Back where I belong

Last Sunday, June 26, we announced that I was returning to my role as Minister for Families with Youth at Rochester Church. Below is what I shared with the parents and students that morning...

Let me begin by extending a thank you to this church and to our elders. Thank you for your ongoing support. Thank you for the opportunity to explore a different role here at Rochester Church. And, thank you for allowing and affirming my return to the role that I believe God has designed me for.

So how did we get here today? Let me start near the end of the story.

Four weeks ago today, Michelle and I were in this very room setting up tables and chairs for the annual Backyard BBQ. As many of you know, that became a basement BBQ because of the rain that had fallen and the threat of storms.

How many of you have seen the movie The Sixth Sense? If you haven’t, I apologize because I am about to ruin the ending.

Anyway, in the midst of setting up chairs, I had a moment very similar to the one Bruce Willis’ character experienced at the end of that movie. I froze, looked at my wife, and said, “What are we doing? Why are we walking away from THIS?”

At that moment, so many situations from the last nine months flashed before my eyes. I thought of times of excitement like Winterfest, Illuminate, and 30 Hour Famine. I remembered one-on-one conversations with students. It was much like Bruce Willis’ character when he realizes he has been dead the whole movie. Suddenly, a bunch of otherwise random moments of joy, frustration, and depression all fit together.

That started a week of prayer and discernment. I contacted several close friends in ministry and asked for their wisdom and guidance. I asked them to pray for me. I asked them to ask me all of the tough questions. I asked them to join with me in sorting through what I was thinking and feeling.

One of the most interesting conversations was with David Rubio. David is the youth minister at Otter Creek Church where Josh Graves now ministers. About two years ago, David began a transition at Otter Creek where he was going to move from youth ministry into working with pastoral care and small groups as Josh came on board to oversee preaching and teaching.

Just short of a year into the transition, the search team at Otter Creek had narrowed their search down to two candidates for the youth ministry position, and they were about to bring these two in for on-site interviews.

Just days before they bought tickets to fly these two people in, David had a moment where it “hit him” that he was moving away from the ministry he was most passionate about and most gifted to serve in. He approached his leadership and asked if he could return to his old position. After a brief period of prayer and discernment, David returned to his role in the youth ministry, where he has been serving for the last year. He told me it has become clear to him that he made the right decision and God has affirmed that.

While I realize this is a different church and I am not David, it was eerie to me how similar our stories were. If nothing else, my conversation with him helped me see that I was not completely crazy (or that at least one other person was a crazy as me).

It was also during that week that spent some time with God in my backyard. Don’t picture some quiet, serene scene with me sitting under a tree. No. I was mowing my yard. Mowing is a spiritual event for me. I typically put in my earbuds and pull up my Chris Tomlin music while I mow. Normally, I sing along as I mow (much to the chagrin of my neighbors who might be listening). However, this time I took a slightly different approach. I decided to simply listen. Listen to the music. And listen for God’s voice. What was it that I needed to hear in this time of prayer and discernment?

What I heard over the next hour and a half was very clear to me. I kept hearing this voice saying to me, “You’re a youth pastor. You’re a youth pastor.” This was yet another confirmation for me.

In addition to my conversation with David and my lawn mowing experience, I talked with ministers, missionaries, friends, and spiritual mentors. They did ask me tough questions. They challenged me with their comments and inquiries. But, after talking with them, each of them affirmed (either at the end of our discussion or later), that they sensed this was the right decision.

It was at the end of that week that I called Jim Randolph. Michelle and I went to his house on Saturday afternoon and spent several hours talking with Jim. He asked some of the same questions I had heard throughout the week. He listened to our hearts. We talked at some length about why Michelle and I felt this was where we should serve.

That Wednesday evening, I met with the eldership and again shared much of what I have shared with you this morning. They also asked some of the same questions. They also listened. They were both loving and diligent in our conversation and I appreciate and love every one of them for their love for me, my family, and this church.

Over the next week and half, they continued to engage in prayer, discernment, and discussion. Last weekend, we gathered together and they affirmed my return to the role that I know that God has called me to.

I stand before you today having experienced some of the same frustrations and disappointments that many of your have experienced. As a matter of fact, it was just a few months ago that I sat in this room on a Wednesday night and shared with the teens here that night that I felt I had let them down. I wasn’t as present with them as I wished I could have been during the season following Nancy Milligan and Jeremy King’s deaths. In spite of the many events we continued to offer, I know that they sensed I had divided attention. That has weighed on my heart for some time and I look forward to a renewed season of attention completed devoted to students and their families.

I realize that this transition raises questions, and while I can’t anticipate every question, I want to answer a few questions that seem to have come up a number of times in the last month.

What about your passion for the other job?

This is a very fair and good question, and it’s one I myself have wrestled with over the last month. I think there are a few things related to answering this question. The first one is that I firmly believe that the things that are a part of that role are important to me. I am a huge proponent of small groups. I feel that good pastoral care is important for every family in this church. I believe that it is crucial for us to get new members connected. I believe in the LifeStage model and desire that every LifeStage ministers to and equips its families. These things are not any less important to me than they were a few months ago.

We have made a lot of headway in these areas. Mike Thomas and I have been working together to reinvigorate our LifeGroups and things are moving towards a Fall launch. Ramie Robinson and I have been working to refine our Pastoral Care Ministry and we are in the process of adding some additional aspects of pastoral care for families in crisis. We have been seeking and developing new methods for improving the way we connect our new members. The full-time and part-time staff members anchoring each LifeStage have been working together to improve interaction between LifeStages.

For me, the issue is not that I don’t think those things are important. As a matter of fact, we have accomplished a lot while still providing a significant, albeit reduced level of ministry for our families with youth.

What has become abundantly clear to me over the last month or so is that my deepest, most significant passion is still ministering with and to families with youth. I love students. I love their parents. And I love watching families connect, grow, and serve. As a matter of fact, most of the highlights of the last year for me have been moments spent with students and their families.

Are there any other underlying reasons?

Another fair question. We have been through a lot of changes over the last nine months. We stood with a family who lost a wife and mother after years of fighting cancer. We experienced the untimely and tragic death of a staff member. We walked with a family through the death of their young child. We are in the midst of a staff change as Patrick moves to Colorado and Adam begins his season as Minister of the Word here at Rochester Church.

If anything, I believe these events and changes clouded my ability to listen to God about my role here at Rochester Church and my passion in ministry. I love this church family and one of the reasons I began this transition into this other role was because I sensed there was a void in some areas at a congregational level. The leadership team and I felt that I had the gifts and abilities to help fill much of that void. I chose to accept this new role because I wanted to do what I felt was in the best interest of this church.

What I discovered as I began to move into this new role is that while I might have the gifts and abilities to accomplish the tasks before me, I was serving outside of my core passion. One of the things I missed the most was being involved in people’s lives. I found myself spending more time in the office and less time with people. As matter of fact, to be completely transparent with you, I considered an opportunity at another church several months ago. Looking back, I am convinced the main reason I even considered that opportunity was because some of my core passions for ministry were feeling neglected.

As we are moving into a new season of ministry as church, I am confident that God has provided – and will provide – the right people to help serve this church family in the years ahead. I look forward to being a part of that team for many years in my role as Minister for Families with Youth. I have made a commitment to our leadership, and I make a commitment to you, that I will be serving the families with youth in this congregation for many years.

While I have already shared with you many of the lessons I have learned over the last year, let me share with you a few key things I am taking away from this experience.

Listen to my wife

From the beginning of my transition last Fall, Michelle has always felt uneasy about my moving away from ministering to families with youth. She was always supportive, but at the same time, she would question the transition from time to time when we had conversations about my change in roles. I did not listen to my wife enough. She has been a quiet voice all along asking me to think about the change. Instead, as a somewhat (ok, very) stubborn man, I plunged into this transition without listening to her voice of wisdom. As most of you know, Michelle is one of the most loving people on the planet and she has a heart for people and ministry. I should have been quicker to listen to her and her heart.

Live into your calling

There is something to be said about doing what you love. Now, I realize that sometimes out of necessity, we must do something to earn a living that we may not love. However, I am blessed to have an opportunity to do what I love. Other than being a husband and a father, there is nothing in this world I am more passionate about than teenagers and their families. For the last dozen years, I have walked along teenagers in the midst of tragedy and sorrow. I have rejoiced with teenagers as they experience moments of celebration and success. I have listen to teenagers pour out their hearts, their pains, and their dreams. I have sat in hospital waiting rooms with parents who children are sick and suffering. I have walked the streets of places all over the world, including Rio and Cincinnati, walking alongside students and parents alike as we serve together.

For some reason, along the way, I lost sight of what God called me to be. Outside of my family, you are the people about whom I am most passionate. I sometimes stay awake at night reflecting on a text message received at 11pm. There are mornings I wake up with expectation to head off to coffee with one of your children. I find some of my greatest joy in watching teenagers love on a child in inner-city Cincinnati or have an “a-ha” moment in the middle of a Bible class.

