Submission and respect

Why do we have such a hard time with submission? It is a lack of respect?
It seems like our society is replete with people who don’t respect others. Think about the number of marriages destroyed because of a lack of respect. People illegally download music off the Internet, stealing it from musicians who invest their life in making music. Students cheat in school showing a lack of respect for teachers and themselves. Television, from reality shows to dramas to sitcoms, shows people treating each other with disrespect.
Paul has some advice for Christ-followers struggling with respect…
Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit, addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. (Ephesians 5:16-33)
Relationships are built on the foundation of respect. Respect for covenant and for the other person. This is the foundation of Christ’s love for the church.
Love and respect go together. Whether it’s a parent, a friend, or a spouse, love and respect are essential to a lasting and healthy relationship. Without them, relationships will struggle to survive.

shine!
Jason

Remembering Bill

This week a number of my friends are gathering in eastern Ohio to celebrate the life and mourn the death of a servant of God. Bill Covan, who was 66, passed away Tuesday morning, September 29, 2009, from complications following open heart surgery.
Bill served as the minister for the Struthers Church of Christ. I knew him as one of the co-directors for Senior Week at Northeast Ohio Christian Youth Camp.
There are a few things I will always remember about Bill...
His smile. As soon as Bill saw you, his face greeted you before you said a word. His smile would speak volumes and you could feel his warm, sincere love from a distance. I'll miss that smile.
His sense of humor. Bill was a jokester. He was always good at making you laugh or getting into mischief.
His love for teenagers. There was never a doubt in my mind that he loved every teenager at camp. You could see in his eyes that there was a deep compassion. Some of what I learned about loving teenagers, I learned from Bill Covan.
His love for God. Bill was a man after God's own heart. His smile, his sense of humor, and his love for teenagers were all products of his love for God. Bill was a conduit for God. He not only preached God's love; he lived it.
Bill and I didn't agree on everything, but we agreed on the things that matter most: love God and love others. This philosophy defines Bill Covan. Once you met him, you knew this was a man who was serious about following Jesus.
The last time I saw Bill was this summer. He was doing what he loved doing, telling teenagers about God. I was visiting NOCYC and Bill was speaking that evening. You could see the pure joy as his smile, his humor, his love for teenagers, and his love for God were all there.
Bill has touched countless number of lives, and I am blessed to be one of them. He will be missed, but his mark will carry on into eternity.

shine!
Jason

Harwell, Albom, and faith

This is a great testimony by Ernie Harwell, the 91-year-old former Detroit Tigers broadcaster who was recently diagnosed with incurable cancer.

Living love

This past Wednesday in ARISE Connections, we focused on the importance of love in all relationships. Here is what we centered our thoughts on:

Love…
is patient
is kind
does not envy
does not boast
is not arrogant
is not rude
does not insist on its own way
is not irritable
is not resentful
does not rejoice at wrongdoing
rejoices with the truth
bears all things
believes all things
hopes all things
endures all things.

It was evident to me that the Holy Spirit was moving powerfully in some students’ lives Wednesday. If you were there Wednesday night, take a few minutes to review the list again and ask God to continue to move in you. Think about what you heard from God and ask yourself what you have changed or want to change in light of what you heard.
If you were not there, ask someone who was how God spoke to them. Consider the list above and ask yourself which aspects of love are the most difficult for you to live out in your life.
The reality is that we all struggle with embodying authentic, God-centered love. But the good news is that love doesn’t start with us. John writes, “We love because he first loved us.” (1 John 4:19)
Let’s rejoice in God’s love for us and share that love with those around us.

shine!
Jason

Spirit-filled relationships

Relationships are at the core of our identity as human beings. Without relationships, it is hard to imagine what our existence would be like.
Whether it’s family, friends, or those we date and marry, much of what happens in our life is determined by friendships. And the best friendships occur when we live lives that are filled with and controlled by the Spirit. Who wouldn’t want to have relationships filled with the following traits?
Love.
Joy.
Peace.
Patience.
Kindness.
Goodness.
Faithfulness.
Gentleness.
Self-control.
So, ultimately, our relationships are the best when we are in relationship with God. In Romans 8:5-6, Paul writes…
For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace.
We can choose to have relationships full of life and peace, if we live according to the Spirit. What does that mean? It means we submit to God’s will. We allow the Holy Spirit and the word of God to shape who we are. What if we don’t? Then imagine relationships full of the following: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. (Galatians 5:19-21)
We can ultimately decide what our relationships are like by what we allow to shape us. If we want to have relationships that bring wholeness, peace, and fulfillment, let the Spirit fill and lead you.

shine!
Jason

Have you been with Jesus?

This week our students start a yearlong journey through the Gospel of Luke. I am excited to see what we will experience and learn about Jesus throughout the next year.
My experience has taught me that some Christians know the Bible well and others not as well. But even for those who know the Bible fairly well, there are many who may not know Jesus very well.
One of the main purposes of spending a year in Luke is to get to know Jesus better. In his follow up to his gospel, Luke says the following about Peter and John:
The officials were amazed to see how brave Peter and John were, and they knew that these two apostles were only ordinary men and not well educated. The officials were certain that these men had been with Jesus. (Acts 4:13)
The officials weren’t amazed because of the Peter and John’s education. It wasn’t because there was something special about them. As a matter of fact, it was their ordinary nature that made their bravery so unique.
Imagine how much different we might act if we knew Jesus. Obviously, we can have the same experience as Peter and John, but there are four accounts of Jesus’ life and ministry to help us better understand who this Jesus really was. By spending a year traveling with Jesus from birth through the resurrection, we are hoping to get a better glimpse of the man from Nazareth.
Here is how Luke opens his account of the Life of Jesus Christ:
Many people have tried to tell the story of what God has done among us. They wrote what we had been told by the ones who were there in the beginning and saw what happened. So I made a careful study of everything and then decided to write and tell you exactly what took place. Honorable Theophilus, I have done this to let you know the truth about what you have heard. (Luke 1:1-4)
My prayer is that this year, we can join Jesus through the words of the gospel of Luke. Hopefully we can walk alongside Him and see people the way He does. Then maybe people can say about us that we have been with Jesus.

shine!
Jason

Lord, save me from myself

There is a sign hanging in my office that I made early in my ministry. It reads as follows...

My Priorities:
1) My God
2) My Wife
3) My Family
4) My Ministry

I have to admit that for the better part of the last ten years, this sign has been more of a decoration than a description of my life. If I were to remake the sign according to the reality of how I have lived, it would read like this...

My Priorities
1) My Ministry
2) My Ministry
3) My Wife
4) My Family
5) My God

Yes, I intended to list ministry twice, because that's more like the way it has been. I have allowed ministry to define me, shape me, and give me much of my identity.
I have gotten it all wrong.
Over the last several weeks I have listened to God in my life like I never have before. I have a long way to go, but I believe that God has been trying to speak boldly into my noisy life. Here is what I think he is trying to say:
Repent of your "savior complex" and let me (God) be God. For too long, you have been trying to be the savior. You have tried to do what only I can do.
Repent of your primary identity as a youth minister. Youth ministry is a calling, not an identity. Your identity is as a human being, one created in my image.
Repent of your need for affirmation from people. Affirmation from others is good and necessary, but your first source of love and affirmation should be from me. I created you. I know you. I saved you. I was there when you were created and I will be there when you die. I will never fail you. I will never just tell you what you want to hear.
Repent of your misguided priorities. After your relationship with me is your relationship with your wife. I have made you one flesh. You dedicated your life to this woman. Return to the vows that you made and make her the top human relationship in your life. Stop being distracted at home. Give her your attention. Your second most important relationship is with your son. Molding and shaping his image of me and of the world starts with you. Show him he is more important than everyone else except your wife. Make time for him.
Repent of your busyness. There is nothing wrong with working hard, but make time to be quiet. Make time for rest. I included the Sabbath in the Ten Commandments for reason. You must make time to recharge.

Father, forgive me for neglecting our relationship. I have tried to sit on your throne for too long and it is wearing me out. Save me from my selfishness and desire to seek my ultimate fulfillment from anywhere other than you. I have let important relationships suffer because of my own selfish desires. I have permitted my calling to become my identity, and in the process, I have sometimes forgotten who and what that calling is about.
Father, forgive me for allowing my ministry to distract me from being a better husband and a better father. Save me from my desire to receive the praise of men before your praise. Help me to see that when my relationship with you is stronger and my relationships at home are stronger that I can be a better servant of yours.
Father, forgive me for all of the times in the past I have gotten lost along the way. Thank you for your years of patience as you watched me struggle along. Thank you for speaking to me, even when I wasn't listening. Thank for you giving me a wife with supreme patience and a heart of gold. Thank you for giving me a son who loves me, even when I am not as attentive as I should be. Lord, thank you for loving me, even when I frustrate you and let you down. Save me from myself so that I can be more whole.

What's the big deal about Kanye's stunt?

