experienced at the end of that movie. I froze, looked at my wife, and said, “What are we doing? Why are we walking away from THIS?”

At that moment, so many situations from the last nine months flashed before my eyes. I thought of times of excitement like Winterfest, Illuminate, and 30 Hour Famine. I remembered one-on-one conversations with students. It was much like Bruce Willis’ character when he realizes he has been dead the whole movie. Suddenly, a bunch of otherwise random moments of joy, frustration, and depression all fit together.

That started a week of prayer and discernment. I contacted several close friends in ministry and asked for their wisdom and guidance. I asked them to pray for me. I asked them to ask me all of the tough questions. I asked them to join with me in sorting through what I was thinking and feeling.

One of the most interesting conversations was with David Rubio. David is the youth minister at Otter Creek Church where Josh Graves now ministers. About two years ago, David began a transition at Otter Creek where he was going to move from youth ministry into working with pastoral care and small groups as Josh came on board to oversee preaching and teaching.

Just short of a year into the transition, the search team at Otter Creek had narrowed their search down to two candidates for the youth ministry position, and they were about to bring these two in for on-site interviews.

Just days before they bought tickets to fly these two people in, David had a moment where it “hit him” that he was moving away from the ministry he was most passionate about and most gifted to serve in. He approached his leadership and asked if he could return to his old position. After a brief period of prayer and discernment, David returned to his role in the youth ministry, where he has been serving for the last year. He told me it has become clear to him that he made the right decision and God has affirmed that.

While I realize this is a different church and I am not David, it was eerie to me how similar our stories were. If nothing else, my conversation with him helped me see that I was not completely crazy (or that at least one other person was a crazy as me).

It was also during that week that spent some time with God in my backyard. Don’t picture some quiet, serene scene with me sitting under a tree. No. I was mowing my yard. Mowing is a spiritual event for me. I typically put in my earbuds and pull up my Chris Tomlin music while I mow. Normally, I sing along as I mow (much to the chagrin of my neighbors who might be listening). However, this time I took a slightly different approach. I decided to simply listen. Listen to the music. And listen for God’s voice. What was it that I needed to hear in this time of prayer and discernment?

What I heard over the next hour and a half was very clear to me. I kept hearing this voice saying to me, “You’re a youth pastor. You’re a youth pastor.” This was yet another confirmation for me.

In addition to my conversation with David and my lawn mowing experience, I talked with ministers, missionaries, friends, and spiritual mentors. They did ask me tough questions. They challenged me with their comments and inquiries. But, after talking with them, each of them affirmed (either at the end of our discussion or later), that they sensed this was the right decision.

It was at the end of that week that I called Jim Randolph. Michelle and I went to his house on Saturday afternoon and spent several hours talking with Jim. He asked some of the same questions I had heard throughout the week. He listened to our hearts. We talked at some length about why Michelle and I felt this was where we should serve.

That Wednesday evening, I met with the eldership and again shared much of what I have shared with you this morning. They also asked some of the same questions. They also listened. They were both loving and diligent in our conversation and I appreciate and love every one of them for their love for me, my family, and this church.

Over the next week and half, they continued to engage in prayer, discernment, and discussion. Last weekend, we gathered together and they affirmed my return to the role that I know that God has called me to.

I stand before you today having experienced some of the same frustrations and disappointments that many of your have experienced. As a matter of fact, it was just a few months ago that I sat in this room on a Wednesday night and shared with the teens here that night that I felt I had let them down. I wasn’t as present with them as I wished I could have been during the season following Nancy Milligan and Jeremy King’s deaths. In spite of the many events we continued to offer, I know that they sensed I had divided attention. That has weighed on my heart for some time and I look forward to a renewed season of attention completed devoted to students and their families.

I realize that this transition raises questions, and while I can’t anticipate every question, I want to answer a few questions that seem to have come up a number of times in the last month.

What about your passion for the other job?

This is a very fair and good question, and it’s one I myself have wrestled with over the last month. I think there are a few things related to answering this question. The first one is that I firmly believe that the things that are a part of that role are important to me. I am a huge proponent of small groups. I feel that good pastoral care is important for every family in this church. I believe that it is crucial for us to get new members connected. I believe in the LifeStage model and desire that every LifeStage ministers to and equips its families. These things are not any less important to me than they were a few months ago.

We have made a lot of headway in these areas. Mike Thomas and I have been working together to reinvigorate our LifeGroups and things are moving towards a Fall launch. Ramie Robinson and I have been working to refine our Pastoral Care Ministry and we are in the process of adding some additional aspects of pastoral care for families in crisis. We have been seeking and developing new methods for improving the way we connect our new members. The full-time and part-time staff members anchoring each LifeStage have been working together to improve interaction between LifeStages.

For me, the issue is not that I don’t think those things are important. As a matter of fact, we have accomplished a lot while still providing a significant, albeit reduced level of ministry for our families with youth.

What has become abundantly clear to me over the last month or so is that my deepest, most significant passion is still ministering with and to families with youth. I love students. I love their parents. And I love watching families connect, grow, and serve. As a matter of fact, most of the highlights of the last year for me have been moments spent with students and their families.

Are there any other underlying reasons?

Another fair question. We have been through a lot of changes over the last nine months. We stood with a family who lost a wife and mother after years of fighting cancer. We experienced the untimely and tragic death of a staff member. We walked with a family through the death of their young child. We are in the midst of a staff change as Patrick moves to Colorado and Adam begins his season as Minister of the Word here at Rochester Church.