Some have asked, are you really back? How long do you think you’ll do this? My answer is, yes, and for a long time. I thank you for your patience with me for getting a little distracted along the way. But I also ask for your help and prayers as we move forward. Today is the beginning of a new season. A chance to both restore what we have had in the past and reach for even more. We are partners in this journey and I realize that I have not been the partner you have needed. I am pledging to you that I am excited about this new chapter that lies before us and I look forward to working with you as we all seek to connect, grow, and serve as citizens of the Kingdom of God.

shine!
Jason

The Magic Kingdom and the Kingdom of God

We enjoyed a wonderful week away with family at the DisneyWorld Resort, but it is also good to be back home. Any of you who know me well, know that have a bit of a cynical side. I must admit that that part of me didn't take a vacation last week. I do want to admit upfront that I did thoroughly enjoy my time with family and my experiences at all four Disney theme parks. That being said, let me share with you one thought coming out of my week.
There is a song that you will often hear, especially at the Magic Kingdom. Here are a few lines from the chorus:
Just believe and if you imagine,
Just believe and your dreams will come true.
While these words make for great fairy tales, they don't always work out in real life. Unfortunately, I believe that many people, often followers of Jesus, apply this idea to life. But life is not a fairy tale. Dreams don't always come true. We don't always get what we imagine if we just believe. Real life doesn't work that way.
In the real world, people sin. In the real world, people let us down. In the real world, there is pain and suffering.
This doesn't mean we don't imagine. It doesn't mean we can't dream. But it does mean we must acknowledge we live in a broken and suffering world. We cannot escape this world. Rather, we must embrace the reality of this world and encourage one another along the way.
I like stories with a happy ending. I will even sometimes cry at the end. But, I cannot allow myself to buy into the lie these stories seem to convey that everything will also turn out the way we want.
I try to live life by the following mantra: "Hope for the best, plan for the worst." I like to call it cautious optimism. Not only does it shape my outlook on life; it shapes my approach to prayer.
When I pray with an attitude of "Just believe and if you imagine, just believe and your dreams will come true," then I am setting myself up for disappointment. God is not like a theme park built with decorations and facades. God was upfront with the realities of life. God lived these realities in the person of Jesus Christ.
Because of God's willingness to live in our world, we have the ultimate promise of a place where there will be no tears and no sorrow. We live in the tension between what is and what is to come. But until that day comes when we experience the return of Christ, we must live in the reality of our world. Our prayer life must balance the brokenness of today with the promise yet to come. That's not a fantasy; it's the reality of God's faithfulness in a world waiting to be redeemed.

shine!
Jason

No Rock like God

In the midst of her prayer shortly after the birth of Samuel, Hannah says, “There is no Rock like our God” (2 Samuel 2:2)
What does it mean for God to be our Rock?
I think we often think of God more like a lucky charm. When we need the charm, we pull it out and wish for what we want. I don’t think that’s what Hannah had in mind when she called God a Rock.
A rock is steady. Whether the waves beat against it or the waters are calm, the rock remains. Come rain or shine, the rock remains. A rock can be a place to stand that does not move and provides stability.
Yes, Hannah’s prayer was answered. But Hannah’s response is different than a lot of our responses. It seems as though people tend to have two responses to prayer. Either they get upset when God doesn’t answer or they forget to give God credit or fulfil their commitment to God when the prayer is answered.
I think the reason that Hannah’s story is so incredible is that she kept her commitment to God after the prayer was answered. Many people would have probably said something like the following: “Thanks for the child, God. I appreciate you answering my prayer.” That was not Hannah’s response. Hannah said the following:
“I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the LORD. For his whole life he will be given over to the LORD.” (1 Samuel 1:27-28)
The next time you pray and God answers, remember that God is the Rock who knows and provides for us. But God is not our personal genie. We must not forget “that in all things God works together with those who love him to bring about what is good.” (Romans 8:28)
God does not answer prayers for our individual, personal benefit. God moves in ways that consider all things and the redemption of all of Creation. Prayers are not a collection of individual requests that stack up for God to grant. Rather, prayers are a collective cry of Creation seeking the One who can make all things new.
Hannah must have had some understanding of that. When Samuel was born she did not keep him. Rather, she gave Samuel to the Lord and realized that her prayer was not answered just so she could be a mother. Rather, God used her prayer as a way to bring forth a mighty prophet who blessed the entire nation of Israel.
May we be people who seek an attitude like Hannah’s and offer prayers that frame our individual needs and desires in the larger framework of God’s mission to rescue all of Creation.

shine!
Jason

Begin with the end in mind

In his book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, the second habit that Steven Covey discusses is, "Begin with the end in mind." I appreciate Covey’s purposeful consideration of a long-term view on our decisions.
So often, in our spontaneous and immediate culture, we fail to look much beyond the immediate impact of our decisions. We often choose a course of action not in the context of a larger idea of what our life is about, but rather, we decide based on what is best in the moment.
YouTube, Facebook, text messaging, and a variety of other aspects of our current culture often seem to encourage us to say and do something that will bring immediate results and attention. How many hits will we get? How many people will “like” or comment on my post? How quickly will my text be answered? These are questions that often drive us today.
We could learn something from Covey’s focus on the beginning with the end in mind. But, this is not some new idea that comes out of the business world. There was another writer, Paul of Tarsus, who penned some similar thoughts a few thousand years ago.
The last document we still have that Paul wrote is what we call 2 Timothy. This is a letter that Paul wrote to his “son in the faith,” Timothy, near the end of Paul’s life. It included a number of words of wisdom to Paul’s student and friend.
Near the end of the letter, Paul said the following…
For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time for my departure is near. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing. (1 Timothy 4:6-8)
This was not some sudden realization that Paul experienced as he neared death. The good fight. The race. Keeping the faith. These were the end that Paul kept in mind from the beginning. They were markers that shaped his decisions throughout his life.
When Paul wrote these words to Timothy, he must have been reflecting back on the thirty or so years he had spent as a follower of Jesus. From the dusty Damascus road to his house arrest in Rome, Paul has lived a life of purpose and focus.
What words would you like to write in a letter at the end of your life? If you looked to the end of your life, what “I have…” statements would you want to make?
Life your life in such a way today, that those would be your words tomorrow and in the years to come.

shine!
Jason

The Word became flesh

One of the most amazing things about the incarnation of Jesus is the fact that God took the more of a human being a lived with us. Some of the most powerful words in the Bible are found in John 1:14, “The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us.”

The implications of this statement seem to be endless. Jesus showed us what it means to be truly human. Rather than sitting back and waiting for us to him, God came to us. The Creator came to the creation. The Maker lived within the world he made.

Our God understands what we experience. God has intimately experienced life as a human. If you think God doesn’t understand what it means to be a child, think again. When Jesus was a baby, Mary would have had to do the first century equivalent of changing his diaper. When Jesus was a child, he probably understood what it meant to feel as though he was invisible to adults. When Jesus was a teenager, he had to experience puberty. As he entered his adult life, Jesus certainly would have experienced disappointment, frustration, and anger.

We see Jesus’ humanity when he cries with Mary and Martha as they mourn the death of Lazarus.

We see Jesus’ humanity when he displays his anger by turning over the tables in the temple.

We see Jesus’ humanity as he weeps over Jerusalem before the triumphal entry.

The God of the universe didn’t become human just so he could die on a cross. He also came to show us what it means to be truly human and then prepared the way for us to follow him. When Jesus calls us to pick up his cross and follow him, he doesn’t speak those words from a distance. He speaks them as a human being who himself experienced the pain and suffering of rejection and death.

But it doesn’t end there. Jesus was raised from the dead. And, in the words of Paul, “if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly also be united with him in a resurrection like his.” (Romans 6:5)

The humanity of Jesus guarantees that God understands our sufferings today, but it also guarantees that we too will one day experience resurrection. We can find hope in a God who suffers with us today and offers us a new life in the age to come.

 

shine!
Jason

Die that I might live

It doesn't matter how much I study or how much schooling I have. Information about God alone does not constitute Christianity. It is so much more.
Kallistos Ware states it well when he writes, "Christianity is more than a theory about the universe, more than teachings written down on paper; it is a path along which we journey - in the deepest and richest sense, the way of life."
If we want to know God, have a relationship with him, we must walk the same journey he walks. We will not experience the same details on our journey; the scenery may look different. But the essence and destination are the same.
Paul writes, "I want to know Christ—yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, attaining to the resurrection from the dead." (Philippians 3:10-11)
Self-sacrifice. Humility. Holiness. Those are the attributes of this journey. Our suffering must lead us to death. It may not be a physical death, but it must be a death of will. Our will must succumb to the will of the Father. Our desires must reflect the desires of the Kingdom. We must be willing to die that we might live.
The journey is often hard and the path is often the one less traveled. But God is our refuge and strength. He will be our fortress. When the road is rocky and the trail seems narrow, God will carry us through. And at the end of the journey, we will experience new life, resurrection. But there cannot be resurrection without death.
God, help me die that I might live. Amen.

shine!
Jason

Honoring mom

In his letter to the churches around Ephesus, the apostle Paul wrote, “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise—“so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.” (Ephesians 6:2-3) He was echoing the words of The Ten Commandments found in Exodus 20 and Deuteronomy 5.