I have to admit, I am pretty culturally clueless much of the time. Well, maybe that is a bit extreme, but I don't spend a lot of time keeping up with celebrities and popular culture. When I am in line at Wal-Mart, I often look at People or Us and wonder who these people are on the cover.
I say that to set the stage for what I am about to talk about. I have been intrigued over the last twelve hours or so to hear about what Kanye West did last night at the MTV Video Music Awards. Honestly, if it wasn't for every third or fourth Facebook status mentioning it, I would have probably never known what happened. But, since everyone seems to be talking about it, I thought maybe I should do a little research. (Side note: I have been trying over the last couple of weeks to be more intentional about having some clue about pop culture without spending too much time in that world.)
Well, first, I watched what happened. I have to admit that I thought it was pretty rude. Here is this young woman who just won an award and some other guy comes up on the stage, interrupts what she is saying, and basically insults her by saying someone else should have won.
After I watched the video, I reflected on what people were saying (primarily via FB statuses). I saw people really getting down on Kanye for his behavior, his attitude, and his apparent intoxication at some level.
Well, in the spirit of research, I invested a little time this afternoon watching all of the videos that won awards - or at least the ones on the MTV website. Before I get to my point, I have to say I was intrigued by the artistry some of the artists displayed in their videos and music (Whether I agree and appreciate the lyrics and messages or not).
As I reflected on the videos I just watched and then thought back to the Kanye incident, what's the big deal about what he did? Seriously.
I watched videos where women paraded themselves around as sex objects, sang about the sexualization of their bodies, and engaged in movements and actions that hinted (sometimes not very subtly) at sexual activity. I watched one video where Britney Spears is in a sauna naked (with carefully concealed breasts) singing a song that includes the following lyrics:

Womanizer
Woman-Womanizer
You're a womanizer
Oh Womanizer
Oh You're a Womanizer Baby
You, You You Are
You, You You Are
Womanizer, Womanizer, Womanizer

Does anyone else see the irony in her displaying her body in a way that displays her as a sexual object while deriding a man for treating her like one? (To be fair, maybe Britney intended this irony. But it seems to me that she undermines her point even if that is her intent.)
Ok, so back to where we started. When videos are being shown that could be considered soft pornography and men and women sing about women as sexual objects, what's the big deal about what Kanye did? When musicians are using their craft to teach our culture - especially young minds which are still forming their value systems - that women should use their bodies to get what they want and men should use women's bodies to get what they want, what's the big deal about what Kanye did?
Sure, we should be offended that Kanye interrupted Taylor Swift's moment in the spotlight. But shouldn't we be more concerned about the messages that are shaping our culture's approach to the way we view our bodies and how we live as people created in the image of the Creator?

shine!
Jason

Community

Why are so many people of all ages getting into Facebook? I am convinced one of the reasons is because they crave community. In a day and age where families (aunts, uncles, grandparents, and even adult children) are spread all over the country, we are starving for a place to belong.
For most of history, families were in the same community and often the same house. Today, that is no longer the case. As we become more and more of a transient society, the hunger for connection becomes even more acute.
So how do we respond to this need as followers of Jesus? In a word… community! Our theme for the 2009-2010 year in the ARISE Ministry is COMMUNITY. The focus of our events, activities, and ministries will be designed around this theme.
Last year’s theme, “Arise,” helped us develop an understanding of a life of service. From the 40 Hours of Service, to the drive for 2009 hours of service, to monthly service time at God’s Helping Hands, to the 30 Hour Famine, we were very intentional in creating venues and motivation to integrate serving into our lives. We even adopted ARISE as the new name of our ministry because it became a focus to get outside of ourselves, let our let shine, and rise to face the challenges God has put before us.
This year, as we strive to create stronger community, we will engage five areas of community: God, youth, families, church, and world. God is community. In the Trinity, we see Father, Son, and Spirit living as three persons in absolutely unity. God said, “Let us make humankind in our image.” (Genesis 1:26, emphasis mine) Our identity and primary community call us into relationship with the Trinity, the perfect community of the Creator. This will occur through a variety of avenues, including, but not limited to, a more intentional interaction with the Scriptures, times of reflection, and a call to prayer.
Beyond that, our students will have ways to experience community with one another in small groups and a variety of events.
While peer interaction for teens is important, there is a crucial need for students to connect with parents and other age groups in the church. We will be seeking ways for families to grow closer together and imagining new ways to bridge the gaps between generations, from children all the way up to senior citizens.
Finally, if we are true to our calling, we must find ways to engage the world. When we are “being rooted and grounded in [God’s] love,” (Ephesians 1:17) we can build community with all who share in the common heritage of being children of Adam and Eve. God made us for community with all who are created in their image.

shine!
Jason

God's ongoing story

Sometimes we get so wrapped up in the present that we fail to learn from our past or dream about the future. Others either become trapped by their past or consumed by the future.
I believe God calls us to a healthy combination of past, present, and future. In the community of the Trinity we see how God wants to be involved in every moment of our life.
In the Father, we find that all in the past has brought us to a particular moment. Through His dream we were created. Our past is a place where the Father looks to teach us. It is a place where we can look to find wisdom. We should look at failure not as a place of ending, but rather as a place of beginning. Through our past, especially mistakes, the Father is the anchor that shows us grace and mercy.
The Holy Spirit is always seeking to break the future into the present. It is through the Spirit that God moves and acts towards God’s preferred future. It is through the action of the Spirit that God’s dreams – not ours – take shape.
The Son is where the past and future come together. It is through the incarnation that God’s past and God’s future meet. The Father, who has been our Rock and our Refuge, provides a launching pad of sorts. We are able to look back into our past and ask questions like, “What is God teaching us?” We can ask those questions without fear, but rather with hope, because of the Father.
This frees us to be open to the leading of the Spirit into the future. We are able to ask God what His dreams are. What is it that God is calling us to? It is important to remember that God’s dreams are bigger than any one person’s past or future. We are a community that God is calling together into the unity of the Spirit.
The lessons of the past and the dreams of the future find themselves meeting in the present. While Christ serves as the perfect embodiment of God’s present, each of us is called to continue living as this embodiment. We are not individuals seeking personal salvation. Rather we are part of a living, breathing organism known as the body of Christ. We are each a part of God’s dream for this world. We are invited by God to join in His dreams and to hear His voice.
The abundant life Christ speaks of in John 10 is not something He simply spoke about. He lived it out and was the ultimate illustration of how it looks when God’s past and future come together to live in the present.

shine!
Jason

A living kingdom

I wanted to share with you a passage from The Pursuit of God by A. W. Tozer that I came across this past week:

One of the greatest hindrances to internal peace which the Christian encounters is the common habit of dividing our lives into two areas, the sacred and the secular.
…Our trouble springs from the fact that we who follow Christ inhabit at once two worlds, the spiritual and the natural.
This tends to divide our total life into two departments. We come unconsciously to recognize two sets of actions. The first are performed with a feeling of satisfaction and a firm assurance that they are pleasing to God. These are the sacred acts and they are usually thought to be prayer, Bible reading, hymn singing, church attendance and such other acts as spring directly from faith. They may be known by the fact that they have no direct relation to this world, and would have no meaning whatever except as faith shows us another world, “a house not made with human hands, eternal in the heavens.”
Over against these sacred acts are the secular ones. They include all of the ordinary activities of life which we share with the sons and daughters of Adam: eating, sleeping, working, looking after the needs of the boy and performing our dull and prosaic duties here on earth. These we often do reluctantly and with many misgivings, often apologizing to God for what we consider a waste of time and strength. The upshot of this is that we are uneasy most of the time. We go about our common tasks with a feeling of deep frustration, telling ourselves pensively that there’s a better day coming when we shall slough off this earthly shell and be bothered no more with the affairs of this world.
…Let us think of a Christian believer in whose life the twin wonders of repentance and the new birth have been wrought. He is now living according to the will of God as he understands it from the written Word. Of such a one it may be said that every act of life is or can be as truly sacred as prayer or baptism or the Lord’s Supper. To say this is not to bring all acts down to one level; it is rather to lift every act up into a living kingdom and turn the whole life into a sacrament.

May God challenge us with these words and may we find a deeper understanding of what it means to have faith and be a follower of Jesus in this world and at this time.

shine!
Jason

A new language

I had to share this quote from Dietrich Bonhoeffer:

“All Christian thinking, speaking, and organizing must be born anew… The day will surely come when humankind will once more be called to so utter the Word of God that the world will be changed and renewed by it. It will be a new language perhaps quite non-religious but liberating and redeeming as was Jesus’ language. It will shock people and yet overcome them by its power.”