If anything, I believe these events and changes clouded my ability to listen to God about my role here at Rochester Church and my passion in ministry. I love this church family and one of the reasons I began this transition into this other role was because I sensed there was a void in some areas at a congregational level. The leadership team and I felt that I had the gifts and abilities to help fill much of that void. I chose to accept this new role because I wanted to do what I felt was in the best interest of this church.

What I discovered as I began to move into this new role is that while I might have the gifts and abilities to accomplish the tasks before me, I was serving outside of my core passion. One of the things I missed the most was being involved in people’s lives. I found myself spending more time in the office and less time with people. As matter of fact, to be completely transparent with you, I considered an opportunity at another church several months ago. Looking back, I am convinced the main reason I even considered that opportunity was because some of my core passions for ministry were feeling neglected.

As we are moving into a new season of ministry as church, I am confident that God has provided – and will provide – the right people to help serve this church family in the years ahead. I look forward to being a part of that team for many years in my role as Minister for Families with Youth. I have made a commitment to our leadership, and I make a commitment to you, that I will be serving the families with youth in this congregation for many years.

While I have already shared with you many of the lessons I have learned over the last year, let me share with you a few key things I am taking away from this experience.

Listen to my wife

From the beginning of my transition last Fall, Michelle has always felt uneasy about my moving away from ministering to families with youth. She was always supportive, but at the same time, she would question the transition from time to time when we had conversations about my change in roles. I did not listen to my wife enough. She has been a quiet voice all along asking me to think about the change. Instead, as a somewhat (ok, very) stubborn man, I plunged into this transition without listening to her voice of wisdom. As most of you know, Michelle is one of the most loving people on the planet and she has a heart for people and ministry. I should have been quicker to listen to her and her heart.

Live into your calling

There is something to be said about doing what you love. Now, I realize that sometimes out of necessity, we must do something to earn a living that we may not love. However, I am blessed to have an opportunity to do what I love. Other than being a husband and a father, there is nothing in this world I am more passionate about than teenagers and their families. For the last dozen years, I have walked along teenagers in the midst of tragedy and sorrow. I have rejoiced with teenagers as they experience moments of celebration and success. I have listen to teenagers pour out their hearts, their pains, and their dreams. I have sat in hospital waiting rooms with parents who children are sick and suffering. I have walked the streets of places all over the world, including Rio and Cincinnati, walking alongside students and parents alike as we serve together.

For some reason, along the way, I lost sight of what God called me to be. Outside of my family, you are the people about whom I am most passionate. I sometimes stay awake at night reflecting on a text message received at 11pm. There are mornings I wake up with expectation to head off to coffee with one of your children. I find some of my greatest joy in watching teenagers love on a child in inner-city Cincinnati or have an “a-ha” moment in the middle of a Bible class.

Some have asked, are you really back? How long do you think you’ll do this? My answer is, yes, and for a long time. I thank you for your patience with me for getting a little distracted along the way. But I also ask for your help and prayers as we move forward. Today is the beginning of a new season. A chance to both restore what we have had in the past and reach for even more. We are partners in this journey and I realize that I have not been the partner you have needed. I am pledging to you that I am excited about this new chapter that lies before us and I look forward to working with you as we all seek to connect, grow, and serve as citizens of the Kingdom of God.

shine!
Jason

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

The mystery of God's love

This past weekend was our fifth annual Illuminate Youth Conference. Once again, dozens of volunteers from Rochester Church came together to make this a great event. In addition, we were blessed by a variety of people who helped deliver God's message around our theme of "Mystery." Wiley Lowe delivered powerful messages, Salient and DeeperStill both lead us in worship. Ambassadors provided engaging drama (in the style of Scooby Doo). There were quality breakout sessions lead by Salient, Ambassadors, Patrick Mead, Pat Pugh, Sara Barton, Scott Ockerman, Adam Hacias, Evelyn Van Sloten, and Jim Calkin.

I am always impressed by the Rochester Church family, but Illuminate weekend is one of the times when they truly shine. We put out a call for a few hundred cans of pop and bottles of water, and they provided over a thousand. We needed housing for youth groups coming from out of town and everyone had a place to say. Registration, security, lunch preparation, and a variety of other areas were all taken care of and done with excellence. This is only because of the dedication and hard work of scores of Rochester Church members.

One of the most poignant moments of the weekend for me came on Sunday morning. While the conference officially ended on Saturday evening, Deeper Still was with us on Sunday morning to lead us in worship. As she had on Saturday, Veronica was singing with the rest of DeeperStill. J.T. Spivy, a member of Ambassadors, came up to provide a message leading us into our time of Communion. One of the key points he shared was how one day we will all be able to sit around the table with those we have lost. It was such a fitting message as I looked up at the men and women standing on the stage. The last several months have been challenging for many of us, especially Veronica and the DeeperStill family. I thought that J.T.'s words were a message of hope and light in the midst of a time still overshadowed by the darkness of Jeremy's death.

Life is indeed a mystery. There are many questions that may never be answered on this side of eternity. But there are some things that are not a mystery. God loves and cares for us. There may be moments of difficulty and pain where it's challenging to see or experience that love, but Love is present. God has given us one another to be a source of compassion and strength. When we find ourselves overwhelmed, there are others who are here to hold us up. that also means that when we see others who are overwhelmed, we must be there to hold them up. We are a family that must love our neighbors as ourselves.