Today, as we celebrate Mother’s Day, let’s make it more than a day to buy our mom a lunch or give her a flower. Let it be a reminder that we should honor our mother every day of the year. Honoring our mom’s in not about a lunch or a flower, it’s about being thoughtful in the words we say and the way we act every day of the year. Mother’s Day should lead us to reflect the other 364 days of the year.

It’s no mistake that Paul’s words in Ephesians 6 are found in the same letter where Paul wrote, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:29-32)

Last month marked the twelfth anniversary of my mom’s death. As I think back to the time I spent with my mom, especially during my teenage years, I realize there are times that I didn’t always honor my mom. I didn’t need to always agree with her to honor her, but there are times I wish I would have disagreed or argued in a way that was honoring.

Whether we are 16, 36, or 56, we should always seek to honor mothers in the way we treat them. While my mom wasn’t perfect, she was the woman who invested her heart and soul in me and my life. Mom’s will do things we don’t like a disagree with. Sometimes we will be right. Other times – most of the time in my case – mom was right and I should have listened.

Honoring someone is not about giving in to them or saying they are always right. It’s not about giving up our individuality. Rather, it’s about acknowledging the other person in a way that treats them with dignity and respect. We all want. We all deserve that. When Paul said that we should honor our father and mother “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth,” he was providing a life lesson. The way we treat our parents will often determine how our relationships will look for the rest of our lives.

Take time today to tell your mom thank you and honor her. Take her out to lunch or give her flowers. If she is no longer here, take time to thank God for the memories you do have. If you mom is still alive, make today an opportunity to remember that honoring her is not a once-a-year activity, but a lifelong practice that will reflect the character of God of prepare us for being representatives of His Kingdom.

 

shine!
Jason

What's your story?

What is your story?

There are two aspects to this question. Before we can share our personal story, we must address the larger question of what story are we a part of? It seems popular today for people to share their testimony. While there is nothing wrong with that, if we are a part of God’s family, there is a larger story from which our story emerges and into which our story merges.

From the beginning, God has intended for human beings to enjoy relationship with God and with one another. In the Garden of Eden, God created a world for humans to enjoy and care for. In the blink of an eye, that world was disrupted and sin entered the picture. Through Adam and Eve’s decision, all of creation was subject to the curse.

Since that fateful day, our world has suffered. Paul writes in Romans 8:19-23, “For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed. For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God.

We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption to sonship, the redemption of our bodies.”

We are a part of that story of redemption. Starting with Abraham and culminating in the person of Jesus Christ, God was unfolding the story of redeeming all creation. While the incarnation of Jesus Christ is a key part of the story, it is not the end. When Jesus said, “It is finished,” He did mean that God’s redeeming act had been accomplished. However, our part in the story is not finished.

You are I are called to join God’s story. This is not our story; it is God’s. We are called to join God’s ongoing work of redemption and reconciliation. Paul wrote to the church in Corinth, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God.” (2 Corinthians 5:17-20)

As characters in God’s story of redemption, we are representing the Creator of the universe. We are acting in behalf of the one who created us and the world we share. We are not hear to live our own story. Instead, we must live lives that resonate with God’s greater story of making things right in the world.

What’s your story?

shine!
Jason

It changes everything!

The resurrection changes everything!

Think about the apostle Peter. When we meet Peter, we meet a young, impulsive man who thinks before he acts. And in spite of Peter’s willingness to look before he leaps, when Jesus is arrested, Peter runs for cover…

Then seizing [Jesus], they led him away and took him into the house of the high priest. Peter followed at a distance. And when some there had kindled a fire in the middle of the courtyard and had sat down together, Peter sat down with them. A servant girl saw him seated there in the firelight. She looked closely at him and said, “This man was with him.”

But he denied it. “Woman, I don’t know him,” he said.

A little later someone else saw him and said, “You also are one of them.”

“Man, I am not!” Peter replied.

About an hour later another asserted, “Certainly this fellow was with him, for he is a Galilean.”

Peter replied, “Man, I don’t know what you’re talking about!” Just as he was speaking, the rooster crowed. The Lord turned and looked straight at Peter. Then Peter remembered the word the Lord had spoken to him: “Before the rooster crows today, you will disown me three times.” And he went outside and wept bitterly. (Luke 22:54-62)

Peter was the only apostle to attempt to walk on water. Peter was the apostle that pulled out his sword when the soldiers came to arrest Jesus. But when he was faced with the opportunity to claim his relationship with Jesus, Peter was cautious and even vehemently denied his association with Jesus.

It’s only weeks later that we meet a different Peter; he is a changed man. This disciple that denied Jesus in a small crowd in the middle of the night now stands before thousands and declares his commitment to Christ. He goes as far as to tell the crowd, “Therefore let all Israel be assured of this: God has made this Jesus, whom you crucified, both Lord and Messiah.” (Acts 2:36)

What happened between Luke 22 and Acts 2? What would have so significantly altered Peter’s willingness to proclaim Jesus?

The resurrection.

It changes everything.

Instead of fear, it brings hope.

Instead of disorientation, it brings salvation

Instead of death, it brings life.

The resurrection calls us to a new way of life, both now and in the future. The resurrection is not just about some future hope of eternity with God. It is about the reality of the presence of God today. We live for the future and move towards the future now.

When we make Christianity about remaining faithful so we can have eternal life some day, we are missing so much. I believe that is why so many Christians are miserable and feel so incomplete. They are missing out on God’s desire to renew Creation today, not just when Christ returns.

God’s invitation is not just to accept a “get out of hell free card.” It is an invitation to bring heaven here now. It is an opportunity to change the world.

As you think about what it means to encounter the resurrection in your life, reflect on the words that Paul wrote in Colossians 3:1-17…

Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.

Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. Here there is no Gentile or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all.

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

shine!
Jason

The mystery of God's love

This past weekend was our fifth annual Illuminate Youth Conference. Once again, dozens of volunteers from Rochester Church came together to make this a great event. In addition, we were blessed by a variety of people who helped deliver God's message around our theme of "Mystery." Wiley Lowe delivered powerful messages, Salient and DeeperStill both lead us in worship. Ambassadors provided engaging drama (in the style of Scooby Doo). There were quality breakout sessions lead by Salient, Ambassadors, Patrick Mead, Pat Pugh, Sara Barton, Scott Ockerman, Adam Hacias, Evelyn Van Sloten, and Jim Calkin.

I am always impressed by the Rochester Church family, but Illuminate weekend is one of the times when they truly shine. We put out a call for a few hundred cans of pop and bottles of water, and they provided over a thousand. We needed housing for youth groups coming from out of town and everyone had a place to say. Registration, security, lunch preparation, and a variety of other areas were all taken care of and done with excellence. This is only because of the dedication and hard work of scores of Rochester Church members.

One of the most poignant moments of the weekend for me came on Sunday morning. While the conference officially ended on Saturday evening, Deeper Still was with us on Sunday morning to lead us in worship. As she had on Saturday, Veronica was singing with the rest of DeeperStill. J.T. Spivy, a member of Ambassadors, came up to provide a message leading us into our time of Communion. One of the key points he shared was how one day we will all be able to sit around the table with those we have lost. It was such a fitting message as I looked up at the men and women standing on the stage. The last several months have been challenging for many of us, especially Veronica and the DeeperStill family. I thought that J.T.'s words were a message of hope and light in the midst of a time still overshadowed by the darkness of Jeremy's death.

Life is indeed a mystery. There are many questions that may never be answered on this side of eternity. But there are some things that are not a mystery. God loves and cares for us. There may be moments of difficulty and pain where it's challenging to see or experience that love, but Love is present. God has given us one another to be a source of compassion and strength. When we find ourselves overwhelmed, there are others who are here to hold us up. that also means that when we see others who are overwhelmed, we must be there to hold them up. We are a family that must love our neighbors as ourselves.

I was reminded this weekend of the mystery of God's love. A love that never gives up in the midst of a world filled with conditional love. A love that gives all when so much love in today's society is more about taking. A love that brings light to darkness and hope to despair. It is not a surface, happy-clappy love that acts like everything is fine. Rather, it is a love that sustains and endures, even in moments where all seems lost. That's the kind of love this world needs and it's the kind of love that reflects the Kingdom of God.

shine
Jason

Fasting from Facebook

I have been thinking about what I could fast from during the season of Lent. While our particular religious tribe doesn't officially celebrate Lent, I thought it would be a great time to make some margin in my life.

I decided to go without Facebook for 40 days. Some of my friends have already reacted with gasps and disbelief. They wonder how I could go without updating my status, posting a picture, or sharing a link to spark some conversation. That's the point. I needed to give up something that would actually be a sacrifice.

Now, granted, going without Facebook is not a sacrifice in one sense, but it will be a distinct change for me. Facebook is a part of the rhythm of my life. I do birthday greetings every day, post interesting articles I come across, and post pictures from my personal life and ministry.

Part of the reason I am giving up Facebook is to create some margin in my life. While I don't sit and spend hours on Facebook, I do check it on my phone and sometimes when I am on my laptop I end up getting sucked into spending more time than I want or should spend browsing the News Feed and people's profiles.