The world will go on

Last week I took three days to spend at home with my family. For the most part, I avoided email, Facebook, texting, and all of my other distractions. It was nice to just take a break and “get away.”
I don’t do this enough, and if most of you are honest, neither do you. We are surrounded by a world that clamors for our attention.
Phone calls.
Text messages.
Emails.
Television shows.
Billboards.
Commercials.
The calls for our focus are endless, and in the end, we might end up focusing on nothing at all.
Even Jesus struggled with this. He always had someone who wanted to get healed, ask Him a question, or follow Him around. After the feeding of the 5,000, He managed to find a chance to rest.
Immediately after this, Jesus insisted that his disciples get back into the boat and cross to the other side of the lake, while he sent the people home. After sending them home, he went up into the hills by himself to pray. Night fell while he was there alone. (Matthew 14:22-23)
We would do well to follow Jesus’ example. What are some ways we can find rest?
Turn off your cell phone and/or stop texting, especially when it’s time to sleep.
Dedicate certain days or evenings to avoid the internet, television, or even listening to your iPod.
Find a day to go somewhere as a family without any distractions. In the summer, a water park could be a great option. You can’t take any technology with you in the water, so it is a natural way to get away from electronics. You could also find a park, leave your phone in the car, and go for a walk.
If the Son of God felt it was important to have time away, shouldn’t it be important for us? If the world can carry on while God is taking a break, I think it can survive without us for a few hours.

shine!
Jason

Simplify

Today at my retreat, I have been challenged to begin simplifying my life. I have already taken my first step.
I am an admitted iPhone addict (technology addict in general). My phone often distracts me in conversations and other contexts that require my full attention. At the break, I changed the setting on my phone so that when I switch to silent my phone will no longer vibrate. My phone was set to vibrate when it was in silent mode and that vibration would distract me.
In the words of Randy Harris, who is speaking to us today, I want to be "fully present to the people in front of me and to God." I believe this is a step towards realizing that in my life.

shine!
Jason

More than a feeling

Love. It is the topic of countless stories. It is the theme of many songs. There have been hundreds, if not thousands, of movies built around the idea of love.
So why is love such a significant part of the human experience?
Consider what Paul says in 1 Corinthians 13. You may have read this or heard it hundreds of times. But take time to read it carefully and answer the questions I have inserted…
Love is patient and kind. Am I?
Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Am I?
It does not demand its own way. Do I?
It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. Am I?
It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Do I?
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. Do I?
Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.
Did you stop to consider the question at the end of each line? If not, stop, go back up there, and read each line. Then ask yourself each of those questions.
Because this passage is so familiar to us, we often glance over it and miss the power behind the words.
The same is true with our understanding and approach to love. We have been so immersed in a culture that tells us so many lies about love and redefines what the word means.
To our culture today, love means I get what I want if you love me. Love means that we have sex because we are attracted to each other, not to seal a life-long covenant between two individuals. It means that I set aside all reason and chase an emotion.
True love, the kind that Creator God embodies and envisions for each of us, has been pushed into a corner. Rather than love being an unconditional, unselfish commitment to others, it has become an excuse to follow our passions and pursue our own interests. It has been used to give us permission to follow our desires and often ignore what is best for others and in the long run. Maybe we would do well to seek out love from God’s perspective and make that the definition of love that we live by.

shine!
Jason

Cincinnati Recap

Wow! What a week!
Due to very limited internet access, I was not able to post a blog during our mission trip to Cincinnati, so here is a recap of our week...
Monday was primarily a day of travel as we loaded everyone up in the vans and drove to the camp where we would be staying for the week. After our arrival and unloading we went to downtown Cincinnati for Donatos pizza and a Cincinnati Reds game. The Reds, of course, lost. ;-)
Tuesday we awoke to the sounds of thunder and heavy rainfall. Our first stop was the CUMO (Cincinnati Urban Ministry Outreach) church, where we set up for our VBS. It rained most of the day and after handing out flyers in the rain and hanging out at the community center we headed back to the church. We were ready and waited to see who would show up. You could sense the disappointment when only around a dozen children showed up. However, our students keep their chins up and made it a great time for those who came.
Wednesday morning was spent seeing a movie and grabbing lunch at Johnny Rockets before another afternoon at the community center. With the nicer weather, there were many more children at the community center. We also decided to go out and hand out pamphlets again. We weren't sure what to expect after such a small turn out the night before. This time, we ended up having seventy-five children show up for our VBS. After a fairly easy and laid-back night on Tuesday, Wednesday provided a real challenge. In spite of the craziness of so many children, many of whom come from homes with little structure or discipline, our students adjusted and did a good job.
On Thursday, Pat took us to a park down by the Ohio River for a few hours to eat lunch. People engaged in a variety of activities, including football, volleyball, and renting bikes to ride around. Then we went back to the center for another afternoon with the children. By now you could see that our team and the children were really starting to bond. That night we had eighty-five people show up for VBS. Our students made a lot of adjustments and they did a fabulous job. It was really exciting to see the students learning and adapting. It was a great night!
Friday morning we went to the Creation Museum. It was an interesting day since there was a group of approximately 200 atheists visiting the museum. Some of our students had conversations with some of the atheists. While there were a few of the atheists who made snide comments, overall there were no real problems. After the museum, we went to the community center for our last afternoon there. It is always a joy to see our students interacting with the children. They laugh. They play. Piggyback rides. Basketball. Our students show them love in a way that many of these children may not see the rest of the year.
Friday night's VBS was our biggest of the week with ninety-one children in attendance. The team did a great job and they ended the week on a high note. God was certainly at work throughout the week and everyone did a great job leading groups and teaching classes.
Saturday was our reward for a week of hard work. We headed to King's Island for a day of roller coasters and fun. We got into the park and everyone went off in their groups. While we were at the park, seven students and I were in line for a ride when one of the riders experienced a serious health problem. At first, we weren't sure what was going on. We stood there for a few minutes until medics arrived and we were sent back through the line with everyone else waiting for the ride.
The experience had a significant impact on those who were in line with me as well as a few other students waiting for us by the exit. A little later, we gathered everyone and left the park to get dinner at Cici's. After dinner, we headed back to the camp to debrief. It was truly a blessing to have Dave Palmer as a part of our team. He helped walked our group through a time of processing. Dave met with me and the other students directly impacted by what happened. Other students who were affected indirectly spent time with our other adults. The other students who were not impacted had time to go to their cabins and begin packing. Following the debriefing time, we gathered everyone back together for a time of prayer before going to bed. I was so impressed with our entire team of chaperones and the way they responded to minister to students in need.
Sunday morning we woke up, cleaned up the camp, loaded our stuff up, and headed up to breakfast at Sonic. After enjoying a delicious breakfast, we headed off to CUMO for worship. Worship started around 11:30am and lasted until around 2:30pm. It never seemed like three hours and the Spirit was moving among us. Our time together included singing, praying, testimonies, and more. God is obviously working in Pat and the group that meets there. Following worship we enjoyed a final meal together and started the journey home.
We arrived at 250 West Avon to find a church full of parents waiting to see their children. We all gathered in the auditorium to thank the team and present awards to the students as well as a gift to the adults. The night ended with the baptisms of three of our students. Kylie Cohu, Kaitlyn Butka, and Emily Martinko dedicated their lives to God and were baptized into Christ. What a great ending to a great week of Kingdom work!!!

shine!
Jason

Every opportunity

When we think of teaching, we often think of classrooms, desks, and lectures. The reality is that all of life is filled with teaching. The things we say. The way we act. The attitudes we display. For anyone who is watching, we are serving as a teacher.
The apostle Paul wrote the following…
So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do. Don’t be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, and making music to the Lord in your hearts. And give thanks for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. (Ephesians 5:15-20)
Paul was reminding us that every moment is a chance to learn, and a chance to teach. We must make the most of every opportunity not only for our benefit, but for those around us as well.
Paul also wrote the following to his “son in the faith” Timothy…
Preach the word of God. Be prepared, whether the time is favorable or not. Patiently correct, rebuke, and encourage your people with good teaching.
For a time is coming when people will no longer listen to sound and wholesome teaching. They will follow their own desires and will look for teachers who will tell them whatever their itching ears want to hear. They will reject the truth and chase after myths.
But you should keep a clear mind in every situation. Don’t be afraid of suffering for the Lord. Work at telling others the Good News, and fully carry out the ministry God has given you. (2 Timothy 4:2-5)
Every situation is an opportunity to teach others about God. Whether at school, at home, or at the mall, we must remember that our ministry is to share God’s message and love with the world. What are you teaching through your life?

shine!
Jason

A true hero

I watched this and had to share it...

