Labels

I'm currently reading a book entitled The Geeks Shall Inherit the Earth by Alexandra Robbins. It provides interesting insight into the world of teenagers today and the things they have to deal with in their lives.
One of the most troubling things I am coming across in this book for far is the idea labels. Now, to be fair, people have been labeled throughout history. But, there seems to something more severe, more intense about much of the labeling today. Today's teenagers are the loneliest generation in history, even thought they are the most connected. The adult world has often abandoned them, so an underground sub-culture has develop that is unlike anything I knew as a teenager.
In the midst of that development, labels seem to have become more powerful than ever. In a world where students can communicate 24/7 via texting, Facebook, and other technological tools, drama can unfold in ways that we could never even have dreamed of 20 years ago. Something you said in a private conversation at lunch could be broadcast for hundreds of students to read before dinner time. One comment could change the social landscape for a student.
Labels have become more powerful, dangerous, and damaging. Another reason for this is the increased absence of adults from adolescents lives. With the hectic pace of today's society and the ever-present ability to communicate with virtually anyone, we are losing the safe haven of home and the ability of students to escape from the adolescent world. When I was a teenager, I could come home, sit with my parents, and have time away from the drama that was high school. Many of today's students don't have that luxury. Text messages and Facebook posts keep things going all through the evening and even into the night.
Don't get me wrong. I love technology. And there are a lot of benefits that this technology offers. But there is also a dangerous side. And even if a particular student decides to avoid the world of texting and Facebook, the actions of other students who do use them can still have an impact.
In addition, the pressure seems to be greater than ever to succeed. While GPAs and ACT scores have been important for a long time, I don't think we fully understand the high level of stress today's students feel to get their GPA up from a 3.4 to a 3.5, or that push to get their ACT score up one more point. It could mean a difference of thousands of dollars in scholarship money.
So what does all of this have to do with labels? When students feel alone and abandoned, labels before even more powerful. When a student's value is based on how well they perform, labels become more defining. Labels can cause pain. Labels can change social status. Labels can impact the entire adolescent experience.
It's true that at some level, labels are unavoidable. You will have circles of friends you hang out with. People will use adjectives to describe your personality. But labels that put up walls, tear down people, and divide us are wrong. We are all unique, but none of us deserve to be labeled.
The apostle said, "So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." (Galatians 3:26-28 NIV)
In the Kingdom of God, there should not be any labels, except one. "Child of God."
We cannot change how the world acts, but if we are citizens of God's Kingdom, we live by a different standard. We should be a people who embrace all, regardless of the labels the world has placed on someone. We are different, or at least we should be. If there is anywhere that labels like that need to be removed, it is in the body of Christ. Otherwise, we have missed a key element of what it means to be people of God.

shine!
Jason