So...enjoy the next six weeks, Facebook. I will miss you. However, you'll still hear from me indirectly. MyFitnessPal will still let you know when I exercise or lose some weight. I am sure a few people will tag me or post on my wall. But as for me? I will leave your icon quietly sitting on my iPhone and the bookmark tab in Safari will remain unclicked. I am sure I will miss you, but I will enjoy the moments of peace that your absence from my life will offer.

shine!
Jason

Marilyn Manson and church

This morning, a student I know posted the following quote on her Facebook page. From what I could find, this is a quote from musician Marilyn Manson. I do not know the date or context of the interview.

‎"I think church has very little to do with Spirituality. I think it's something you have to find in yourself. It's about expressing your deepest fears and your emotions and putting it in something. It's not about living in fear and praying and hoping you're not going to go to Hell. That's not very Spiritual to me. "

I will be the first to admit that I am not an expert on Manson, nor do I listen to his music, but I was intrigued but what he had to say.

Manson, whose given name is Brian Hugh Warner, has evidently received a lot of negative press because of his anti-Christian message. Again, without having listened to much, if any, of his music, I am not going to make a lot of comments about the message he sends.

However, after a little bit of research, I did discover some interesting things about what may have shaped the view he espoused in the above quote. (I did find this information on the internet, so it's validity is always open to falsehood.) Apparently, Brian attended a private, Christian school most of his childhood. There are also other childhood experiences that may have contributed to his attitude towards Christianity, and I think all of that is important to consider as we listen to what he has to say.

Anyway, back to the quote...

I think that Manson has some valid points. But the question I must ask is which "church" is he talking about?

Is he talking about the living organism God intended, or the organization that has developed over time?

Is he talking about the prophetic people of God, or the product-driven dispenser of religious goods and services?

Is he talking about the living temple of the Holy Spirit, or the building where people gather once a week?

Is he talking about the body created in the image of God, or a group of people creating God in their image?

Depending on which one he is talking about, Manson may be right. To be honest, most of us struggle between the divergent explanations of church that I describe above. We are a broken, imperfect people, often wrestling with our own sins and shortcomings. But that doesn't change who God is or who God is calling us to be.

I don't believe that Spirituality is something that we find in ourselves. However, it is something that must come from allowing God to work within us. I agree that Spirituality is something that allows us to express our fears. The Psalms are full of that kind of language. But Spirituality is not a self-help program or an individual endeavor.

While it is true that everyone travels a unique journey, no one travels that journey alone. That is precisely why the church is crucial, dare I say essential, for true Spirituality. It is only when we live in community with others who are also filled with and led by the Spirit that we can most fully experience Spirituality. Just as a finger cannot live without the rest of the body, neither can one person live without a community.

From the beginning, God created us to be in community. It is interwoven into who we are and how we exist. Yes, broken relationships and damaged trust can lead us to build walls and focus inward, but that is not what God intended, and neither is it the path to an abundant life.

I respect Manson's opinion because I sense he has experienced significant pain in his life, as have many others who reject or question Christianity. I cannot discount what they say, because it is their story. However, I can offer what I believe is a grander, more hopeful metanarrative that offers ultimate hope and redemption. This story is not found primarily in a certain set of beliefs, a specific building, or one particular religious organization. Rather, it is found in the mission of the Father, the person of Jesus Christ, and the power of the Holy Spirit. It is the story that I ascribe to and the one that sheds true light in a world often consumed by darkness.

shine!
Jason

Perspective Sunday

Yesterday afternoon, I witnessed a family saying farewell to their 7-year-old son who was tragically killed this past week. Yesterday evening, I witnessed my favorite football team saying farewell to their opportunity for a seventh Super Bowl championship. Typically, I really get into football games, especially one of this magnitude for my team. But last night? Last night was just not the same.

While my attitude about sports, and especially football, has tamed over the last decade or so, I still get pretty passionate watching games. But last night? Last night really put things into perspective for me.

I struggled with what words to share as I spoke at the funeral for a child. There is nothing you can say when you are looking into the eyes of a parent who is facing a lost of this magnitude. As the father of a ten-year-old, I can completely understand their love for their son, but I will never be able to comprehend the loss they are experiencing.

While I was gathered with several hundred people in a room filled with grief, tears, and memories, millions of people around the country were preparing to watch a game. In one tiny corner of the world, a family was experiencing a loss beyond words while parties were in full swing, probably just down the street from us.

Now, don't get me wrong. I am not berating all of those who are celebrating. As a matter of fact, those are the very kinds of moments that will provide the memories in the days ahead for this family who will now have an empty seat at the kitchen table. The family gatherings, the trips, those are the things that will bring smiles to often sorrowful faces.

But, yesterday put things in perspective for me in a powerful way.

Contrary to what many athletes say - including many I cheer for - I really don't think God is all that concerned about who wins a game where millionaires entertain us with their athletic abilities.

On the other hand, I believe that God was intimately concerned about a family mourning the loss of a son. I know He was present in that room yesterday and His Spirit was moving among us.

And if that's what God deems more important, which I firmly believe He does, that is where my heart needs to be as well.

Does that mean I will never cheer again for a football team? No. I will continue to enjoy watching a sport that entertains me.

Does that mean I won't get emotional at times when my team wins, or loses? Probably not.

Does it mean that I think entertainment is a bad thing. Not really.

What it does mean is this. That on a Sunday when the world was wrapped up in a sporting event, I was with a family who was wrapped up in the arms of Jesus. And if I am going to be His hands, His feet, and His arms, that is where my heart and passion needs to be first and foremost.

Regardless of which team would have walked away with the Lombardi Trophy last night, I walked away with a refocused perspective on what really matters, and that no matter how "big" of a game it is, it's just a game. Life, on the other hand, is so much more.

shine!
Jason

My Grown Up Christmas List

My favorite Christmas song is "Grown Up Christmas List" as performed by Amy Grant. While there are a lot of Christmas songs that I really enjoy, there is something about the message of this song that gets to the heart of the One for whom the season is named.  Here is a section of the song that means a lot to me:

So here's my lifelong wish,
My grown-up Christmas list.
Not for myself,
But for a world in need.

No more lives torn apart,
That wars would never start,(and wars would never start)
And time would heal all hearts.
And everyone would have a friend,
And right would always win,
And love would never end.
This is my grown-up Christmas list.

This is still my list. In a world where we are inundated by TV commercials telling us what we need to be happy, this song gets to the heart of what will bring true joy.

You and I are created to be beings that give and are sent. The Father sent to Son to set us free. He sent the Spirit to empower us to be free. And we are sent to extend this freedom to those around us. Our Christmas list should, in the words of the song, be "not for myself, but for a world in need."

While I will still give presents to loved ones and I will enjoy receiving gifts from those I love, this day and season is about much more than presents under a tree. Christmas is ultimately about the Gift from God that hung on a tree and set you and me free to give ourselves for the benefit of God's Creation.

What's on your Christmas list? At the top of my list is to be more open to the leading of the Holy Spirit and to give myself to benefit those around me. May my life be an extension of the Christ who was sent for me.

shine!
Jason

Jesus is my friend?

In the midst of the Christmas season I was thinking about how people view the Christ. I hear a lot of people say that Jesus is their friend. As I started thinking about that, a few questions came to mind.

What if people treated their other friends the way they treat their friend Jesus? What if they only visited him once or twice a week, texted throughout the conversation, paid little attention to what he might be trying to say to them, and gossipped about some of their common friends?

If we are honest, many of us are friends with Jesus because of what's in it for us. Think about how life would be if we treated our other friends like that. What if you only talked to your friends when they were going to do something for you? What if you ignored your friends until you were in trouble and then you got mad when your friend didn't do everything you wanted them to when times get rough? What if your friend tried to give you advice but you ignored the advice because it wasn't what you wanted to do?

Abraham was called a friend of God because he was following God. He wasn't perfect and made plenty of mistakes, but he followed God to an unknown land.

God knows that we will make mistakes. He extends grace and mercy. And he is more faithful than any other friend.

The next time you or someone you know says, "Jesus is my friend," think about the implications in that statement. A friend listens. A friend makes time. A friend respects. If Jesus is really our friend, shouldn't we listen to him, make time for him, and respect him?

shine!
Jason

Giving thanks

People across our country today are celebrating Thanksgiving Day. Many people will eat turkey, enjoy football, visit with family, and enjoy a day of rest. We have come a long way from the small gathering at Plymouth in 1621. In 1863, President Abraham Lincoln signed into law the official holiday that we celebrate today.

For many people, today is the start of the Christmas season. As I sit at my dad's house and watch the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade, I know that Santa's arrival on 34th Street is not far away. Tomorrow morning (or even late tonight), millions of shoppers will descend on stores opening early for "Black Friday" specials. This weekend, our family will set up our Christmas decorations. By Sunday evening, we will have our tree up and the lights on. To quote Andy Williams, "It's the most wonderful time of the year!"

But as followers of Jesus, let's not get lost in the turkey, football, and shopping. Let's make sure we take time to be thankful. The apostle Paul wrote, "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." (Colossians 3:17)

Whether it's the way you treat other people on Black Friday, your reactions to the craziness of the coming month, or your attitude towards your Christmas list, remember to frame everything through the Kingdom of God.