Temporary residents and foreigners

I am slowly recovering from the last two weeks. There is something about being in a foreign country. I loved my trip to Brazil, but it didn’t feel like home. There is something about being in a foreign land. The people talk different. They dress different. Their customs are different. You never quite feel completely “at home.”
As Christians, we should feel like foreigners in this world. Our words, our appearance, and our customs should look different in some ways. The apostle Peter wrote the following:
But you are not like that, for you are a chosen people. You are royal priests, a holy nation, God’s very own possession. As a result, you can show others the goodness of God, for he called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light. “Once you had no identity as a people; now you are God’s people. Once you received no mercy; now you have received God’s mercy.”
Dear friends, I warn you as “temporary residents and foreigners” to keep away from worldly desires that wage war against your very souls. Be careful to live properly among your unbelieving neighbors. Then even if they accuse you of doing wrong, they will see your honorable behavior, and they will give honor to God when he judges the world. (1 Peter 2:9-12)
It can be hard and feels weird when we live differently than the world around us. It can be uncomfortable.
We struggle to live like foreigners in the world. We want to fit in. We want to look like everyone around us.
We don’t have to go out of our way to be different. We don’t have to be strange just to stick out. But, if we live according to the customs and traditions of God’s Kingdom, we will look different at times. If we speak the language of God’s Kingdom, we will sound different than the world. If we clothe ourselves with Christ, there are times we will not look like everyone else around us.
We are “temporary residents and foreigners” in a world that is ruled by sin. The question is, are we living like citizens of God’s Kingdom or are we abandoning our culture to fit in with the world where we live.

shine!
Jason

Rio Update - July 19

It's hard to believe that we head home in a few days. :-(
This morning we worshipped with our Brazilian brothers and sisters again. I love the passion in their worship. I am also excited that I know enough Portuguese that I can at least grasp the general idea of most of the songs and the sermon.
This morning we had to say goodbye to some of our Brazilian friends. We will see others in a little bit for a special event here at the building. It sounds like something similar to an event we call Emerging Artists at Rochester. I can't wait to see what it will be like.
Some of our team members (led by Roger) have done a lot of work on the playset at the children's home. It's looking really good. :-)
Friday afternoon was our last VBS. We were supposed to hold it here at the church building, but we had a great opportunity. Instead, we were invited to hold our VBS at the public school next to the church. (That would never happen in Michigan!) We had over 50 children there and it was a great experience. The children were a joy to be with and our team members did a great job once again.
That evening we enjoyed a cultural event when we went to a fair that was created to preserve the culture of northeast Brazil. There was food, dancing, and more. It was a very interesting and fun evening.
Saturday was our English Day. We created a variety of games where Brazilians who know various levels of English could practice their English and have fun. It was an enjoyable day and it helped us get to know some of the Brazilians better. There were church members and people from the community who came.
After the English Day we went to a mall (without a Portuguese speaker in the group) for shopping and dinner. Some of our team members took in the new Harry Potter movie (in English). Then we enjoyed dinner together before heading back to the home for the evening.
After worship this morning, we enjoyed beans, rice, and meat for lunch before spending the afternoon at the Hippie Fair. The last two times we were in Brazil, Michelle wanted to buy a painting at the fair. Today we were able to find one we liked that was within our budget. Needless to say, Michelle is very happy.
As I type this, I hear our mission team's praise team practicing. I am pretty sure they are going to sing a few songs tonight as a part of the special event. I am looking forward to it! It starts in about half a hour.
The next couple of days will be more relaxing as we experience Rio and the Brazilian culture. Our team has worked hard for a week and now we will have a couple of days to unwind. Thank you to everyone who has prayed for us and supported us! You have made it possible for us to bless others and be blessed.
I am hoping to post one more update before we head home. God has certainly been at work in our midst on this trip.

shine!
Jason

Rio Update - July 17

As I write this we are about half way through our time in Brasil. So far we have cleaned up the children’s home, worshipped with the Brazilians twice (once in a bi-lingual service), started construction of a new playset for the children’s home, been in the community, held two VBS’s (one in the children’s home and one at the Ramos Church across town), and connected with the Brazilian culture. On a more fun note, we have been to soccer game at the famous Maracanã stadium, eaten Brazilian pizza, and enjoyed soups, beans, and rice. It has been an incredible experience so far.
I have been reminded on this trip that God is not an American God. God is a God of all creation.
So often we think of God as the God of our nation. While that is true at some level, He is not just “our” God. As a matter of fact, I don’t believe that American has a special place in God’s heart where He loves us more than other nations. Actually, He is probably disappointed with us more than many other nations.
I am not trying to bash our country. I love the United States. I appreciate what we have and what our nation stands for. But at the same time, we are not God’s “special country.” We are one nation among many through which God wants us to bring forth His Kingdom.
I love the Brazilian people. I love that they often have more joy and peace than we do, but they have less than we do in terms of material goods. Many of them do not have the weight of large mortgages, expensive cars, and maintaining a certain lifestyle. They have something more simple, and more satisfying.
Sure, some of them would like more. Yes, there is violence and corruption in Brazil. There are many who go without food or own little or nothing. They are broken people, just like you and me. However, I appreciate the smiles, hugs, and joys they find in the simple things.
They have learned to be content without things you and I take for granted. Things like free refills, plumbing that doesn’t require pumps, and more reliable electricity. But it is in that contentment that many Brazilians have found something that you and I often struggle to find…the joy of a simple, less distracted life that doesn’t require constant entertainment and amassing of material goods.

shine!
Jason

Rio Update - July 15

We have done a lot since Sunday and I have not been able to blog since we have not had internet access. At least I have been able to check my email several times a day with my phone. I have to admit that technology is amazing and so often I take it for granted. This trip has reminded me of how blessed we are materially in the States.
Monday and Tuesday were dedicated primarily to projects around the children’s home. We spent time weeding (light and industrial size weeds). We also cleared out several areas around the grounds. Others installed new handrails and a fence to keep the children safe while they play.
We have enjoyed some delicious homemade Brazilian foods, including traditional breakfasts and soups. The people here have been extremely hospitable and kind to us.
The group was also introduced to one of my personal favorite treats in Brazil, chocolate pizza. Imagine thin crust pizza with chocolate sauce, chocolate sprinkles, and M&M’s. All I can say is, yummy!
I have been highly impressed by our team. We are a diverse group with a variety of different abilities, but we have all come together to accomplish so much. Since our arrival we have transformed the children’s home in a number of ways. In addition to the weeding, handrails, and fence, we have put down concrete where we will be installing a new play structure. (They don't use sand in Rio for playgrounds because it will quickly become a litter box for the animals in the community.)
We have also connected with many of the people here. Marcos and his family have grown close to us. Marcos, a member of the Victory Church, volunteers his time to help fix things around the children’s home. He and his family have spent a lot of time with us. I have gotten to know their fifteen-year-old son, Thauan. We talked throughout the day (using a dictionary and a lot of hand signs) and played foosball. Table soccer is like real soccer…the Brazilians always win.
This morning we experienced a power outage in the favela. While power outages are a struggle for us in the States, they create even larger problems here. Not only do you lose lighting and electrical outlets. You also lose water. Here, the water is pumped up to the top of the house in a large cistern. The plumbing then uses gravity to feed faucets, showers, etc. So when you lose power, you also lose the source for water. For a few hours this morning, that meant most of us couldn’t shower. Fortunately, the power came on in time for most of us to get a shower before heading to the church building.
Today we will be starting our three days of VBS. Today’s VBS will be held at the Ramos Church. Tomorrow we will hold a VBS at the children’s home. On Friday, we will hold our final VBS at the Victory Church. We have many other things on the agenda as well as our English Day on Saturday.
This year has been different than the last two trip to Brazil, but equally as fulfilling and encouraging. I have enjoyed the opportunity to reconnect with old friends and make new ones. I am really excited that Thauan gave me an email address so we can keep in touch – which should be interesting with the need for translation. There is so much more I could say, but I will end with one final story…
This morning as some of us were sitting in the kitchen listening to the rain and without power, we began singing “Send Your Rain.” It was a moment of peace as the Spirit of the Lord poured over us. God reminded us of His presence and working among us. It was one of those thin spaces where God speaks in a quiet but powerful way.

shine!
Jason

Rio - July 12 update

We arrived early yesterday morning and spent the day in a semi-awake state getting settled in. We had lunch at the church, shopped at the new WalMart, and spent the evening at the children's home where we are staying during out trip. It is such a beautiful view and I am enjoying the neighborhood. Yesterday afternoon, Rachel, Drew, and I went for a walk in the neighborhood. We grabbed a drink from the local store and watched children play soccer and fly kites.
We slept well last night and had a great breakfast this morning. Worship was incredible. I was amazed at how much Portuguese I remembered after two years. There was a new song we sang this morning (well, new to me) that had a simple but powerful chorus... (Thank you, Kevin, for helping me translate and remember)

Examine me
Break me
Transform me
Fill me
Use me

My prayer is that this song is the anthem of our trip. That God will do what He needs to do in us, around us, and through us, as we seek to grow closer to him and serve the people of Rio and the Victory Church.
So far this has been a great trip and I am excited about the team that God assembled for this trip. It has also been good to see Dan & Kirsty, the other Rio church members, and Becky and Claire. We also making some new friends. I can't wait to see what else God has in store for us.

shine!
Jason

What do you really need?