I was reminded this weekend of the mystery of God's love. A love that never gives up in the midst of a world filled with conditional love. A love that gives all when so much love in today's society is more about taking. A love that brings light to darkness and hope to despair. It is not a surface, happy-clappy love that acts like everything is fine. Rather, it is a love that sustains and endures, even in moments where all seems lost. That's the kind of love this world needs and it's the kind of love that reflects the Kingdom of God.

shine
Jason

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Good words

I am still struggling with the reality of Jeremy King's death. This week I have still expected him to stick his head in my doorway, smile, and ask what he can do to help. That was who Jeremy was. He was a man who embodied humility and servanthood.

As I reflect on Jeremy's life and on my own, I am challenged by his example. I have had a number of people comment on the words I shared, along with Patrick and Adam, about Jeremy at his funeral. To every person who made a similar comment, I have responded by saying that Jeremy made it easy.

I have attended and participated in funerals where it might be a challenge to uncover a lot of good words about the person who was being remembered. In Jeremy's case, the opposite was true. There was not nearly enough time to share all of the good memories I have about Jeremy. While I would not consider him a close friend, we had grown much closer over the last year as we served alongside each other on staff here at Rochester Church.

Whether he was standing on stage, practicing with the praise team, or sitting in my office talking about ministry and life, Jeremy was always the same person. He didn't have any pretenses or pride. He was not arrogant or self-serving. He was a good husband and father. He was a trustworthy friend. He was a man of God.

The word eulogy is a Greek word meaning "good words." There have been endless good words shared about Jeremy over the last week because he was a good man. He was a witness to what it means to love God and love your neighbor as yourself. Reflecting on his life over the last week has challenged me to be a better husband, a better father, and a better friend. I pray that when my time on this earth comes to an end that I will have lived in such a way that people speak good words about me.

Jeremy, I miss you.

shine!
Jason

There are two funds that have been set up for Veronica and her children as they deal with the loss of Jeremy. If you would like to contribute, here is the information...

You can send funds to the Rochester Church of Christ. Checks should be made payable to "Rochester Church of Christ" and earmarked "Member Care Fund." It would also be helpful to enclose a note mentioning Jeremy. Those checks can be mailed to:

Rochester Church of Christ
250 West Avon Road
Rochester Hills, MI 48307


You can also donate to DeeperStill Ministries. Go to any Chase Bank, and make a deposit into account No. 879368868.

Monday, September 13, 2010

A new season of ministry

To my family at Rochester Church:

Yesterday, I announced I am expanding my responsibilities here at Rochester Church. I wanted to take a few minutes to address what that means for our church and the Ministry for Families with Youth.

I am excited for the future of Rochester Church. We are entering a new season filled with hope and opportunity and, as we partner with God in the future, I believe we will echo the words of the Apostle Paul, who wrote, “Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.” (Ephesians 3:20)

As we begin this new season of ministry, I want to begin by saying that I will continue to be involved with my ministry to Rochester’s families with youth. My new role is an expansion of what I have been doing for the last five years. My goal is to help create throughout all four LifeStages the environment we have developed over the last five years in Families with Youth. I will continue to work with our students and families as my responsibilities expand.

As I mentioned in a meeting with parents and students on September 1, my desire is to continue a significant level of personal interaction with students in the future. That will require us to raise up and equip more volunteers to help with some of the logistical functions I have personally taken care of in the past. These volunteers will allow me to continue to interact with students and families as well as address my new responsibilities. In addition, we will be considering additional staff that I would work with and mentor as a ministry partner. As we evaluate the best way to effectively minister to our families with youth, we plan to include our students and families in any significant decisions regarding staff.

In my new role, I will also be supporting and coordinating pastoral efforts for all LifeStages. Working with Elders, Pastoral Care Ministers, Staff, and others, my goal is to increase our pastoral care for the family here at Rochester Church. In addition to ministering to those in difficult situations and seasons, we are going to be more intentional about creating ways to increase ongoing pastoral connections with the families here.

There are two other aspects of my new role that we believe will aid people in getting connected and staying connected. I will be coordinating and supporting our new member integration efforts. As we seek to help people connect, grow, and serve here at Rochester Church, we are hoping to build on the things we are doing to facilitate even more opportunities for new members to become an active part of this church body.

The other piece is to help people stay connected. One of the most important venues for creating an environment where people can establish deeper roots at Rochester Church is through small groups. While small groups have been an important part of the lives of some of our members, we are convinced that we can, and must, place a more intentional focus on small groups. Small groups is one of the most important places at Rochester Church where we can connect, grow, and serve.

I am excited about the future here at Rochester Church. I believe that God is going to move powerfully around us, in us, and through us in the months and years ahead. As I have told some of you before, I believe that God does some of His best work in seasons of change. As we move into a new season of ministry here at Rochester Church, I am blessed to be a part of an incredible team and a wonderful church family. I will enjoy continuing to work with our students and their families while expanding into new areas of serving. I look forward to many more years of working in the Kingdom with you.

shine!
Jason

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

What's been going on?

I have not blogged in a few weeks, so I am going to try to reflect on what I have experienced over the last couple of weeks...

