What ever happened to holiness?

Yesterday I taught the high school class and our topic was holiness. Actually, the title of the lesson was "God's Most Frightening Feature." This lesson has really been picking at me since yesterday and caused me to ask the question above. What ever happened to holiness?
In the rush to be relevant, tolerant, and trendy, many churches and Christians have lost a grip on the holiness of God. Think about it. Think about a lot of the worship songs that are coming out. How many of them sound like secular love songs with God serving as the boyfriend? This love affair with a "warm, fuzzy" God paints only part of the picture.
Now, before you think I am some right-wing, moralist, fundamentalist, hear me out. I agree we need to reach out to people where they are. I am 100% behind grace. There is no way we can reach the lost if we condemn them for the situation they find themselves in. My concern is not with the lost, but with the ones that call themselves saved.
While there are probably a hundred reasons for the demise of holiness, let me ponder a few.
One of the first things I would consider is the whole idea of Americanized Christianity. You know the kind I am talking about. It's the one where your baptism stamps your passport for heaven. The one that has 5 steps to salvation. The one that is packaged neatly and can be picked up at your local Barnes & Noble. The one that produces love songs for Jesus. Need I say more?
When we begin to look at following Jesus as an individual event as opposed to a community endeavor we lose something. Being a Christ-follower suddenly becomes all about me and not about others. It's about what I need to do to get into heaven, not who I need to be to bring heaven to earth. Me. Me. Me. Didn't the apostle John write, "He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less."? (see John 3:30)
Which brings me to my second thought. Now, this is where I get into one of those chicken and the egg discussions. What came first, Americanized, individualized Christianity, or consumerism? Or did they both feed off of each other? I ask this question, because wasn't our country founded on individual liberty? So I struggle to see what came first. An economy with "God-given" liberty or a religion where you pick your type of God. Is either really that healthy? Or are both a unhealthy marriage of spirituality and materialism?
All that to say that holiness is not Christianity on our terms. It isn't something where we have wiggle room. We can't pick and choose on holiness.
This has nothing to do with worship styles, translations of the Bible, or even what church you attend. It has everything to do with what your life looks like the 165 hours a week you are not in a building that our society calls a church. It has to do with the words you use. The choices you make. The way you treat others. The things you allow to shape your mind and heart. The people you allow to become your closest friends. The time you spend developing your relationship with God.
Consumerism has unfortunately become the air we breathe. We worry more about how people look when they worship than how people dress and cause their fellow Christians to struggle with lust. We worry more about the color of the carpet that why the skin color of most of the people in our church is the same. We worry more about what the Bible class teacher says than whether or not we even open our Bibles at home.
Our society has turned church into McReligion. The kind where you order what you want, consume it, and you're done with it by the time you get to your next stop. Church is for Sundays. It doesn't matter what my life looks like on Monday as long as I look right on Sundays. I can treat people how ever I want at work as long as I take Communion. I can lie, steal, or cheat to get ahead in school as long as I show up for youth group. I can ignore my neighbor in need as long as I throw a few bucks in the collection plate.
What happened to holiness? What happened to staying pure physically, emotionally, and mentally? What happened to keeping ourselves separate from the ways of the world? What happened to looking so different from the world that we would be persecuted, put down, and abused?
I think that many have traded in the old rugged cross for the little plastic one on the end of a necklace. What would Jesus do?

shine!
Jason