It can be difficult to live in the world and not be consumed by it. Every day we see hundreds of messages telling us what we need to be happy, popular, or complete. There are so many things telling us that peace is one purchase away. The apostle Paul reminds us of a better way to find peace…
Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me—everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you.
How I praise the Lord that you are concerned about me again. I know you have always been concerned for me, but you didn’t have the chance to help me. Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength. (Philippians 4:6-13)
Paul did not become content without working at it. His “secret” to a life of contentment and purpose comes from living out the following advice:
And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. (Romans 12:1-2)
When we make the effort and work hard at allowing God to transform our minds, we can discover a new purpose for life. As we fix our thoughts on things of God instead of things of the world, we can truly learn to rely on Christ and we will find contentment, where we no longer need the things of the world to be happy. We will be able to do everything through Christ, who gives us strength.

shine!
Jason

I was hungry...

On Thursday afternoon, we returned from Destination Unknown. As we were preparing to leave the cabin we stayed in, I was cleaning out the van and noticed the remnants of a loaf of French bread in between the two front seats of the van. I grabbed the bread and a few other things and walked in to the throw everything out. When I got to the trashcan, I felt compelled to keep the bread. So I threw out everything else I had brought, but took the bread back to the van.
Fast forward about seven hours. We are just south of Detroit on I-75 and we heard that it was finally open again. It was around 4:00pm, and while northbound 75 wasn’t supposed to open until 5:00pm, I felt compelled to drive past the detour at exit 41 and go on.
We found out it was still closed and we were forced to exit. We exited the highway and started on our detour around the construction.
As we pulled up to a red light at the intersection of Clark Street and Fort Street, there was a man standing next to a road construction sign. He was holding his own handwritten sign that communicated that he was a war veteran seeking food.
As I looked at him, I remembered the bread. I reached over and grabbed it and rolled down my window. As my eyes met his eyes, I held out the bread. He walked over to the van and smiled slightly as I handed him the bread. One of the students in the van commented, “Did you see the way his face shined?”
Maybe this is what Jesus had in mind when He said that we are the light of the world. Maybe our task is not just to shine for Jesus, but to help bring the glow of the Kingdom into the lives of others.
It reminds me of something else Jesus said…
“For I was hungry, and you fed me. I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger, and you invited me into your home. I was naked, and you gave me clothing. I was sick, and you cared for me. I was in prison, and you visited me…I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!” (Matthew 25:35-36,40)

shine!
Jason

Independence?

Today our country is celebrating Independence Day. It has been 233 years since the Declaration of Independence was adopted by the Continental Congress.
Many of us have learned or at least remember the famous words found in the early part of the Declaration...
"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness."
This sentence is the underpinning of much of what we have fought for over the last two centuries. They have served as the battle cry of those who fought for civil rights. They have been stated by those who argue for the Judeo-Christian foundations of our nation. They have fueled a philosophy that has helped the United States become a beacon of freedom for the world.
But at the same time, it has been distorted by those who want to do what they want to do. Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness has become a reason to become too individualistic. For many, this idea of the pursuit of happiness means that I can have what I want. It gives me the right to demand my rights. My, how we have so missed the point.
Maybe we should look at the closing sentence of the Declaration of Independence. Here is the last sentence before the signature of John Hancock...
"And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes, and our sacred Honor."
There is a crucial lesson in this important sentence that concludes the Declaration. Freedom does not mean I have the right to demand what I want. Rather, it gives us the freedom to work together as a community to work for the best interests of everyone. It means that I am willing to sacrifice my individual desires so that my passions can become part of a greater effort, something bigger than me.
Imagine if we approached our citizenship as Americans, and our citizenship as citizens of the Kingdom of God, in this way. How much different would the United States look if we would use our talents and abilities to improve our nation before filling our own selfish desires? How much different would many churches look if we would really practiced the words of Jesus from Mark 8:34-35 which say the following:
If any of you wants to be my follower, you must turn from your selfish ways, take up your cross, and follow me. If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will save it.
Our nation is built on the idea of freedom. But it is a freedom that comes with responsibility. It calls for sacrifice that allows us to pursue our passions in the context of a community which seeks the greater good.
The church is built on the same premise. We are not saved from our sins primarily for our own personal salvation. Rather, we are set free from the bondage of sin to discover our unique role in the family known as the body of Christ.

shine!
Jason

Billy Mays here!

I always enjoyed Billy Mays and his enthusiasm. This is funny...

Upside Down

All of this past week I was at Elevate, a Christian camp for teenagers held at Rochester College. This is the sixth time I have been a part of this camp and the fourth consecutive year I have been a part of the camp since I moved to Rochester.
This year was an incredible year. For months I have been praying for God to move in some very powerful ways in our youth group, and He answered many of those prayers this past week. I witnessed reconciliation, unification, and spiritual growth. It was incredible to see God at work.
Two of the students from our group were baptized this week. I had the honor of baptizing Addy Laster into Christ and Hannah Harrell was baptized by her dad in the river. I always enjoy seeing someone being baptized into Christ.
The theme for this year was “Upside Down” and there were a lot of people whose lives seemed to be turned upside for the better. I listened to students share their burdens, recommit their lives, and seek God. The times of worship were incredibly powerful.
I spoke about the following passage on Monday morning…
“You are the salt of the earth. But what good is salt if it has lost its flavor? Can you make it salty again? It will be thrown out and trampled underfoot as worthless.
“You are the light of the world—like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father.” (Matthew 5:13-16)
This week I was able to see students and adults, myself included, respond to God’s call for us to be salt and light to a world in need of the love of God. Whether it was in worship, through meditation on God’s word, in small groups, at our youth group devos, or during times of serving, the Holy Spirit was moving at Elevate this year. Praise God for the ways He shapes us and moves us to bring the Kingdom of God to life around us.

shine!
Jason

Sword of the Spirit

Last night I had a chance to speak in what I call "big church." Patrick was out of town and I offered to teach for Connections in the auditorium.
It worked out well because Patrick has been talking about Spiritual Warfare and I have been teaching a series on the armor of God Paul discusses in Ephesians 6. So last night I presented a lesson on the sixth piece of the armor, the sword of the Spirit.
This was a challenging lesson for me because it forced me to examine my own life, habits, and behaviors. The lesson was as much for me as it was anyone else. As is the case in many of my lessons, I am challenging myself as much as everyone else in the audience.
The word of God, the sword of the Spirit, is living and active. It is a weapon that we must be familiar with and use wisely.
It is our weapon against the forces of darkness. Just as Jesus used God's word to battle temptation in Matthew 4, you and I must embrace it as a weapon in our fight.
We must use the Word to correct, rebuke, and encourage one another as followers of Jesus. We must not be afraid to patiently use it to instruct each other.
When we live out God's word in our lives, it will also introduce people to God. When the Word comes to life in our lives, God becomes visible. It allows us to be salt and light.
We should never shy away from allowing the sword of the Spirit to dissect our own lives. James describes the word of God as a mirror that we should look into and make changes when needed. How often do we ignore what we see when we look into God's word and compare our own life?
It seems as though many Christians either fail to realize or acknowledge that we are in a war. This is a struggle against the powers of darkness in the heavenly realms as well as this world. Our battle is not against flesh and blood.
Why is it that so many appear to take this battle so lightheartedly? Things like Scripture memorization and bringing a Bible to worship or even Bible class have fallen out of vogue. Why is this?
Have we overreacted to a past where we flirted with worshipping the Bible instead of God?
Have we created a culture where we put verse on the screen, so you don't think you need your Bible?
Have we allowed so many other things to consume our time, that God's word has lost its place in our lives?
The Father, the Son, and the Spirit are so intimately entwined in our spiritual life. The sword of the Spirit, the word of God, is such a vital part of that equation. Jesus spoke these words to His disciples shortly before His arrest and trial...
“If you love me, obey my commandments. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Advocate, who will never leave you. He is the Holy Spirit, who leads into all truth. The world cannot receive him, because it isn’t looking for him and doesn’t recognize him. But you know him, because he lives with you now and later will be in you. No, I will not abandon you as orphans—I will come to you. Soon the world will no longer see me, but you will see me. Since I live, you also will live. When I am raised to life again, you will know that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you. Those who accept my commandments and obey them are the ones who love me. And because they love me, my Father will love them. And I will love them and reveal myself to each of them.” (John 14:15-21)
If we want to experience God's love and allow the Holy Spirit to lead us into truth, we must also expose ourselves to truth. Yes, we receive the Holy Spirit at baptism. Yes, the Spirit works in our lives. But we must also, "Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God." (Colossians 3:16)
The word of Christ will only dwell in us richly when we invest time in drinking it in. If we are serious about discipleship and following Christ, then we must commit time to sharpening ourselves with the sword of the Spirit, the word of God.