From August 7-14, I was in Cincinnati with 26 RCC students, a handful of adults, and a team from the Warrenton (Virginia) Church of Christ. It was an incredible week where everyone worked hard and accomplished a lot for the Kingdom. Our team painted three houses and spent time with children in the community (as well as feeding them a meal each day). Even though the temperatures were in the mid-90's all week (with a heat index well over 100), everyone worked without complaining. I was amazed by their attitudes and desire to finish the tasks before them. I am pretty sure that Cincinnati impacted most us as much, if not more, than we impacted it. It was a great week!

After a few days home to catch my breath (which really means taking care of all of the details that get neglected when you're out of town), I left for the trip I am currently on. Last Friday, I spent the day traveling to Minnesota for a retreat and week-long intensive class for MREML program. Over the weekend, I stayed on campus at Luther Seminary, hung out with Mark Love, Sara Barton, and my cohort. We discussed a variety of things and ended the weekend worshipping at St. Matthew's Episcopal Church and then Solomon's Porch.

The last two days have been spent hanging out with Tony Jones, Doug Pagitt, and the authors of the other two books we are reading for this class. (Well, we had to Skype with the one who lives in Chicago.) We have been spending our days at Solomon's Porch and our evenings enjoying the Twin Cities. (Despite what Ryan Woods says, the Twin Cities have some good coffee and good coffee shops.) One of the highlights of the week so far for me was walking through a prayer labyrinth this afternoon.

The next couple of days will be spent further discussing hospitality as leadership (this is the title of our class). I am still trying to process the things we are hearing and learning, and I am listening to hear what God might be trying to tell me in this season of life and ministry. When you turn 40 - as I did in May of this year - your perspective on life makes a shift. Well, at least mine has. I am realizing that I have (statistically) lived over half of my life.

What am I going to do with the rest of my life? What does God have in store for me? What do I need to learn? How can I listen better to God? What does it mean to be a follower of Jesus?

As I reflect on the last couple of weeks, I realize that God is not done with me yet. He has turned dread into joy. He has opened my eyes to new things. He is transforming frustration into hope. And there is so much more He is doing that I am not realizing.

I have more questions that I do answers. I continue to learn that the more I discover, the less I know. God continues to remind me that He is God and I am not. Every time I think I know what I am doing, I realize that I am pretty clueless.

I consider myself a cautious optimist. I try to look at the glass as half full without trying to convince myself that I am promised a free refill. As I consider my life, my family, and my ministry, I am hopeful for the future. I believe that God has great things in mind for the Steckel family and the Rochester Church. I know that the road ahead will not always be easy, but I can find peace in the fact that regardless of where the road leads, God will be there.

Well, I could go on (and I already have too much), but this is just an update on where life has taken me over the month of August. I miss my wife, I miss my son, and I miss my Rochester family. I can't wait to get back home and reunite with all of them as we continue on this journey of faith that we are pursuing as a family and community.

shine!
Jason

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Being Jesus in a diverse world

I have really enjoyed the first half of our month-long class, “Being Jesus in a Diverse World.” It has been interesting to learn more about Judaism and Islam, as well as listening to and interacting with a Rabbi and an Imam.
In my opinion, one of the most important things about our Wednesday night guests has been the ability to associate a person with each faith. One of the main causes of hostility between religious groups is the dehumanization of those of the other faith. When we can get to know individuals who practice a certain faith and get to know them, we often get a different view of their religious tribe.
An expert in the law asked Jesus, "And who is my neighbor?" (Lk 10:29)
Jesus did not answer with a statement; He answered with a story…
“A Jewish man was traveling on a trip from Jerusalem to Jericho, and he was attacked by bandits. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him up, and left him half dead beside the road.
“By chance a priest came along. But when he saw the man lying there, he crossed to the other side of the road and passed him by. A Temple assistant walked over and looked at him lying there, but he also passed by on the other side.
“Then a despised Samaritan came along, and when he saw the man, he felt compassion for him. Going over to him, the Samaritan soothed his wounds with olive oil and wine and bandaged them. Then he put the man on his own donkey and took him to an inn, where he took care of him. The next day he handed the innkeeper two silver coins, telling him, ‘Take care of this man. If his bill runs higher than this, I’ll pay you the next time I’m here.’
“Now which of these three would you say was a neighbor to the man who was attacked by bandits?” Jesus asked.
The man replied, “The one who showed him mercy.”
Then Jesus said, “Yes, now go and do the same.”
(Luke 10:30-37)
Being a neighbor is not determined by what you believe. Being a neighbor is based on your religious preferences. We are all neighbors because we are all human beings created in the image of God.
One of the lessons we hope to learn out of this month’s classes is to have a better appreciation for those of different faiths. This does not mean we are going to embrace their beliefs or water down our faith. In actuality, this is an opportunity to more fully live out what we say we believe.
If we are truly going to love our neighbors as Jesus asks us to, our neighbors must include Jews, Muslims, Hindus, and Buddhists. If Jews in Jesus’ day were asked to look at Samaritans as neighbors, then Christians today have a long way to go to live out the world Jesus imagined. Jews would have probably looked at Samaritans like many Christians look at Muslims today. I believe that, for many of us, these few weeks are a good step in the right direction of learning what it means to be Jesus in a diverse world.

shine!
Jason

Saturday, May 08, 2010

Surprise!

