Tuesday, December 13, 2005

The perfect wife

I remember when I met my wife, Michelle. I remember as we began to date. I remember the day we were married. I know that on that day I was not remotely the husband I am today. It was the first day of a lifetime of becoming a better husband and man.
What if my wife wanted me to be the perfect husband the day we were married? She would have been highly disappointed from the first day. And what if I had wanted her to be the perfect wife from the day we were married. I would have found disappointment as well. Our marriage would have been destined for disaster and failure.
Is it no wonder that so many Christians are disillusioned and frustrated when we try to approach our walk with Jesus with this misguided attitude. I have been around people who tell you that you have to have all of your "ducks in a row" when you become a Christian. You have to have all the doctrines right. You have to answer the questions the right way. You have to immediately become the "model Christian."
Where did we go wrong? When did Christ ever expect us to instantly change our entire life when we decide to follow Him? Now, before you go balistic and launch into some attack, hold on a second.
Do we become a new creation when we decide to follow Christ? Yes.
Do we repent and change directions? Yes.
Does the "old man" die? Yes.
When we make a commitment to Jesus as Lord of our life we certainly make new allegences and leave our old "gods" behind. However, the living out of this change is never immediate. But this often what we teach. We may not use those words, but our behaviors often communicate this.
What kind of pressure does that put on the new Christian? More than they should have. What if you were baptized last week and you are still struggling to stay pure with your girlfriend? What if you just became a Christian but you struggle with your drinking problem? What if just weeks after your conversion you still spread rumors about other people?
When we expect "instant Christian" we set these people up for disaster. As they try to live up to the expectation placed before them they fear rejection by the church because they don't measure up. As they internalize their sin, afraid to share their struggle with others, they turn to the one thing that brings comfort...that sin. This self-destructive cycle continues until they lose all hope and walk away from Christianity or a number of other negative endings.
Have you seen this before? I have seen it many times. I have lived it in my life. Early in my Christian walk I struggled to overccome sin and temptations I lived with most of my life up to that point. As I did my best to measure up I was afraid to talk to anyone about my struggles. It tore me up inside as I had no one to turn to. I was afraid to disappoint my new found "family."
Something special happens when we become a Christian. When we are baptized into Christ we start a new life. We put on Christ. We are washed clean. Our sins are forgiven. But that is the beginning of the journey, not the end. It is the start of a lifelong adventure of following Jesus and becoming more and more like Him.
Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 3:7-18, "That old system of law etched in stone led to death, yet it began with such glory that the people of Israel could not bear to look at Moses' face. For his face shone with the glory of God, even though the brightness was already fading away. Shouldn't we expect far greater glory when the Holy Spirit is giving life? If the old covenant, which brings condemnation, was glorious, how much more glorious is the new covenant, which makes us right with God! In fact, that first glory was not glorious at all compared with the overwhelming glory of the new covenant. So if the old covenant, which has been set aside, was full of glory, then the new covenant, which remains forever, has far greater glory.
Since this new covenant gives us such confidence, we can be very bold. We are not like Moses, who put a veil over his face so the people of Israel would not see the glory fading away. But the people's minds were hardened, and even to this day whenever the old covenant is being read, a veil covers their minds so they cannot understand the truth. And this veil can be removed only by believing in Christ. Yes, even today when they read Moses' writings, their hearts are covered with that veil, and they do not understand.
But whenever anyone turns to the Lord, then the veil is taken away. Now, the Lord is the Spirit, and wherever the Spirit of the Lord is, he gives freedom. And all of us have had that veil removed so that we can be mirrors that brightly reflect the glory of the Lord. And as the Spirit of the Lord works within us, we become more and more like him and reflect his glory even more."

We must be people who allow the Spirit of the Lord to work in our lives and the lives around us. We must avoid the veil of legalism. We must avoid the veil that sets unrealistic expectations. The Old Covenant was built around "measuring up," but in Christ we find freedom. Freedom from guilt. Freedom from judgment. Freedom from having to be good enough. The freedom we find from the Spirit is the freedom to become more and more like Jesus.
We must be open enough to accept people's imperfections and help them grow to be more and more like Jesus. We need to take off the veil of the "model Christian" and admit we are all on this journey as imperfect followers of the Perfect One. When we show our imperfections, admit our shortcomings, and take away the barriers we have put up, then we can truly be mirrors that reflect the love, forgiveness, and gentleness of the Lord.
Only when we are real can the changes in our life and others lives be real.