When he was talking to the Ephesians elders. Paul said, "I have not coveted anyone’s silver or gold or clothing. You yourselves know that these hands of mine have supplied my own needs and the needs of my companions. In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: 'It is more blessed to give than to receive.'" (Acts 20:33-35)

In a season when every TV commercial seems to tell us to want, want, want, and take, take, take, let's fight against that trend and focus on giving. That begins with an attitude of thanksgiving. Whether it's Paul's words to the Colossians (quoted above) or his words to the church in Phlippi, our way of thinking shapes how we approach life. In Philippians 4:11-13, Paul wrote, "I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength."

Thankfulness often emerges from the willingness to give. I have learned that the more I learn to be content, the easier it is to be thankful. We are surrounded by a society that ties our contentment to our possessions. Almost every commercial tells us that our happiness is dependent upon buying their product.

While there is nothing wrong with getting a new toy, television, or car, we cannot allow our joy to be controlled by what we do or do not have. The more I have learned to be content with whatever I have, the more thankful I have become for what I have. One of the ironies of life is that many of the most joyful people I have met in my life have been the ones who have the least. Whether it's people in Brazil, children in inner-city Cincinnati, or homeless people in Oakland County, I have often found the strongest sense of thankfulness in the lives of people who, from the world's perspective, have the least amount to be thankful for.

Take time today to reflect on what you have instead of what you don't have. In last few weeks I have been reminded of what is truly important in life. Jeremy's death has reminded me that stuff isn't all that important, but that relationships are the most valuable things we share. Make sure that in this season of thankfulness that you take time to celebrate and focus on the relationships that you have. Hug your family. Make time for friends. Thank God for the people that are important to you. The ultimate gift is not anything you can buy. It's your time and presence in the lives of others than is the greatest thing you can give.

shine!
Jason

What if you were to live today?

I can't tell you how many times I have heard or read the question, "What if you were to die today?" It is usually followed by questions about eternal destiny, heaven, and hell. It has been used for years to scare people into "making a decision for Jesus."

Now, don't get me wrong. I think that eternal life is very real and the promises of God are very true. However, do you think that all God is concerned about is getting us into heaven? Of course, people will argue that the purpose of living a good life now is so you can have eternal life with God. While there is some truth in that statement, I don't really think God wants to bribe us into being good now so we can have eternal life later.

What if, instead, eternal life was the continuation and completion of the kingdom of God that is already unfolding in our midst? What if our good works weren't just for our benefit later, but, more importantly, for the benefit of others now? What if we didn't concern ourselves so much with where we will be later, and focused instead of who we are now?

As followers of Jesus, maybe we should spend a little more time looking in the mirror and asking ourselves some important questions. Jesus himself said, "And why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye when you have a log in your own? How can you think of saying to your friend, ‘Let me help you get rid of that speck in your eye,’ when you can’t see past the log in your own eye? Hypocrite! First get rid of the log in your own eye; then you will see well enough to deal with the speck in your friend’s eye." (Matthew 7:3-5)

Before we go around asking everyone else, "What if you were to die today," maybe we should start by asking ourselves, "What if you were to live today?"

shine!
Jason

Good words

I am still struggling with the reality of Jeremy King's death. This week I have still expected him to stick his head in my doorway, smile, and ask what he can do to help. That was who Jeremy was. He was a man who embodied humility and servanthood.

As I reflect on Jeremy's life and on my own, I am challenged by his example. I have had a number of people comment on the words I shared, along with Patrick and Adam, about Jeremy at his funeral. To every person who made a similar comment, I have responded by saying that Jeremy made it easy.

I have attended and participated in funerals where it might be a challenge to uncover a lot of good words about the person who was being remembered. In Jeremy's case, the opposite was true. There was not nearly enough time to share all of the good memories I have about Jeremy. While I would not consider him a close friend, we had grown much closer over the last year as we served alongside each other on staff here at Rochester Church.

Whether he was standing on stage, practicing with the praise team, or sitting in my office talking about ministry and life, Jeremy was always the same person. He didn't have any pretenses or pride. He was not arrogant or self-serving. He was a good husband and father. He was a trustworthy friend. He was a man of God.

The word eulogy is a Greek word meaning "good words." There have been endless good words shared about Jeremy over the last week because he was a good man. He was a witness to what it means to love God and love your neighbor as yourself. Reflecting on his life over the last week has challenged me to be a better husband, a better father, and a better friend. I pray that when my time on this earth comes to an end that I will have lived in such a way that people speak good words about me.

Jeremy, I miss you.

shine!
Jason

There are two funds that have been set up for Veronica and her children as they deal with the loss of Jeremy. If you would like to contribute, here is the information...

You can send funds to the Rochester Church of Christ. Checks should be made payable to "Rochester Church of Christ" and earmarked "Member Care Fund." It would also be helpful to enclose a note mentioning Jeremy. Those checks can be mailed to:

Rochester Church of Christ
250 West Avon Road
Rochester Hills, MI 48307

You can also donate to DeeperStill Ministries. Go to any Chase Bank, and make a deposit into account No. 879368868.

A new season of ministry

To my family at Rochester Church:

Yesterday, I announced I am expanding my responsibilities here at Rochester Church. I wanted to take a few minutes to address what that means for our church and the Ministry for Families with Youth.

I am excited for the future of Rochester Church. We are entering a new season filled with hope and opportunity and, as we partner with God in the future, I believe we will echo the words of the Apostle Paul, who wrote, “Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.” (Ephesians 3:20)

As we begin this new season of ministry, I want to begin by saying that I will continue to be involved with my ministry to Rochester’s families with youth. My new role is an expansion of what I have been doing for the last five years. My goal is to help create throughout all four LifeStages the environment we have developed over the last five years in Families with Youth. I will continue to work with our students and families as my responsibilities expand.

As I mentioned in a meeting with parents and students on September 1, my desire is to continue a significant level of personal interaction with students in the future. That will require us to raise up and equip more volunteers to help with some of the logistical functions I have personally taken care of in the past. These volunteers will allow me to continue to interact with students and families as well as address my new responsibilities. In addition, we will be considering additional staff that I would work with and mentor as a ministry partner. As we evaluate the best way to effectively minister to our families with youth, we plan to include our students and families in any significant decisions regarding staff.

In my new role, I will also be supporting and coordinating pastoral efforts for all LifeStages. Working with Elders, Pastoral Care Ministers, Staff, and others, my goal is to increase our pastoral care for the family here at Rochester Church. In addition to ministering to those in difficult situations and seasons, we are going to be more intentional about creating ways to increase ongoing pastoral connections with the families here.

There are two other aspects of my new role that we believe will aid people in getting connected and staying connected. I will be coordinating and supporting our new member integration efforts. As we seek to help people connect, grow, and serve here at Rochester Church, we are hoping to build on the things we are doing to facilitate even more opportunities for new members to become an active part of this church body.

The other piece is to help people stay connected. One of the most important venues for creating an environment where people can establish deeper roots at Rochester Church is through small groups. While small groups have been an important part of the lives of some of our members, we are convinced that we can, and must, place a more intentional focus on small groups. Small groups is one of the most important places at Rochester Church where we can connect, grow, and serve.

I am excited about the future here at Rochester Church. I believe that God is going to move powerfully around us, in us, and through us in the months and years ahead. As I have told some of you before, I believe that God does some of His best work in seasons of change. As we move into a new season of ministry here at Rochester Church, I am blessed to be a part of an incredible team and a wonderful church family. I will enjoy continuing to work with our students and their families while expanding into new areas of serving. I look forward to many more years of working in the Kingdom with you.

shine!
Jason

We actually played

Last night, Matthew and I went with Steven (one of my students) to Buffalo Wild Wings to watch the start of the NFL season and enjoy some 60-cent boneless wings.

Whenever Matthew goes to BW's with me, it usually involves playing some trivia while eating wings and watching some sporting event. This night was no different. True to form, as soon as the server came over, Matthew asked for the Buzztime unit.

Shortly after we got there, it was time for a new game to start. The game we begin to play is called "Six." I had never played it before, but quickly realized it resembles Trivia Pursuit in terms of content. There are six categories from which your questions come. There are a number of rounds that play out in various ways. I won't bore you with all of the details of the game. If you're really interested, visit the website to learn more.

Anyway, time to get to the point of the story. As we play on, I realize we're doing pretty well. We even answered all eighteen questions right in the "Marathon" round. As we finish the game, Matthew celebrates as the screen announces that we are the champions for this location.

But nothing could prepare Matthew for the next thing that comes up on the screen. It ends up that we are ranked 18th in the entire nation for the game. When the list of the top 20 scores from every location in the US shows up, there we are at number 18.

As we leave the place and begin our trip home, I get a text message from my wife asking where we are. She had just gotten home from a meeting and wondered why her 9-year-old son was not home and in bed at 10:05pm. Being the quick thinker I am, I hand the phone to Matthew and tell him to share with his mom our victory. Not bad thinking, eh? ;-)

After he hands the phone back to me, I hear Matthew from the back. "This is better than watching the Steelers win their 6th Super Bowl!"

Being the Steelers fan that I am (Matthew is a pretty big fan as well), I respond, "Really?"