It’s hard to believe that in less than a week I will turn 40!
I wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who was a part of my surprise party last weekend! It was truly a blessing to spend the evening with so many of you. Thank you for the gifts, cards, food, and most importantly, your presence.
The last four and half years have been some of the best years of my life, and much of that joy is because of everyone at Rochester Church! We have laughed together and cried together. We have celebrated and mourned together. We have rejoiced in new life and suffered through death and loss.
As I look back on the last four decades of my life, it is amazing to see all of the ways that God has been leading me and all of the relationships God has made it possible for me to enjoy.
As I think about so many of you who have become an important part of my life, let me share with you the words of the apostle Paul. I believe that they reflect my thoughts about so many of you (except for the imprisonment part…haha):
Every time I think of you, I give thanks to my God. Whenever I pray, I make my requests for all of you with joy, for you have been my partners in spreading the Good News about Christ from the time you first heard it until now. And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.
So it is right that I should feel as I do about all of you, for you have a special place in my heart. You share with me the special favor of God, both in my imprisonment and in defending and confirming the truth of the Good News. God knows how much I love you and long for you with the tender compassion of Christ Jesus.
I pray that your love will overflow more and more, and that you will keep on growing in knowledge and understanding. For I want you to understand what really matters, so that you may live pure and blameless lives until the day of Christ’s return. May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation—the righteous character produced in your life by Jesus Christ—for this will bring much glory and praise to God.
(Philippians 1:3-11)
Thanks again to all of you for your various signs of appreciation. I was touched by your thoughtfulness and willingness to sacrifice an evening on my behalf. Your love never ceases to amaze me! Michelle, Matthew, and I consider it a blessing from God to call all of you friends and family.

shine!
Jason

Monday, April 26, 2010

Fasting, silence, and Scripture

After listening to Patrick Mead's sermon this past Sunday, I have decided to dedicate this week to fasting, silence, and Scripture for myself and the Rochester Church. We are in the midst of a season of change, and I am seeking to hear God's voice as we travel along this journey into God's preferred future for the family of believers that assemble here.
I am inviting you to join me in this spiritual adventure this week. Here is what I am doing:

Each day I will fast from food from 6:00am until 6:00pm.

In lieu of lunch, I am dedicating approximately 45 minutes to silence and Scripture. Each day, I will sit in silence for 20 minutes, read Acts 20:24 several times slowly and deliberately, then engage in another 20 minutes of silence.


You do not have to fast from the same thing as me or in the same manner that I am. However, I do invite you to fast from something this week. You could fast from your iPod, a certain food, television, or a host of other things.
Having just finished my first 45 minutes of silence and Scripture, I can tell you it was refreshing. It was interesting as I re-encountered noise how much I noticed every little noise. Sometimes - almost all the time I would argue - we are surrounded by so much noise, we miss hearing some of the most important things.
Let me finish with some thoughts from M. Basil Pennington:

Silence is the very presence of God - always there. But activity hides it. We need to leave activity long enough to discover the Presence - then we can return to activity with it.
Stillness is present throughout the run at every point. But if one only runs, he never knows stillness.
God is present in all beings, but we will never be aware of him if we never stop and leave behind all beings to be to him.


shine!
Jason

Sunday, February 28, 2010

30 Hour Famine

Last weekend, thirty-three students participated in the 30 Hour Famine. We learned about hunger and poverty, served our church families and God’s Helping Hands, and raised over $2,300 to help Haiti earthquake victims (with some students still collecting).
During the weekend, we focused on the following passage from James:
What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, "Go in peace, be warmed and filled," without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.
But someone will say, "You have faith and I have works." Show me your faith apart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works. You believe that God is one; you do well. Even the demons believe—and shudder! Do you want to be shown, you foolish person, that faith apart from works is useless? Was not Abraham our father justified by works when he offered up his son Isaac on the altar? You see that faith was active along with his works, and faith was completed by his works; and the Scripture was fulfilled that says, "Abraham believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness"—and he was called a friend of God. You see that a person is justified by works and not by faith alone. And in the same way was not also Rahab the prostitute justified by works when she received the messengers and sent them out by another way? For as the body apart from the spirit is dead, so also faith apart from works is dead.
(James 2:14-26)
I was so impressed seeing our students’ faith in action this past weekend. They listened and participated in discussions where Scripture engaged our lives. Some students helped sort and organize at God’s Helping Hands, which makes it easier to help those who are hurting economically in the area. Other students provided childcare for the parents who attended our parenting seminar. All of them worked to surpass our goal of $2,000.
I am so proud of the students who participated, not just because of how much they raised, but because of their actions and attitudes throughout the weekend. They served without complaining. Some even asked for more work when they finished their task. In devotionals and discussions they were engaged. They continue to grow in their faith and actions as they work together.
Thank you as well to the adults who helped with the weekend: Karen Benedict, Bill Flowers, Barb Huey, Laura Stewart, Holly Hebert, Dalaina Harrell. Your time and energy are greatly appreciated!!

