In his letter to the churches around Ephesus, the apostle Paul wrote, “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise—“so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.” (Ephesians 6:2-3) He was echoing the words of The Ten Commandments found in Exodus 20 and Deuteronomy 5.
Today, as we celebrate Mother’s Day, let’s make it more than a day to buy our mom a lunch or give her a flower. Let it be a reminder that we should honor our mother every day of the year. Honoring our mom’s in not about a lunch or a flower, it’s about being thoughtful in the words we say and the way we act every day of the year. Mother’s Day should lead us to reflect the other 364 days of the year.
It’s no mistake that Paul’s words in Ephesians 6 are found in the same letter where Paul wrote, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:29-32)
Last month marked the twelfth anniversary of my mom’s death. As I think back to the time I spent with my mom, especially during my teenage years, I realize there are times that I didn’t always honor my mom. I didn’t need to always agree with her to honor her, but there are times I wish I would have disagreed or argued in a way that was honoring.
Whether we are 16, 36, or 56, we should always seek to honor mothers in the way we treat them. While my mom wasn’t perfect, she was the woman who invested her heart and soul in me and my life. Mom’s will do things we don’t like a disagree with. Sometimes we will be right. Other times – most of the time in my case – mom was right and I should have listened.
Honoring someone is not about giving in to them or saying they are always right. It’s not about giving up our individuality. Rather, it’s about acknowledging the other person in a way that treats them with dignity and respect. We all want. We all deserve that. When Paul said that we should honor our father and mother “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth,” he was providing a life lesson. The way we treat our parents will often determine how our relationships will look for the rest of our lives.
Take time today to tell your mom thank you and honor her. Take her out to lunch or give her flowers. If she is no longer here, take time to thank God for the memories you do have. If you mom is still alive, make today an opportunity to remember that honoring her is not a once-a-year activity, but a lifelong practice that will reflect the character of God of prepare us for being representatives of His Kingdom.
shine!
Jason
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