shine!
Jason

Reaching out across the street

I am so excited about yesterday! Sunday morning our students and parents partnered to reach out to our community. Instead of sitting in a classroom talking about our faith (which is not a bad thing), we were able to get out of our comfort zone and live out our faith.
Across the street from our church building is an apartment complex with 526 units. For some time, God has placed a burden on my heart (and on the hearts of other members of our staff) to reach out to this community with the love of Jesus. There are literally a few thousand people within shouting distance of our building who may never have experienced the love of God. I am sure there are hundreds who are hurting in a variety of ways.
We did not go to set up Bible studies, preach to them about salvation, or take a survey. We simply went to extend a hand of friendship. On Sunday, July 5, we will be having our Jubilee Sunday. On this special Sunday, there will be one combined service at 10:00am, followed by a BBQ and activities for all ages. It will be a great day!
Our purpose in going across the street is simply to invite the members of that community to get to know us better. My prayer is that through knowing us, they will come to know Jesus.
Above anything else, God is a God of relationship and community. In Genesis 1:27, it says, “So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.”
God created us in His image. Just as the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit live in community with one another, we are created and called to live in community. We are designed to know and be known. We find our value in living out our purpose.
Yesterday, just as God reached out to us through Jesus of Nazareth, we reached out. We reached out to those who may very well need a smile, a hug, or just a place to belong. We want to be His hands and feet to bring light to the darkness, hope to the hopeless, and peace to the restless. There is no greater purpose than that.

shine!
Jason

Penguin persecution, even from an elder

Yesterday, I made the decision to wear my Pittsburgh Penguins jersey. I realize this was a brave/foolish decision on my part. However, I wanted to rejoice in the Penguins' victory in game 6 the night before. First of all, it was a well played game and they deserved the win. Second, and more importantly, the Red Wings will more than likely win Friday night and skate around the Joe with Lord Stanley's Cup. Therefore, yesterday was my chance to revel in the moment.
Well, it started and never ended. The looks. The words. The general sense of unhappiness when anyone saw me.
"Why would you wear that?"
"Seriously?"
"What is THAT?"
And to top it all off, last night at the conclusion of our elder/staff meeting we were about to pray. One of our elders looked at me and said, "Say a special prayer for Jason." Wow, even dissed by an elder.
I realize that everyone (well at least the people at church) were saying all of this to me in love. It was kind of fun for the day to be the person almost everyone looked at with disgust. The real fun could be around the corner if the Penguins do find a way to pull off the upset.

shine!
Jason

An anchor in a sea of transition

Transition can be a difficult time. Transition can mean loss, gain, or both. This week I am experiencing both.
I found out earlier this week that a friend from high school took his own life. We were in marching band together and would talk during band and in various other venues. He was a talented, intelligent, and enjoyable person. I don’t know all of the things that caused his life to unfold this way, but I know that he will be missed. My heart first and foremost goes out to his family. It is a time of difficult transition for them and for anyone who knew him at a variety of levels.
I had recently reconnected with him on Facebook and was looking forward to catching up on life. Loss brings about painful transition, especially when it is transition with such finality.
On the other hand, this week we are welcoming the new seventh graders into our ministry. This is an exciting time as they move into the youth group and begin a new chapter of their lives. I know that it is both an exciting and scary time for many parents, especially those who are sending their oldest child into new, uncharted territory.
I am looking forward to getting to know these new members of the ARISE family as they begin this part of their journey of following Jesus. I can’t wait to see what God has in store for them.
Whether it’s loss or gain, transition is all around is. It is inevitable. It is unavoidable. It is a part of life. In the midst of a world engulfed in change, there is only one thing – or rather one person – who never changes. The Hebrew author writes that, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” (Hebrews 13:8)
When you find yourself in times of change or transition, look to the One who never changes. In times of good transition, we can tend to forget about God. In times of difficult transition, we tend to blame God. Instead of forgetting or blaming Him, let’s reach out and hold on to the One who is an anchor. Let me close with the words of the author of Hebrews:
So God has given both his promise and his oath. These two things are unchangeable because it is impossible for God to lie. Therefore, we who have fled to him for refuge can have great confidence as we hold to the hope that lies before us. This hope is a strong and trustworthy anchor for our souls. (Hebrews 6:18-19)

shine!
Jason

Rooms on the move

Today, two dear friends came over and helped us paint two rooms in our house. Well, OK, I didn't do any painting, but that was by request. The last time I tried to help with a painting project at my house with friends, they basically said, "Jason, step away from the paint roller and no one gets hurt." If you have a basement wall or primer work, give me a call. If you want a good paint job, ask me to get you some water and move furniture.
Anyway, we are swapping Matthew's bedroom and our office/guest room. This has been a fun little project. Michelle will now have a room for doing homeschool, instead of having to work at the kitchen table. Let me stop for a minute and tell you how proud I am of my family. Michelle does a great job schooling Matthew. A lot of that is because she looks at life as a classroom. While she and Matthew do sit down to do school work, she also looks for opportunities for learning away from the "classroom." I also love that she integrates faith and Scripture into her teaching. Her hard work is paying off! I have been impressed with the servant heart and character of my son. I know that much of that is due to the hard work of Michelle. She is an incredible woman!
Back to the rooms. Matthew is pretty excited about his new bedroom. The top third of the walls are white and the bottom two-thirds are Steeler gold. Yes, Matthew's new room will be a Steeler room which will include black and gold paint, a Ben Roethlisberger Fat Head, a football with autographs from Super Bowl XL (including Ben's), and a few other Steeler's items grandpa has provided. It will be a fun and colorful room.
It is always refreshing to move things around, sort through stuff, and give rooms a fresh coat of paint. There is a feeling of renewal in the Steckel house this weekend.

shine!
Jason

Pursuing peace

Peace.
People protest for it. It has it’s own symbol. There are songs written about it.
But why is peace so elusive? Why has generation after generation been seeking peace, but war and violence ruled the day?
I believe that peace cannot be forced. It cannot be legislated. There is no treaty that guarantees peace.
I believe that true peace only comes when we are transformed by the world to God’s way of looking at things. Consider what Paul writes…
Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality.
Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (Romans 12:9-21)
Real peace comes from an army of Christ-followers seeking to live the kind of lives that live at peace with others. When we show true love, compassion, and kindness to those we encounter, we can change the world. In the words of Jesus, “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God.” (Matthew 5:9)

shine!
Jason

What's the point?

We pursue so many things to find purpose in life. In the words of Solomon, “Everything is meaningless, completely meaningless.” (Ecclesiastes 1:2) We chase after so many things that are unimportant in the grand scheme of life. We go after success and satisfaction, money and materials, and popularity and power. We invest so much of our time in gathering things that are only temporary.
No wonder so many people wrestle with the question that has consumed mankind for generations. It may appear in a variety of forms, but the basic question is, “What’s the point of this life?”
Solomon wrestled with this question and wrote his thoughts down to be shared for thousands of years with billions of people. At the end of his thoughts, he states the following…
That’s the whole story. Here now is my final conclusion: Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone’s duty. God will judge us for everything we do, including every secret thing, whether good or bad. (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14)
We are created to be God’s children. In the words of the prophet Micah, “No, O people, the Lord has told you what is good, and this is what he requires of you: to do what is right, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.” (Micah 6:8)
In a world full of people seeking purpose and wholeness, the answer is simple, although not necessarily easy. God created us in His image and without Him we are incomplete. In order to find true purpose, we must seek to live as people with God-shaped lives.
Fearing God is not cowering in a corner. It is a healthy respect for the One who made us. Obeying God’s commands is not intended to be a burden. Rather, it frees us to live outside the constraints and poison of sin.
So often, people pursue substitutes for the only thing that brings wholeness. Instead of using their abilities and talents to do what is right, love mercy, and walk humbly with God, they use them to do what is pleasing, love themselves, and walk proudly among men. We will find our true identity when we pursue the purposes God intends.

shine!
Jason

Burger, Dogs, and Sabbath

Yesterday we held our fourth annual Backyard BBQ. (We have hosted 3 of the 4 BBQs. The second year it rained and we were relegated to the youth room.) This has become one of my favorite family events of the year. We invite all of the families in our LifeStage to our house for an afternoon of food and hanging out.
Around 1:30pm, approximately 130 people invaded our backyard with lawn chairs and side dishes in tow. By then the burgers and hot dogs were already on the grills and the aroma was filling the air. (Thanks, Brenden for being the grillmaster.)
It seemed like in a matter of minutes everyone had staked out their spot under the famous shade tree and they were ready for an afternoon of good eating and visiting. The next three hours were filled with laughter, games of volleyball, conversations, and fun. It was a great afternoon!
I wondered why over 100 people would hang out in our backyard for over three hours on a Sunday afternoon, and then it dawned on me...
Most of us are too busy and very seldom do we have three hours to just sit and talk to other people. We run from activity to activity, event to event, with little time to just sit and visit. This event is more than a BBQ. It is almost a mini-Sabbath in the midst of scores of crazy lives. For a few hours on a sunny Sunday afternoon, people can take a break from their hectic lives and build relationships.
Yesterday in the high school class we were talking about our purpose in life. In the midst of a discussion about the 10 Commandments, one of my students asked about Sabbath. We talked about creating space in our lives for God and other people. Sabbath is something we struggle with as extremely busy people. We have a hard time slowing down long enough to rest or reflect.
However, yesterday afternoon, over 100 people had a chance to slow down, sit down, and remember what it means to be human.

shine!
Jason

Amy is here!