shine!
Jason

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to my family at RCC

Thank you to everyone who blessed us with a Christmas card or gift. We continue to feel extremely blessed to be a part of the family here at Rochester. It’s hard to believe that it was a little over four years ago that we moved here. In the time since, we have grown to love the people here and value the relationships we have developed.
In a time when hundreds of commercials tout the latest toys, gadgets, clothes, and more, you have given us the greatest gifts there are: love and family. We wouldn’t trade anything for the way you have welcomed us, embraced us, and made us part of the Rochester family.
In addition to celebrating the past, I am looking forward to an exciting future. When I think about everything God is up to, I can’t wait to see what He has in store for us in 2010! I continue to be amazed at the power of God’s grace and mercy.
Please allow me to share the words of Paul to express my feelings for you and as a prayer for you as we begin a new year together:
I thank my God in all my remembrance of you, always in every prayer of mine for you all making my prayer with joy, because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now. And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ. It is right for me to feel this way about you all, because I hold you in my heart, for you are all partakers with me of grace…in the defense and confirmation of the gospel. For God is my witness, how I yearn for you all with the affection of Christ Jesus. And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God. (Philippians 1:3-11)
For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.
(Ephesians 3:14-21)

shine!
Jason

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Cards for Cass Park

We want to do something special for our friends in Cass Park this Christmas season by sending as many Christmas cards as possible down to Cass Park.

On (or before) that Sunday, December 20, there are several ways you can help:

1) Donate Christmas cards.
Whether they are last year's unused cards or cards you purchase and donate, we hope to gather as many blank Christmas cards as possible by Wednesday, December 16. To donate cards, please drop them off at the Cards for Cass Park table in the main lobby beginning Wednesday, December 9.

2) Students to Volunteer for Set Up.
We need 3-4 students to come early (8:25am) December 20 to help set up. Contact me to volunteer.

3) Breakfast Donations.
On Sunday, December 20, we need 6-8 families to offer to bring 2-3 dozen donuts or breakfast baked goods. Contact Trudy Kesler to sign up to bring these food items.

4) Assist at Card Signing Tables.
We need at least 4-6 students to "man the card tables" between services on December 20.

5) "Attend the Christmas Card Party".
Sunday, December 20, between services, there will be a Christmas card "party" where you can sign cards in the main lobby. There are no classes between services on that Sunday, so there will be coffee (and donated donuts/breakfast foods) that will be available as well as several tables set up around the lobby with blank cards to sign. Please grab a cup of coffee, a donut, and sign some Christmas cards.

6) Students to Volunteer for Clean-Up.
We need 4-6 students to assist with clean up and putting away tables.

After second worship on Sunday, December 20, our Cass Park team will take these cards and distribute them to our friends at Cass Park. What a great opportunity to bless our friends during this holiday season.

shine!
Jason

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Recognizing some students

I wanted to take an opportunity this week to compliment some of our students for answering a few challenges that have been placed before them. The first one is the significant increase in the number of students who have been bringing their Bibles with them to class.
Several months ago, I noted that in a class of 30-40 students, we were averaging somewhere between two and five Bibles in class on a given Sunday. With the transition to a new curriculum that is more anchored in the text of the Bible and the challenge to bring Bibles, students have responded. We had 28 students in the high school class this past Sunday. Twelve of the students had a Bible with them. While that is still a little below half, it is a considerable improvement.
For those who have been bringing your Bibles all along, thank you for setting an example. For those who recently started bringing your Bibles, thank you for answering the challenge and showing an increase of devotion towards your study of the Word of God. For those of you who haven’t been bringing your Bible, let me encourage you to start doing so. If you don’t have a Bible, please let me know as we will get you one. One of the keys to improving your relationship to God is having a better understanding of His Word. Bringing your Bible to class is one way to take a step down that path.
The other thing I want to comment on is the increase in the number of students sitting towards the front during worship. While I have not been encouraging this as strongly or as often, it has been something I have mentioned to a number of students over the last several months.
Students who sit in groups towards the back of the auditorium tend to talk much more during service and often pay little attention to the lesson or participate in the singing. When groups of students sit closer to the front they are generally more engaged and get more out of what is happening around them.
I want to commend the students who have taken the initiative to sit towards the front. Not only are you setting a good example for the preteens and others, you are taking actions that may very well help improve your spiritual growth.
When it comes to growing spiritually, so much more often comes from the small, steady things than the big, mountaintop experiences. While there is nothing wrong with mountaintop experiences, if you do not have ongoing, intentional actions in your daily life, your faith will likely not thrive just from spiritual highs. True discipleship and true spiritual growth comes from a life dedicated to the daily development of disciplines and choices that slowly and surely draw us closer to Christ. What these students have been doing is taking them down that path.

shine!
Jason

Saturday, October 31, 2009

What is God doing in your life today?

As we at the Rochester Church strive to explore what it means to be a community, I am about to embark on a new adventure that I am inviting the families in my ministry to join with me. I want to be more intentional about engaging in dialogue about how God is working in our lives individually and as a community.
One of the ways I will be doing this is by sending out an email to several members of our ministry every week with the following question:

“What is God doing in your life today?”