The next words he speaks are still echoing in my mind. "Yes, because we actually played instead of watching someone else do it."

Profound words from the mouth of a young boy.

How often do we invest more energy, passion, and excitement in the accomplishments of an athlete, celebrity, and other professionals?

As I continue to reflect on his words, I wonder what the implications are for the church. Do we invest more energy in the words of a preacher than in our own abilities to speak love to others? Do we have more passion about a youth minister than pouring our own lives into those of our young people? Do we get more excited about a church program than starting our own ministry?

Don't misunderstand. I enjoy speaking and see a lot of value in doing it with quality. I love serving teenagers and their families. My role includes developing and carrying out quality programs. There is certainly importance for all of these things in a church community. But, what happens when that becomes the most important part of someone's spiritual identity? What are the implications for their spiritual development? What does all of that mean for the growth of the Kingdom of God?

Matthew reminded me of an important key to life. Accomplishments mean a lot more when we are intimately involved. Sure, I celebrated when the Steelers won their sixth Super Bowl a few years ago. But, Matthew is right. He, Steven, and I worked together to end up ranked 18th in the nation. No, it's not a Super Bowl trophy. True, the only people that know are probably those of you reading this blog. But, isn't Kingdom work often the same way?

There are people who serve and never get any recognition. The apostle Paul wrote, "The eye cannot say to the hand, 'I have no need of you,' nor again the head to the feet, 'I have no need of you.' On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor, and our unpresentable parts are treated with greater modesty, which our more presentable parts do not require. But God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it, that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together. Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it." (1 Corinthians 12:21-27)

To borrow another quote from the great theologians at Nike, "Just do it." In the Kingdom of God, we are broken people serving a world full of broken people. The greatest tragedy is not failure, but rather, the failure to try. As a cracked jar of clay, I would rather risk another crack than simply sit on a shelf and watch another, better-looking jar carry the water for me.

shine!
Jason

Conquering your fears

I have a fear of heights...a HUGE fear of heights. When we have gone on mission trips to Mississippi, I haven't even been able to do much work on the roof of a one-story house because I freeze up. I know I am a wimp when it comes to heights.

For ten years, the Millennium Force has taunted me. I have been there with family and they have chuckled at my fear. I have gone with youth groups and they have laughed and called me chicken. Regardless of the abuse I received, I have allowed my fear to remain stronger that anything people might say to me.

So what - or who - would finally push me beyond my fears? A nine-year-old boy. Specifically, a boy named Matthew who happens to share my last name.

Yesterday, Michelle, Matthew, and I went to Cedar Point. We rode a number of rides, but the Millennium Force was not on the list for a while. Then, as afternoon turned to evening, and the sun began to set, Matthew said the words that would force my hand. "I want to ride THAT!"

The lump formed in my throat. My heart skipped a beat. I was going to have to face the monster. I could resist others in my family who chuckled at my fear. I could ignore the laughs of teenagers. But, when my own son, my own nine-year-old son, wants to ride, I couldn't say no.

We got in line around 8:30pm. The sign said 1-3/4 hour from this point. Well, nothing like having time to think about what you're about to do. We wait and work our way through the line, starting up conversations with those around us. We got to know a really nice couple from Michigan who have a 22-year-old son in the Marines who will be deployed to Afghanistan later this year.

The conversations were a nice distraction from my fears. I was able to forget about what I was about to do. There were a few exceptions. The first was about 40 minutes into the wait when I realized there weren't any trains coming by us. The ride was stopped. But why?

We found out that a train had gotten stuck near the top of the first hill. Gulp! Wait! What am I doing?? Then I looked down at my son, who was undaunted by the news, and realized there was no turning back. Especially when he said, with determination, "I'm not leaving until I ride this."

Once the ride starting running again, the conversation resumed with our new friends and my fears faded. Until we started up the final ramp to the platform. As we entered the platform area, my fears resumed at a new level. I started asking myself, "What are you doing? Are you crazy?!?" My heart was pounding. My palms were sweaty.

We chose our line and there were three people in front of us. Good. I had a few minutes to prepare myself. The first two riders got on and their train left. I still had a few minutes to get ready. Then, another curve ball. The single rider in front of us jumped in with another single rider one car back and we were on now. What? Wait! I'm not ready yet. I thought I had a few minutes to prepare myself. But, suddenly, I found myself sitting in the car and strapping myself in.

As we are sitting there waiting, the lap bar releases. Um, hello, isn't that supposed to hold us in? The ride operator comes over the PA system. "Don't worry, we made it do that." Oh, now I feel better. (Insert sarcasm here.)

Finally, we are ready to go. The train goes forward and starts up the hill. In what seems like 2 seconds we are at the top of the hill. Way up there at the top of the hill. In this moment, I have a realization. There is nothing I can do about this. I am strapped into a chair 310 feet above the ground. I am about to drop at an 80 degree angle at speeds up to 93 miles per hour.

It is in this moment that I decide to let go and enjoy the ride. As we go over the top of the hill, I throw my arms up into the air and decide to confront my fear and engage the moment. My arms didn't come down until we pulled into the station. What an awesome ride!

As I look back on this experience, I come away with a few reflections...

Some fears are totally unfounded. While a fear of heights is not always bad, there are times that our fears can prevent us from enjoying life to the fullest.

I have a new appreciation for Christians who are afraid to fully embrace the call of Jesus to pick up their cross and follow Him. Picking up our cross can be a scary proposition.

At the same time, it gives me even more passion about calling people to conquer their fears, throw their arms up in the air, and enjoy the ride. John wrote that, "Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love." (1 John 4:18)

The more we understand the true implications of God's love for us, our fear subsides. One of the things that removed some of my fear on this roller coaster was the realization that hundreds of thousands of people have ridden this ride and survived. They have enjoyed the ride and been secure. While following Jesus is not always safe in the worldly sense, we are secure. God's love will never leave us and never forsake us. Regardless of what twists and turns we experience in life, God will always be there to embrace us.

Jesus said that, "My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life." (John 10:10)  I firmly believe that a lot of people turn to other things in life for satisfaction because they have not fully embraced the adventure of following Jesus. For many people, Christianity is primarily about rules and regulations and sitting in a building every week to listen to someone speak and sing a few songs. The rich and satisfying life is so much more and calls us to conquer our fears and follow Him.

This will look different for each person. It could mean overcoming our pride and serving others who may "damage" our reputation. It could mean facing our selfishness and giving away that which defines and consumes us. It could mean opening ourselves up to others and engaging in deep relationships we have avoided because we have been hurt before.

Regardless of what your "Millennium Force" is, God is calling you to conquer that fear and discover the rich and satisfying life He has for us. I know that the next time I am back at Cedar Point, I will be in line to ride again. Sure, I will still be a little nervous, but I am looking forward to going over that first hill and enjoying the ride.

shine!
Jason

Where did the summer go?

As you may have noticed in the last several days, I am trying to be more intentional and frequent in my blog posts. I wanted to take a few minutes today to reflect on this summer.

I am sitting here asking myself, "Wait! Is it really August 28?" I find it hard to believe that in a little over a week, it will be Labor Day and students will be returning to school. It seems like only yesterday that students were celebrating the end of the school year and we were gathering on the campus of Rochester College for Elevate. And now, it's time for buses, bells, and books. Really?

So what am I taking away from this summer? Well, I am still thinking about that. But here are a few things I have learned this summer.

The biggest lesson I have learned is to create space for others, especially my family. I tend to be a very busy person and I fill my schedule with things to do. While I still had a hectic summer, I found myself making more time for things like sitting in the backyard around the campfire with my wife and son. I didn't do this enough, but I feel like I made some headway.

I have also been challenged to make more room for God and others in my life. Often, I am so busy that I don't have time or space to stop and listen. That means my time with God often gets pushed aside. It also means I don't always have time to listen when someone else needs a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen. I have a long way to go with regards to this, but I feel like I have made progress this summer.

I am continuing to learn the value of self-control. Since it's a fruit of the Spirit, it's not as self-centered as it sounds. I have been learning that in areas where I lack control, I need to allow the Holy Spirit to invade and assume control. That means I need to make space (this keeps coming up, doesn't it) for God to dwell in my life. I don't do that enough, so I often lack the self-control I should have.

However, not everything in the area of self-control is going poorly. Through a variety of circumstances, including self-control, we have paid off our car and we are about to finish paying off some other debt as well. In addition, I have lost over 50 pounds through watching what I eat. I feel like this has been a year of considerable growth in the area of self-control, but I have a long way to go.

I am sure there are more things that I have learned, but these are the things on my mind right now. I look forward to seeing what other lessons God has in store for me as summer transitions into autumn. Seasons remind me that life is never static and always in transition, so I am waiting to see what awaits in the season ahead...

shine!
Jason

From Luther to the Lake

This morning I am sitting in Tony's lake house on Eagle Lake, watching the sunrise and reflecting on the week. It seems like this week has been much longer than seven days. We started out with a weekend retreat at Luther Seminary where we spent a few days with Sara Barton. It was a chance to evaluate our Rule of Life and share our lives.