Yesterday afternoon, my intern for the summer arrived here. Amy McLaughlin, a student at Lipscomb University, will be working with me this summer in our ministry.
After she arrived, she jumped in the car with our family, we drove around the area a bit, gave her a quick tour of the church building, grabbed a bite to eat, and went shopping for groceries. I thought I would let her rest on her first day here. ;-)
Well, after that all that craziness, we picked up a few students and headed over to Friday Night Live at the home of one of our ministry's families. I was impressed as I watched Amy interact with all of the students. She obviously has a passion for people and a heart for ministry. After last night, I am even more convinced that she will do a great job this summer.
Tomorrow we are hosting the third annual Backyard BBQ at our house for ARISE families. We are expecting over 100 people here for food, fun, and fellowship. (I know, it's a cheesy alliteration.) Anyway, the weather forecast looks great and I am looking forward to an afternoon with over 100 of my good friends from the Rochester Church.

shine!
Jason

Forgiveness sets us free

Why do we often have a hard time accepting forgiveness? Is it because we have a hard time forgiving others? Is it because we can’t imagine that we could be forgiven?
I believe that forgiveness is at the core of faith in Jesus. Unless we can really accept the fact that we are forgiven, we can get trapped in slavery to our sin. Consider what Paul wrote to the church in Rome…
Well then, since God’s grace has set us free from the law, does that mean we can go on sinning? Of course not! Don’t you realize that you become the slave of whatever you choose to obey? You can be a slave to sin, which leads to death, or you can choose to obey God, which leads to righteous living. Thank God! Once you were slaves of sin, but now you wholeheartedly obey this teaching we have given you. Now you are free from your slavery to sin, and you have become slaves to righteous living.
Because of the weakness of your human nature, I am using the illustration of slavery to help you understand all this. Previously, you let yourselves be slaves to impurity and lawlessness, which led ever deeper into sin. Now you must give yourselves to be slaves to righteous living so that you will become holy.
When you were slaves to sin, you were free from the obligation to do right. And what was the result? You are now ashamed of the things you used to do, things that end in eternal doom. But now you are free from the power of sin and have become slaves of God. Now you do those things that lead to holiness and result in eternal life. For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 6:15-23)
Forgiveness sets us free! Free from condemnation. Free from sin. Free from death. This is the secret of following Jesus, that when we make ourselves a slave to God, we are set free from the things that hold us down. It is through this forgiveness – this gift of God – that we can live the joy-filled life that He created us to enjoy.

shine!
Jason

Reflections on (gasp!) 39

Well, I woke up this morning to the fact that I am only one year from 40. Yes, today I turn 39. Well, technically, I am not 39 years old until 5:22pm EST today.
So what does 39 mean? Not much really. I came to the conclusion long ago that I am going to live my life, not my age. There are times I feel like I am in my 40's and times I act like I am in my 20's.
I have to say that one of the things that makes me feel old and young - sometimes simultaneously - is working with teenagers. There are times when I am wrestling with one of the guys, playing basketball, or staying up until two or three in the morning talking that I remember I am not 21 anymore. There are also times when I feel invigorated by being in the presence of students who are energetic and passionate. It is a blessing to do what I do. Sometimes I am amazed that I get paid to do something I love so much. God has been way more faithful to me than I deserve.
The longer I live, the more I realize how insignificant and significant I truly am. While this statement seems like a paradox, don't a lot of things in the Kingdom of God? Jesus is wholly man and God. God is three and one. The first shall be last. Well, you get the idea.
So how can I be both insignificant and significant? I have discovered that in the grand scope of creation, I am but a vapor. I am a speck of dust. I came from dirt and to dirt I will return. I am one of billions of people in the world. I may gain the false illusion that having a lot of friends on Facebook means I am well known, but for every one friend I have on Facebook, there are over 4 million people who don't have a clue who Jason Steckel is. In 100 years, there's a good chance almost no one will know I ever lived. Feeling tiny yet? I do.
On the other hand, I am treasured by the Creator of the universe. The God that spoke "let there be light" and there was, formed me in my mother's womb. The One who placed the stars in the sky, the One who molded the mountains and dug out the seas, the One who designed this intricate, organic machine we call a body, He knows my name. He cherishes me. He knows me inside and out. When I awaken in the morning, He is there. When I lay down at night, I am in His presence. There is nowhere I can go where He is not. I am His son, His prized possession.
This is the mystery of life that I am still amazed by and the puzzle that I can never seem to find every piece for. It is what keeps me humble, but yet lifts me up. It is the wind that knocks me down and carries me forward.
While I am just one person among billions, God is inviting me to be a part of His dream for this world. While I may be just one drop in an ocean of people, I am a part of God's family. I am a dwelling place for the Holy Spirit and an outpost of light. As imperfect and fallen as I am, God has entrusted me to be a husband, a father, a son, and a minister. He has created me with a unique set of abilities, talents, and passions.
As I turn 39, I realize that life is not about how many days I have lived. It's about how I am living my days. My prayer is that in my insignificance, I can bring glory and honor to the One in whose eyes I am significant.

shine!
Jason

(Un)conditional love

For many, the concept of unconditional love is hard to imagine. In a world where many adults place such a high value on grades, athletic feats, and other performance-based measurements, it can be hard for some teens to feel loved without conditions.
For many adults, we allow what we have done to define us, whether it’s good or bad. We let a job title, a talent, or a sin or addiction determine who we are.
God looks at us from a different point of view. God loves us as His creation. We are His children. He loves us unconditionally, even when we might not deserve it. The apostle Paul wrote, “When we were utterly helpless, Christ came at just the right time and died for us sinners. Now, most people would not be willing to die for an upright person, though someone might perhaps be willing to die for a person who is especially good. But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. And since we have been made right in God’s sight by the blood of Christ, he will certainly save us from God’s condemnation. For since our friendship with God was restored by the death of his Son while we were still his enemies, we will certainly be saved through the life of his Son. So now we can rejoice in our wonderful new relationship with God because our Lord Jesus Christ has made us friends of God.” (Romans 5:6-11)
God was willing to love us, even when we were unlovable. Jesus lived that out during his time on the earth. He met a Samaritan woman who had gone from relationship to relationship and showed her truth. He encountered a woman caught in adultery, showed her mercy, and told her to “go and sin no more.” He hung on a cross as people mocked Him and said, “Father, forgive them.”
God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them. And as we live in God, our love grows more perfect. (1 John 4:16-17)
Look to the One who is Love and learn what it means to receive and give unconditional love.

shine!
Jason

30 Hour Famine

The weekend of May 1-2, twenty-six of our students and several adults participated in the 30 Hour Famine. This is an event created by World Vision to raise awareness and funds to battle world hunger.
Starting after lunch on Friday, May 1, these students dedicated themselves to go without food until 6:00pm on Saturday. Around 6:30pm on Friday, we gathered at the home of Dave and Karen Benedict. Friday evening we spent time hanging out, studying God’s word, worshiping, praying, and played a game of hide-n-seek with a unique angle. Students were also divided into “tribes” that represented nations in South America where hunger is a major issue.
Our Bible study that evening focused on Jesus’ preparation for ministry through fasting. We looked at Matthew 4, and discussed how fasting was central to Jesus’ ability to resist Satan’s three temptations as well as prepared Him for the start of His ministry. We also looked at Acts 13 and 14, where we see fasting as a crucial component for selecting leaders or preparing for ministry.
We played a game called “Hide” where most of the students hid in the house while five “guerilla soldier” searched for them. This game brought to life for our students the reality that many in some countries deal with every day where gangs hunt down their rivals.
We woke up the next morning and began a day that was focused on serving others. After our morning juice break, we loaded up and headed out to Michigan Christian Youth Camp, where we spent a few hours helping prepare the camp for the summer. Several of the students commented about the challenge to work while not having eaten for almost twenty-four hours. It gave them a new appreciation for those who often go without food for that period of time.
After returning to our “home base” (the Benedicts), we went out into Clarkston for a canned food drive for God’s Helping Hands. In the course of a little under an hour, our students gathered 345 food items and $39 for GHH. We were all amazed at how much God provided in that short time period. The people in the community were so generous.
After returning to the Benedicts we held a few more competitions between our “tribes” that taught our students more about the plight of those in countries challenged by extreme poverty and starvation. I enjoyed watching students, some of whom barely knew each other at the start of the weekend, working together in teams.
Shortly before 6:00pm, we all gathered in the living room for a time of sharing. Students shared how God had been speaking to them throughout the weekend. It was incredibly encouraging for me to hear how so many of them had been touched in a variety of ways. I can’t begin to express how impressed I was with their insight and how proud I am of the ways they allowed God to work in their lives over the weekend.
We broke our fast together by sharing communion, praying together, and heading out to the kitchen for our first meal in 30 hours. Many students expressed how much they now appreciated the food they usually take for granted and how good it was to eat. Thank you to Bob and Susie Wilson, Dave and Carolyn Palmer, and Barb Huey for preparing our food. They were a huge part of this weekend – just ask the students!
Through 30 Hour Famine, our students raised over $1000 to battle world hunger (and some of them are still collecting funds), collected 345 food items and $39 for God’s Helping Hands, collectively served over 50 hours at MCYC, and were shaped by the working of the Holy Spirit in their lives through fasting, prayer, and service. It was a great weekend where God came to life in a powerful way for many of our students. Thank you to those who donated, those who prayed for us, those who served, and the parents who are the primary ministers for their children. You are all a part of a community that is working together to develop our teenagers into followers of Christ.

shine!
Jason

Michael Frost on Missional Church

I really appreciate what Frost has to say in this video. It is both insightful and challenging. My prayer is that we can be more intentional about engaging our community and seeking ways to be Jesus in the soil we've been planted in.