All I ask is that they respond to the email. They can answer with a sentence or write a number of paragraphs. I will also ask whether if it’s ok for me to share the responses. Unless they request otherwise, any responses I am allowed to share will be anonymous and I will change any necessary details to keep them that way.
We usually don’t have a problem talking about our school activities, our hobbies, our sports teams, and other parts of our lives. For some reason, our conversations are generally absent of discussions about how God is moving in us, around us, and among us.
I will be sending these emails to parents and students. I will typically not email two members of the same family in the same week. I want to hear from as many people as possible.
In Mark 5, Jesus encounters a demon-possessed man and commands the demons out of him. After this happens, we see the following interaction between Jesus and the man:
As he was getting into the boat, the man who had been possessed with demons begged him that he might be with him. And he did not permit him but said to him, "Go home to your friends and tell them how much the Lord has done for you, and how he has had mercy on you." And he went away and began to proclaim in the Decapolis how much Jesus had done for him, and everyone marveled. (Mark 5:18-20)
I hope our families join in the conversation as we seek to go to our friends and tell them how much the Lord has done for us, and how he has had mercy on us.

shine!
Jason

Monday, June 15, 2009

Reaching out across the street

I am so excited about yesterday! Sunday morning our students and parents partnered to reach out to our community. Instead of sitting in a classroom talking about our faith (which is not a bad thing), we were able to get out of our comfort zone and live out our faith.
Across the street from our church building is an apartment complex with 526 units. For some time, God has placed a burden on my heart (and on the hearts of other members of our staff) to reach out to this community with the love of Jesus. There are literally a few thousand people within shouting distance of our building who may never have experienced the love of God. I am sure there are hundreds who are hurting in a variety of ways.
We did not go to set up Bible studies, preach to them about salvation, or take a survey. We simply went to extend a hand of friendship. On Sunday, July 5, we will be having our Jubilee Sunday. On this special Sunday, there will be one combined service at 10:00am, followed by a BBQ and activities for all ages. It will be a great day!
Our purpose in going across the street is simply to invite the members of that community to get to know us better. My prayer is that through knowing us, they will come to know Jesus.
Above anything else, God is a God of relationship and community. In Genesis 1:27, it says, “So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.”
God created us in His image. Just as the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit live in community with one another, we are created and called to live in community. We are designed to know and be known. We find our value in living out our purpose.
Yesterday, just as God reached out to us through Jesus of Nazareth, we reached out. We reached out to those who may very well need a smile, a hug, or just a place to belong. We want to be His hands and feet to bring light to the darkness, hope to the hopeless, and peace to the restless. There is no greater purpose than that.

shine!
Jason

Monday, May 25, 2009

Burger, Dogs, and Sabbath

Yesterday we held our fourth annual Backyard BBQ. (We have hosted 3 of the 4 BBQs. The second year it rained and we were relegated to the youth room.) This has become one of my favorite family events of the year. We invite all of the families in our LifeStage to our house for an afternoon of food and hanging out.
Around 1:30pm, approximately 130 people invaded our backyard with lawn chairs and side dishes in tow. By then the burgers and hot dogs were already on the grills and the aroma was filling the air. (Thanks, Brenden for being the grillmaster.)
It seemed like in a matter of minutes everyone had staked out their spot under the famous shade tree and they were ready for an afternoon of good eating and visiting. The next three hours were filled with laughter, games of volleyball, conversations, and fun. It was a great afternoon!
I wondered why over 100 people would hang out in our backyard for over three hours on a Sunday afternoon, and then it dawned on me...
Most of us are too busy and very seldom do we have three hours to just sit and talk to other people. We run from activity to activity, event to event, with little time to just sit and visit. This event is more than a BBQ. It is almost a mini-Sabbath in the midst of scores of crazy lives. For a few hours on a sunny Sunday afternoon, people can take a break from their hectic lives and build relationships.
Yesterday in the high school class we were talking about our purpose in life. In the midst of a discussion about the 10 Commandments, one of my students asked about Sabbath. We talked about creating space in our lives for God and other people. Sabbath is something we struggle with as extremely busy people. We have a hard time slowing down long enough to rest or reflect.
However, yesterday afternoon, over 100 people had a chance to slow down, sit down, and remember what it means to be human.

shine!
Jason

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Amy is here!

Yesterday afternoon, my intern for the summer arrived here. Amy McLaughlin, a student at Lipscomb University, will be working with me this summer in our ministry.
After she arrived, she jumped in the car with our family, we drove around the area a bit, gave her a quick tour of the church building, grabbed a bite to eat, and went shopping for groceries. I thought I would let her rest on her first day here. ;-)
Well, after that all that craziness, we picked up a few students and headed over to Friday Night Live at the home of one of our ministry's families. I was impressed as I watched Amy interact with all of the students. She obviously has a passion for people and a heart for ministry. After last night, I am even more convinced that she will do a great job this summer.
Tomorrow we are hosting the third annual Backyard BBQ at our house for ARISE families. We are expecting over 100 people here for food, fun, and fellowship. (I know, it's a cheesy alliteration.) Anyway, the weather forecast looks great and I am looking forward to an afternoon with over 100 of my good friends from the Rochester Church.