The perfect wife

I remember when I met my wife, Michelle. I remember as we began to date. I remember the day we were married. I know that on that day I was not remotely the husband I am today. It was the first day of a lifetime of becoming a better husband and man.
What if my wife wanted me to be the perfect husband the day we were married? She would have been highly disappointed from the first day. And what if I had wanted her to be the perfect wife from the day we were married. I would have found disappointment as well. Our marriage would have been destined for disaster and failure.
Is it no wonder that so many Christians are disillusioned and frustrated when we try to approach our walk with Jesus with this misguided attitude. I have been around people who tell you that you have to have all of your "ducks in a row" when you become a Christian. You have to have all the doctrines right. You have to answer the questions the right way. You have to immediately become the "model Christian."
Where did we go wrong? When did Christ ever expect us to instantly change our entire life when we decide to follow Him? Now, before you go balistic and launch into some attack, hold on a second.
Do we become a new creation when we decide to follow Christ? Yes.
Do we repent and change directions? Yes.
Does the "old man" die? Yes.
When we make a commitment to Jesus as Lord of our life we certainly make new allegences and leave our old "gods" behind. However, the living out of this change is never immediate. But this often what we teach. We may not use those words, but our behaviors often communicate this.
What kind of pressure does that put on the new Christian? More than they should have. What if you were baptized last week and you are still struggling to stay pure with your girlfriend? What if you just became a Christian but you struggle with your drinking problem? What if just weeks after your conversion you still spread rumors about other people?
When we expect "instant Christian" we set these people up for disaster. As they try to live up to the expectation placed before them they fear rejection by the church because they don't measure up. As they internalize their sin, afraid to share their struggle with others, they turn to the one thing that brings comfort...that sin. This self-destructive cycle continues until they lose all hope and walk away from Christianity or a number of other negative endings.
Have you seen this before? I have seen it many times. I have lived it in my life. Early in my Christian walk I struggled to overccome sin and temptations I lived with most of my life up to that point. As I did my best to measure up I was afraid to talk to anyone about my struggles. It tore me up inside as I had no one to turn to. I was afraid to disappoint my new found "family."
Something special happens when we become a Christian. When we are baptized into Christ we start a new life. We put on Christ. We are washed clean. Our sins are forgiven. But that is the beginning of the journey, not the end. It is the start of a lifelong adventure of following Jesus and becoming more and more like Him.
Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 3:7-18, "That old system of law etched in stone led to death, yet it began with such glory that the people of Israel could not bear to look at Moses' face. For his face shone with the glory of God, even though the brightness was already fading away. Shouldn't we expect far greater glory when the Holy Spirit is giving life? If the old covenant, which brings condemnation, was glorious, how much more glorious is the new covenant, which makes us right with God! In fact, that first glory was not glorious at all compared with the overwhelming glory of the new covenant. So if the old covenant, which has been set aside, was full of glory, then the new covenant, which remains forever, has far greater glory.
Since this new covenant gives us such confidence, we can be very bold. We are not like Moses, who put a veil over his face so the people of Israel would not see the glory fading away. But the people's minds were hardened, and even to this day whenever the old covenant is being read, a veil covers their minds so they cannot understand the truth. And this veil can be removed only by believing in Christ. Yes, even today when they read Moses' writings, their hearts are covered with that veil, and they do not understand.
But whenever anyone turns to the Lord, then the veil is taken away. Now, the Lord is the Spirit, and wherever the Spirit of the Lord is, he gives freedom. And all of us have had that veil removed so that we can be mirrors that brightly reflect the glory of the Lord. And as the Spirit of the Lord works within us, we become more and more like him and reflect his glory even more."