Renewal

I love springtime. Sun. Warmer temperatures. Lower heating bills. There are so many great things about this time of year.
One of my favorite things about spring is the reminder that God is a God of second chances and renewal. All winter long I have looked out the windows of my home only to see brown grass, trees without leaves, and skies that are often gray.
But the last several weeks I have seen glimmers of hope. The grass is starting to green. There are buds on the trees. The sunshine shines more often and blue skies are becoming more commonplace.
The apostle Paul wrote the following…
But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus' sake, so that his life may be revealed in our mortal body. So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you.
It is written: "I believed; therefore I have spoken.” With that same spirit of faith we also believe and therefore speak, because we know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus from the dead will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you in his presence. All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.
Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. (2 Corinthians 4:7-18)
Let springtime remind you of the unseen renewal God offers daily.

shine!
Jason

More than conquerors

This Sunday our students will be studying Romans 8:18-39. Here are a few reflections on this passage...

This is one of the most powerful passages in all of Scripture. We are a part of God’s work to redeem this world. Through the sacrifice of Jesus, the love of God, and the work of the Holy Spirit, God calls us to join his purpose. We allow so many things to distract us from our purpose and design. Nothing can separate us from God except ourselves. While God is always there and he always loves us, we can choose to construct barriers to put distance between us and God.
We must wrestle with the fact that God is not out to punish us or make us do what he wants. Rather, he views us as his children and wants what is best for us. He gave up his Son to prove his love and he gave us his Spirit to improve our relationship with him. Our God doesn’t sit on the mountaintop sending down laws. He lived them out though Jesus and empowers us with the Holy Spirit to do the same. That is why we are more than conquerors.

shine!
Jason

The good, the bad, and the ugly

This past Wednesday, I was able to share my story in Connections. I have to tell you that I was more nervous than I have been in years. Very seldom do I get nervous about public speaking, but this past Wednesday I was very anxious as the evening approached.
I have to be honest, I wasn’t sure what kind of reaction I would receive. I knew that there were parts of my past that are very dark and other parts that are pretty humorous. I shared most everything, the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Thank you to those of you who came up to me afterwards with words of affirmation. I also want to thank those who sent me an email or a comment on Facebook.
I was reminded of something powerful this week. There is something about sharing your story.
To me, that is one of the most powerful aspects of the Bible. Many people look at the Bible as a list of rules and regulations to please a God who doesn’t really care about what we want. That is so counter to what the Bible really is.
In the Bible, we are introduced to the stories of hundreds of people whose lives, like mine, were full of the good, the bad, and the ugly. And while I shared my life with a few hundred people, billions of people have heard the stories of people like David and Peter. David, the “man after God’s own heart,” also violated half of the Ten Commandments in a matter of months. Peter denied Jesus three times shortly after declaring his allegiance to the Christ.
These two men, and dozens of others in the story of God’s people, accomplished much for the Kingdom of God in spite of their shortcomings.
The apostle Paul wrote, “Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.” (2 Corinthians 12:9)
When we begin to look at the Bible as a collection of stories of imperfect people striving to grow closer to a perfect and loving God, maybe we can begin to see how God wants to turn our shortcomings into victories rather than telling us how bad we are.

shine!
Jason

Spirit-led living

This Sunday our students will be studying Romans 8:5-17. I just wanted to share a few brief thoughts on this powerful passage...

This passage gets to the heart of what it means to be a Christian. It’s not about rules or regulations. It’s not the law itself that God is concerned with. God is ultimately concerned about the relationship between him and his children. In Spirit-led living, we see God’s real desire. God wants us to be so intimately connected with him that we can’t help but live according to his passions and desires.
He wants to share his treasures with us. And those treasures exist in this world and the New Heaven and New Earth. When we allow the Holy Spirit to lead us, we will experience true life and real peace. It is not until we allow the Spirit to be our guide that we can really live into God’s dream for us in this world and into eternity.

shine!
Jason

10 Years Ago...

Ten years ago today was the day I lost my mother in a car accident. I wrote about this experience last year, so I won't revisit the story.
However, I was reminded today of the lonely and confusing world of dealing with death.
We live in a culture that doesn't always know how to deal with death and dying. We spend billions of dollars as a nation to mask our aging. In many ways we have sterilized the dying process. I often see people who are afraid, embarrassed, or unsure of how to deal outwardly with their grief. Sometimes, it seems like it is culturally unacceptable to grieve.
I am so thankful that during my time at Rochester I have interacted with John & Sara Barton, who served as missionaries to Uganda, and several students from Uganda who have attended Rochester College. Through them, and several indirect experiences with deaths in Uganda, I have learned a lot about how at least one other culture deals with death.
Last night I shared my life story with the Rochester Church. Part of that story included the deaths of my mom and Michelle's mom, who died several months apart in 1999. Any time I share my story of grieving, be it in front of a few hundred people or sitting in my office with one student wrestling with grief, there is power in community, sharing sorrow, and helping carry one another's burdens.
I wonder what kind of difference it would make in our churches if we could become more transparent and honest about the times we are hurting. Not only could it help those dealing with the pain, I believe it would draw our churches closer together and move us closer to the koinonia community that God desires.

shine!
Jason

Outside the walls

This week while at one of the Christian colleges, something interesting happened. I was sitting in a contemplative chapel where we were lead in prayers through the Stations of the Cross.
There’s something else that happened during our prayer time that I want to share with you. Overlooking the arena where we were having chapel, there is a room that has floor to ceiling windows.
While we were in the arena with dimmed lights and experiencing prayer, there was a group of people enjoying a luncheon in that room. The bright light and moving bodies was a bit of a distraction since it was clearly visible to all who were a part of the chapel.
It made we wonder how many of us are often like the people at the luncheon, who seemed oblivious to the hundreds of students sitting just outside their window.
How often is God at work in plain view around us and we completely miss it? How many of us get so wrapped up in our days that we don’t see what God is doing right under our noses?
I often hear people ask, “Where is God?” The reality is that often God is already at work, even in the messiest of situations.
The problem is two-fold. First of all, like the people at the luncheon, we can be so consumed by what we want to do, that we miss out on what God is doing all around us.
The other problem is that we want God to work in ways we like or are comfortable with. But that’s often not how God works.
Jesus irritated the religious leaders of his day because he interacted with prostitutes, tax collectors, Samaritans, adulterers, lepers, and a host of other people who were considered “unclean” by those who ascribed to the religious status quo.
Jesus is calling us to a radical way of living. A way of life that calls us to abandon our selfish desires, allow God to transform us from the inside out, and engage a world in need of salvation.
Maybe it’s time to look outside the walls and see what God is doing all around us.

shine!
Jason

Don't wrestle alone

Why does it seem like so many Christians try to fight sin on their own? I think for those of us who are American, it’s because we have “Americanized” our Christianity. We have been shaped by the pioneering spirit and individualistic nature of our nation and our culture. We hear phrases like “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” or look at those who made it “on their own” and we want to bring that to our spiritual life.
Unfortunately, that’s not how it works. Yes, there is an aspect of our spiritual life which includes personal responsibility and choices. Yes, ultimately, we must make the decisions and deal with the consequences of our behavior. But God’s dream is not the American dream. God’s dream is echoed again and again throughout Scripture. God’s dream is about relationship.
In Deuteronomy 6, God says that we must love God and love our neighbor. Jesus echoes those very words in Matthew 22. James states that true religion is caring for widows and orphans, keeping yourself pure. God’s dream can only be realized in relationship. Relationship with God and relationship with one another.
This is just as true in our battle with sin. In Romans 7, Paul describes the challenge that even followers of Christ face in their battle with sin. Paul says, “I want to do what is right, but I can’t. I want to do what is good, but I don’t. I don’t want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway.” (Romans 7:18-19)
Can you relate to this? I know I can. It’s interesting that I struggle the most with sin when I try so hard to do it on my own.
Do you want to overcome sin? The answer is simple, but not easy. It begins by having a close relationship with God that includes tapping into the power of the Holy Spirit. It is further strengthened by surrounding yourself with Spirit-filled people who can encourage you and help you in your struggle.
Both of these are uncomfortable at times. When I am wrestling with sin is when I am most tempted to back away from God and fellow believers. But if we believe Paul’s words, that is the time it is more important to rely on those relationships.

shine!
Jason