shine!
Jason

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Illuminate thank you's

Illuminate 2009 was a great weekend! We had over 250 students and adults registered for the event as well as a number of special guests who were a part of the weekend. Students from here at Rochester and around the region joined together for times of worship and teaching. In addition, there were several breakout sessions that included a variety of topics and learning styles. We had comedy and a very entertaining concert.
Don McLaughlin, from the North Atlanta Church of Christ, was our keynote speaker who brought the word of God to life in a powerful way. He also stayed and spoke on Sunday morning.
Sean Algaier, from the Jenks Church in Oklahoma, lead us in worship on Friday night and taught a parents/teens class on Sunday morning.
Our own Chris Lindsey led worship on Saturday as well as coordinating everything that happened during our worship times.
Ambassadors, from Ohio Valley University, provided dramas that enhanced the message of the weekend. They also led several breakout sessions.
Hoss Ridgeway provided a lot of laughs through his comedy and led two breakout sessions.
Pat Pugh, from Cincinnati Urban Ministry Outreach, led several breakout sessions.
Randy Hendrickson, from Parkersburg, West Virginia, shared his story in a breakout session.
John Reuben performed a great concert on Saturday night.
In addition to all of those guests, there was an army of people from here at the Rochester Church that made Illuminate happen. I want to thank each and every one of them for their time and energy to make this event possible. Without them, Illuminate would not have been possible:

KITCHEN
Scott Vasseur
Sue Vasseur
Gary Osborn
Dawn Osborn
Jim Lytle
Heidi Lytle
Paul Patrico
Michelle Patrico
Rick Hillman
Paul Shinsky
Barb Huey
Tracy DuBaere
Karen Demsich
Nora Muntz
Lisa Patrico
Jeanie King
Patti Jenema
Carolyn Palmer
Amber White
Dave Turner

SECURITY
Kerry DuBaere
Josh DuBaere
Jerry Ward
Reggie Hansen
Dave Palmer
Joey Kesler
Kevin Stewart
Duncan Mead
Gary Turner
Keith Huey
Bob Stewart
Allen Meinhard
Joe Demsich
Jim Lytle
Elijah Blake
Keith Huey

REGISTRATION & HOUSING
Laura Stewart
Barb Huey
Carolyn Palmer
Lisa Patrico
Heidi Lytle
Debi Gibbs

BREAK OUT SESSION REGISTRATION
Michelle Steckel
Betty Turner
Patti Jenema

GUEST HOSPITALITY
Katie Dear
Dana Spivy
Jenny Hoggatt

TECHNICAL SUPPORT
Gary Anspach
Jon Knutson
Dave Cassilly
Matt Brown
Woody Woodward

SET-UP/CLEAN-UP
Kevin O'Sullivan
Rick Hillman
Debi Gibbs
Joey Kesler
Trudy Kesler

SICK ROOM
Tammy Ward

VIDEOGRAPHY
Lee Higginbottom

PRAISE TEAM
Chris Lindsey
Vicki Lindsey
Jeremy King
Veronica King
John Knutson
Holly Knutson
Steve Corp
Brenden Davison

PRAISE TEAM BAND
Chris Lindsey
Sean Algaier
Andy Robinson
Neil Graney
Teresa Graney
Ben Ayers
Aaron Mize

BREAK-OUT SESSION TEACHERS
Patrick Mead
Brian Bowers
Robert Martin
Sara Barton
Scott Ockerman
Shaun Hover
Adam Hill
Adam Hacias
Katy Hacias
David Watts
David Rotberg
Krystal Rotberg
Ty Warczinsky
Brandi Warczinsky
Joe Howard
Chris Lindsey

SPONSORS
Rochester College
Ohio Valley University
York College
Harding University
Great Lakes Christian College

STAGE PREPARATION
Jodie Anspach
Vicki Lindsey

BABYSITTERS FOR VOLUNTEERS
Kerri O'Connor
Allyson Huey
Melody Hastings
Sarah Ageno
Meghan Palmer

PEOPLE WHO HOUSED (approx. 100) GUESTS
Russel & Karen Wilkinson
Bob & Sheila Sparks
Jerry & Tammy Ward
Bob & Laura Stewart
Gayle Flanigan
Duane and Pat Harrison
Bill & Paula Flowers
Todd & Patti Jenema
Mark & Linda Dear
Jeff & Mollie Debandt
Tom & Sara Hayman
Dave Cassilly
Jerry & Julie Parks
Scott & Renee Tekely
Dave & Karen Benedict
Gary & Dawn Osborn
Rick & Merry Hastings
Fred & Lisa Hartman
Keith & Barb Huey

EVERYWHERE
Trudy Kesler
Michelle Steckel
Jason Steckel

Once again, I want to thank everyone who was a part of the weekend. I hope I have not forgotten anyone’s name here, because I really appreciate all of you. Let me end this article with a comment from one of the youth ministers who was here for Illuminate:
“Illuminate was AMAZING! It is quickly becoming my favorite event of the year. Everyone involved did a great job. John Reuben was, as expected, excellent. Well, I am running out of synonyms for really good.”

shine!
Jason

Monday, March 23, 2009

The day after

Well, it's the end of amazing weekend. I will have much more to say tomorrow, but I have to take a minute to thank the wonderful people of the Rochester Church. Over 100 people volunteered to make Illuminate happen. When I did the math, I estimated that over 1,500 hours of work went into making Illuminate a success. Wow!
Over the last several months, I have probably put about 75 hours of time into Illuminate 2009. People ask me how I made Illuminate happen. It wasn't me all that much. There were another 1,425 hours of time put in by an army of people. I only contributed 5% of the time put into this event. The other 95% came from others who brought a variety of talents and abilities to the table.
Most of all, I want to thank God for being present in an amazing way! I was reminded once again this weekend of the power of God and the value of community. The Holy Spirit moved powerfully this weekend through the hearts, minds, and bodies of scores of people at the Rochester Church. I am blessed to be part of such an incredible church family.

shine!
Jason