Sunday morning we worshipped at St. Matthew's Episcopal Church and then we went to Como Park. Sunday evening was spent with the community of Solomon's Porch, first in their worship gathering, and then over a Burrito Bol at Chipotle. Our evening ended by settling down at Tony's house.

Monday and Tuesday were action-packed days spent with Tony Jones, Doug Pagitt, and Carla Barnhill from the Porch. We also had a chance to Skype with Nanette Sawyer from Wicker Park Grace in Chicago. Tuesday afternoon was spent at the home of Tim and Jill Geoffrion, where we had a chance to talk about leadership and experience a prayer labyrinth.

After spending the night at the home of a Solomon's Porch member Tuesday night, on Wednesday, we traveled up here to Tony's family cabin a few hours north of the Twin Cities. We have spent the last few days reading, discussing, reflecting, praying, journaling, boating, and more. It has been a holistic learning experience around the idea of hospitality. I have enjoyed spending time sitting at the feet of Tony Jones and Mark Love. They, along with my cohort - Doug Sanders, Mark Brazle, Wayne Beason, Ryan Woods, CindyLou Owen, and Courtney Jenko - have challenged me to think about what it means to be a follower of Jesus and extend hospitality to God, others, and creation.

Well, it's time to go make breakfast for everyone. I am making scrambled eggs and bacon. I'm looking forward to our last couple of hours together this morning as we continue the conversation...

shine!
Jason

What's been going on?

I have not blogged in a few weeks, so I am going to try to reflect on what I have experienced over the last couple of weeks...

From August 7-14, I was in Cincinnati with 26 RCC students, a handful of adults, and a team from the Warrenton (Virginia) Church of Christ. It was an incredible week where everyone worked hard and accomplished a lot for the Kingdom. Our team painted three houses and spent time with children in the community (as well as feeding them a meal each day). Even though the temperatures were in the mid-90's all week (with a heat index well over 100), everyone worked without complaining. I was amazed by their attitudes and desire to finish the tasks before them. I am pretty sure that Cincinnati impacted most us as much, if not more, than we impacted it. It was a great week!

After a few days home to catch my breath (which really means taking care of all of the details that get neglected when you're out of town), I left for the trip I am currently on. Last Friday, I spent the day traveling to Minnesota for a retreat and week-long intensive class for MREML program. Over the weekend, I stayed on campus at Luther Seminary, hung out with Mark Love, Sara Barton, and my cohort. We discussed a variety of things and ended the weekend worshipping at St. Matthew's Episcopal Church and then Solomon's Porch.

The last two days have been spent hanging out with Tony Jones, Doug Pagitt, and the authors of the other two books we are reading for this class. (Well, we had to Skype with the one who lives in Chicago.) We have been spending our days at Solomon's Porch and our evenings enjoying the Twin Cities. (Despite what Ryan Woods says, the Twin Cities have some good coffee and good coffee shops.) One of the highlights of the week so far for me was walking through a prayer labyrinth this afternoon.

The next couple of days will be spent further discussing hospitality as leadership (this is the title of our class). I am still trying to process the things we are hearing and learning, and I am listening to hear what God might be trying to tell me in this season of life and ministry. When you turn 40 - as I did in May of this year - your perspective on life makes a shift. Well, at least mine has. I am realizing that I have (statistically) lived over half of my life.

What am I going to do with the rest of my life? What does God have in store for me? What do I need to learn? How can I listen better to God? What does it mean to be a follower of Jesus?

As I reflect on the last couple of weeks, I realize that God is not done with me yet. He has turned dread into joy. He has opened my eyes to new things. He is transforming frustration into hope. And there is so much more He is doing that I am not realizing.

I have more questions that I do answers. I continue to learn that the more I discover, the less I know. God continues to remind me that He is God and I am not. Every time I think I know what I am doing, I realize that I am pretty clueless.

I consider myself a cautious optimist. I try to look at the glass as half full without trying to convince myself that I am promised a free refill. As I consider my life, my family, and my ministry, I am hopeful for the future. I believe that God has great things in mind for the Steckel family and the Rochester Church. I know that the road ahead will not always be easy, but I can find peace in the fact that regardless of where the road leads, God will be there.

Well, I could go on (and I already have too much), but this is just an update on where life has taken me over the month of August. I miss my wife, I miss my son, and I miss my Rochester family. I can't wait to get back home and reunite with all of them as we continue on this journey of faith that we are pursuing as a family and community.

shine!
Jason

Stick and stones may break my bones...

Why do we have such a hard time controlling our tongue? This week in reCharge we considered James’ words about this subject. Here is what James had to say…

Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. For we all stumble in many ways. And if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body. If we put bits into the mouths of horses so that they obey us, we guide their whole bodies as well. Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things.

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so. Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and salt water? Can a fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a grapevine produce figs? Neither can a salt pond yield fresh water. (James 3:1-12)

It is amazing how a few words can destroy a relationship, a family, or even a church. Like a bit in the mouth of a horse, a rudder on a ship, or a small fire, this small part of our body can change the course of something much bigger.

The old saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me,” is such a lie. We all can likely remember hurtful words that were spoken to us. For some of us, those words may have been spoken years ago, but their sting still hurts. Words have the potential to hurt in ways that sticks and stones never will. Physical wounds usually heal pretty quickly, but verbal wounds can last a lifetime.

When we talk to other people, we must always remember the potential we have to damage someone. We cannot praise God in one moment and curse someone who is created in His image the next. That is an inconsistency that reveals immaturity and contradicts the nature and character of God.

shine!

Jason

Faith, works, and salvation

What is the relationship between faith and works? As we look at what James says in James 2:14-26, we need to begin by seeking an understanding of salvation. Salvation is already, right now, and not yet.

When we are baptized into Christ, we experience the already sense of salvation. In baptism we receive the Holy Spirit, the down payment towards our inheritance (Ephesians 1:13-14). However, we have not “arrived” at that point. We are simply beginning the journey.

The right now aspect of salvation is an ongoing act of transformation. Once we experience the already aspect of salvation, the rest of our lives are committed to God’s continuing transforming of our heart and mind (Romans 12:1-2). If we ever become complacent and stop seeking and growing, we are abandoning God’s desire to save us. But we also know that we will never completely arrive as long as sin exists in the world. So we look forward to a better day.

This not yet aspect of salvation is both the dream we pursue and goal we seek. One day, Jesus will return with a new heaven and a new earth. In this act of restoring Creation, God is promising to make all things new (Revelation 21:1-15). This is the yet unrealized completion of God’s dream. As Christ’s ambassadors, we are called to partner with God in His movement towards the renewal of all things.

When we understand the amazing interplay of the already, right now, and not yet aspects of salvation, we can appreciate the rich relationship between faith and works. James writes in his letter that, “Just as the body is dead without breath, so also faith is dead without good works.” (James 1:26) Good works reveal our reaction to the already aspect of salvation. They engage us in the transformation focus of salvation right now. Works move us towards the not yet act of final salvation that we will experience when Christ returns.

Do our good works earn our salvation? No, but they help us grow in our faith and salvation.

Do our good works reveal our salvation? Absolutely! They are a sign of the change we are experiencing in our hearts and minds.

Faith without works is dead precisely because works are the fruit of faith. Faith, if it is real, must be more than belief. As James says, even the demons believe in God. True faith is active. Active faith is a life-long journey. A tree that isn’t producing fruit is dead. The same is true of a Christian who isn’t producing fruit.

Faith should be producing the kind of fruit that Paul writes about in Galatians 5…love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. If there isn’t fruit, then just like a body without breath, faith without good works is dead.

shine!

Jason

Favoritism

This week in reCharge, we focused on James 2:1-13, where James discusses the idea of favoritism. Here is the text we considered…

My dear brothers and sisters, how can you claim to have faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ if you favor some people over others?

For example, suppose someone comes into your meeting dressed in fancy clothes and expensive jewelry, and another comes in who is poor and dressed in dirty clothes. If you give special attention and a good seat to the rich person, but you say to the poor one, “You can stand over there, or else sit on the floor”—well, doesn’t this discrimination show that your judgments are guided by evil motives?

Listen to me, dear brothers and sisters. Hasn’t God chosen the poor in this world to be rich in faith? Aren’t they the ones who will inherit the Kingdom he promised to those who love him? But you dishonor the poor! Isn’t it the rich who oppress you and drag you into court? Aren’t they the ones who slander Jesus Christ, whose noble name you bear?

Yes indeed, it is good when you obey the royal law as found in the Scriptures: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you favor some people over others, you are committing a sin. You are guilty of breaking the law.

For the person who keeps all of the laws except one is as guilty as a person who has broken all of God’s laws. For the same God who said, “You must not commit adultery,” also said, “You must not murder.” So if you murder someone but do not commit adultery, you have still broken the law.

So whatever you say or whatever you do, remember that you will be judged by the law that sets you free. There will be no mercy for those who have not shown mercy to others. But if you have been merciful, God will be merciful when he judges you.

I wanted to quote the whole passage because there is a powerful message in what James says. As I said on Wednesday night, favoritism can be cancerous to a country, a family, a church, and even a youth group.

Avoiding favoritism doesn’t mean you can’t have close friends. It doesn’t mean you have to have the same level of relationship with everyone.

Avoiding favoritism is much deeper than that. It means that regardless of the depth or level of your relationship with someone, everyone deserves the same level of respect. No one deserves to be gossiped about or treated poorly. As followers of Christ, we are called to treat every person we encounter as a neighbor worthy of our love.

shine!

Jason

We're in a battle

I have spent the last week on campus at Rochester College for Elevate. In one of our evening youth group devotionals, we discussed the fact that we are in a spiritual battle.

A final word: Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil. For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places. (Ephesians 6:10-12)

Our battle is real and it is not for the weak-hearted. We cannot win the battle alone, but only when we rely on God, His power, and the strength we can only find in Christian community. Peter also warns us about our enemy when he writes:

Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. Stand firm against him, and be strong in your faith. (1 Peter 5:8-9)

If we are going to stand and stay alert, it requires us to have a firm foundation. Earlier in his letter to the Ephesians, Paul offered the following prayer:

When I think of all this, I fall to my knees and pray to the Father, the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth. I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong. And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is. May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.

Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think. Glory to him in the church and in Christ Jesus through all generations forever and ever! Amen. (Ephesians 3:14-21)

Following Jesus is not a spectator sport. It requires our involvement and dedication. It requires us to be empowered by the strength of the Holy Spirit, to allow Christ to make his home in our hearts, and to be rooted in the love of God. It is only when we live in the reality of all three of these that we will be made complete. It is not until we daily devote ourselves to time with God that we can find wholeness as God’s mighty power works within us.

shine!

Jason

In pursuit of Jesus

I just finished reading a book by Richard Foster titled, Streams of Living Water: Celebrating the Great Traditions of Christian Faith.  In this book, Foster examines what he calls the six great traditions of the Christian faith: Contemplative, Holiness, Charismatic, Social Justice, Evangelical, and Incarnational.

I appreciated the level of research and reflection that was obviously put into this book. It challenged me to consider some of my own biases and presuppositions. It also challenged me in my own faith. I see areas of my spirituality where I am lacking in faith and zeal.

In the first chapter of his book, Foster shares some thoughts that both convict and comfort me:

One of the best things we can do for one another, then, is to encourage regular immersion in the Gospel narratives, helping each other understand Jesus’ perceptions into life and his counsels for growth and then making constant application to our daily experience. The dimensions of this task are infinite, of course. However, for the sake of our concern here we want to consider how Jesus in his living provides us a clear paradigm for our living, especially as Jesus’ living relates to the several streams of devotion that frame the structure of this book.

I am convinced that we must dedicate a significant amount of our time to the study of the Gospels. This is where we can intimately get to know God in a way that is unlike any other portion of our Bibles. Yes, God’s story and God are the main character throughout the words of Scripture. But only in the Gospel narratives do we encounter the God-Man. It is in these four renderings of the Jesus story that, “the Word became human and made his home among us.” (John 1:14)

If we are going to be Christians, we must know Jesus. The Greek word Χριστιανός (christianos)—meaning "follower of Christ"—comes from Χριστός (christos)—meaning "anointed one"—with an ending borrowed from Latin to denote adhering to, or even belonging to, as in slave ownership.

If we are truly going to be followers of Christ, people who belong to the anointed one, we must devote ourselves to knowing the One whom we follow. This must be the primary task in our lives.

For many of us, following Jesus can often seem more like a hobby than a calling. Like a pick-up game of basketball or scrapbooking, we might do the “Jesus thing” when we have a little spare time. This is not what it means to be a Christian. It means that our devotion, our allegiance, is first and foremost to God. It means that everything else we do, every word we speak, and every thought we entertain, must be in allegiance to the One who we follow. And while we may not reach that goal with perfection, it should be our goal and purpose every day.

shine!

Jason

Do Hard Things

I have been reading the book Do Hard Things by twin brothers Alex & Brett Harris. After reading this book, I feel that it should be a must-read for all teenagers. One of the amazing things about this book is that it is written for teenagers by teenagers. It is a call for a teenage rebellion against low expectations. At the start of the book, Alex and Bret invite readers to explore some radical questions. Let me share them with you here:

• Is it possible that even though teens today have more freedom than any other generation in history, we’re actually missing out on some of the best years of our lives?


• Is it possible that what our culture says about the purpose and potential of the teen years is a lie and that we are its victims?


• Is it possible that our teen years give us a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for huge accomplishments – as individuals and as a generation?


• And finally, what would our lives look like if we set out on a different path entirely – a path that required more effort but promised a lot more rewards?

I am impressed with the wisdom, maturity, and spiritual depth of these two young men. They are challenging their peers to consider something outside themselves and pursue a path that can change the world.

If you have not read this book yet, I would recommend getting a copy and reading it. I am strongly considering a teaching series on Wednesday nights this fall built around the material in this book.

If you want to learn more about Alex and Bret, you can visit their website: www.THEREBELution.com. There you will find their blog as well other information about their life, dreams, and passions.

One of the verses that Alex and Brett quote is 1 Timothy 4:12: “Don’t let anyone think less of you because you are young. Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity.” Often, Christian teenagers are more often being told what not to do than they are what to do. Alex and Brett would argue, and I agree, that Christianity needs to be as much – if not more – about what we do as it is about what we don’t do.

Are there certain behaviors and habits we need to avoid? Absolutely! But if all we do is live to avoid poor choices, we won’t discover the abundant life Jesus speaks of in John 10. Instead, let us consider the words of Paul in 2 Timothy 2:22: “Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.”

shine!

Jason

The Lord's Army

Last Sunday, several teens and I led a class for some of the elementary-aged children. One of the songs we sang with the children was “The Lord’s Army.”

This got me to thinking. How many of us really are in “The Lord’s Army?” You might wonder what I mean, so let me explain.

When you are in the Army, you enlist and basically commit your life to the cause. You spend time training every day and focus on preparing for the battle.

There is also an option to join the Army Reserves. This group commits to one weekend a month and two weeks every year to prepare in the event they are needed.

The question I want us to consider is this: Which one of these reflects our situation in God’s Kingdom?

Are we people who are enrolled in Lord’s Reserves? Do we show up for some weekends and take part in a few weeks of serving on a mission trip or camp.

Or, are we serving in the Lord’s Army? Do we dedicate time every day to training? Are we engaged in spiritual disciplines on a daily basis? Do we seek to make the Kingdom of God our number one priority throughout every day?

When he was writing to Timothy, Paul said the following: Endure hardship with us like a good soldier of Christ Jesus. No one serving as a soldier gets involved in civilian affairs—he wants to please his commanding officer. (2 Timothy 2:3-4)

Paul’s words are as relevant to us as they were two thousand years ago. We have to decide what kind of soldiers we want to be in God’s Kingdom. We can be in the reserves, showing up once in a while in the event we might be needed sometime in the future. Or, we can be committed to the army. We can be the kind of people who look for opportunities every day to further the cause of the Kingdom of God.

As Paul finished some of his last recorded words to Timothy, he offers the following words of encouragement…

For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time has come for my departure. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing. (2 Timothy 4:6-8)

Paul lived in wholehearted devotion to the Kingdom. It was his first priority, regardless of where he was or what he faced. His words were backed up by action. Let us be the kind of people who don’t just sing about the Lord’s Army, but ones who live it as well.

shine!

Jason

Like a morning fog

It’s hard to believe that another year has passed and another group of students is entering 7^th grade and becoming a part of our youth group. This will be the fifth year I have witnessed a new group of students entering the youth ministry and a group of seniors graduating from high school. The seventh graders I met when I moved here are about to become seniors. That is crazy!

This summer our lessons for reCharge will focus on the book of James. This is a very practical letter in which James offers a lot of good advice for living a life of faith. In James 4:14, he writes, “How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow? Your life is like the morning fog—it’s here a little while, then it’s gone.”

What truth this verse holds. So often we get so wrapped up in the moment that we miss the big picture. I think part of the point of what James is trying to say is that we need to look at the big picture so we can more fully embrace the present.

There is nothing wrong with planning for the future or looking forward to something. However, we should never forget that today is the only thing that is for sure. In the grand scope of the world and time, our life is but a blip. But it is a blip with immense importance to God and His Kingdom.

We must learn to grasp our insignificance and significance at the same time. It can be hard to admit that in 100 years almost no one will remember us. In a culture that tells us to pursue fame and fortune above everything else, the reality is that most of us will not find either one.

Think about this… What were your great-great-grandparents names? I would imagine most of us couldn’t answer that question without asking a parent or grandparent. Now tell me what that person did for a living. That’s probably even a little harder.

So what’s the point?

I believe that the point is that in a few years, the details of today will not matter. However, the impact of the decisions you make could last for years. There are families who still suffer relational and emotional struggles because of the actions of a family member two and three generations ago. Whether it was abuse, an addiction, or some other choice, those are the things that last. Someone may not know what the decision or action was, but I am willing to bet that they are feeling its impact.

If we are going to be Kingdom-people, we need to look beyond ourselves. We need to take action based on what will match up with God’s dreams and aspirations. Rather than seeking something that satisfies us in the short-term, look for things that will impact the future. Then, even if your life is but a morning fog, it can leave behind something that lasts much longer.

shine!
Jason