We must be people who allow the Spirit of the Lord to work in our lives and the lives around us. We must avoid the veil of legalism. We must avoid the veil that sets unrealistic expectations. The Old Covenant was built around "measuring up," but in Christ we find freedom. Freedom from guilt. Freedom from judgment. Freedom from having to be good enough. The freedom we find from the Spirit is the freedom to become more and more like Jesus.
We must be open enough to accept people's imperfections and help them grow to be more and more like Jesus. We need to take off the veil of the "model Christian" and admit we are all on this journey as imperfect followers of the Perfect One. When we show our imperfections, admit our shortcomings, and take away the barriers we have put up, then we can truly be mirrors that reflect the love, forgiveness, and gentleness of the Lord.
Only when we are real can the changes in our life and others lives be real.

Tuesday, November 22, 2005

The Big Picture

Well, I just returned from the National Youth Workers Conference in Nashville, Tennessee. What an awesome time!! God has really opened my eyes to the possibilities that are before me and the ministry here at Rochester. There are so many things bouncing around in my head right now and they are started to form and take shape. God is calling our youth mnistry to something bigger than I can even imagine.
It is scary and exhilirating to know that God is calling me to lead something that is beyond what I can accomplish on my own. That means that I will need to rely on Him and on those He has placed around me. I stand in awe of a God that trusts imperfect, fallen people like me to carry out His plans here on earth.
I know that God has brought me to this place at this time for something that I cannot fully comprehend right now. And think God intends it to be that way. If I could see everything and knew it all then God would not be able to work. God gives us a glimpse of His plan and then asks us to trust Him and come along for the ride. I feel like a kid again. I feel like Christmas morning is just around the corner and my Father has prepared some amazing gifts for me. The only difference is that I didn't look in a catalogue or online to find these gifts. They are presents that can only come from a place beyond my comprehension. They are expressions of love from a Father that is lavishing on me more than I deserve. They are causing me to lay down my desires and make His desires mine. I can't open a gift with my hands full. I can only open a gift when I am willing to put down what I have and pick up what I have been offered.
The best gift of all is not the one under the tree but the One that hung on a tree. That is where I find my true joy and my true power. The joy of serving a God with eternal love and the power to bring the kingdom of heaven to this world full of sin.
shine!

The Big Picture

Well, I just returned from the National Youth Workers Conference in Nashville, Tennessee. What an awesome time!! God has really opened my eyes to the possibilities that are before me and the ministry here at Rochester. There are so many things bouncing around in my head right now and they are started to form and take shape. God is calling our youth mnistry to something bigger than I can even imagine.
It is scary and exhilirating to know that God is calling me to lead something that is beyond what I can accomplish on my own. That means that I will need to rely on Him and on those He has placed around me. I stand in awe of a God that trusts imperfect, fallen people like me to carry out His plans here on earth.
I know that God has brought me to this place at this time for something that I cannot fully comprehend right now. And think God intends it to be that way. If I could see everything and knew it all then God would not be able to work. God gives us a glimpse of His plan and then asks us to trust Him and come along for the ride. I feel like a kid again. I feel like Christmas morning is just around the corner and my Father has prepared some amazing gifts for me. The only difference is that I didn't look in a catalogue or online to find these gifts. They are presents that can only come from a place beyond my comprehension. They are expressions of love from a Father that is lavishing on me more than I deserve. They are causing me to lay down my desires and make His desires mine. I can't open a gift with my hands full. I can only open a gift when I am willing to put down what I have and pick up what I have been offered.
The best gift of all is not the one under the tree but the One that hung on a tree. That is where I find my true joy and my true power. The joy of serving a God with eternal love and the power to bring the kingdom of heaven to this world full of sin.
shine!

Thursday, November 03, 2005

Take a stand (or a seat)

This week our nation mourned the loss of a pioneer. Rosa Parks passed away at the age 92 on October 24. Yesterday her funeral was held here in Detroit.
Here is a portion of the news report about Rosa...
Parks was 92 when she died Oct. 24 in Detroit. Nearly 50 years earlier, she was a 42-year-old tailor's assistant at a department store in Montgomery, Ala., when she was arrested and fined $10 plus $4 in court costs for refusing to give up her seat to a white man on a Montgomery city bus.
Her action on Dec. 1, 1955, triggered a 381-day boycott of the bus system led by the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr.
The U.S. Supreme Court ruled in December 1956 that segregated seats on city buses were unconstitutional, giving momentum to the battle against laws that separated the races in public accommodations and businesses throughout the South.
But Parks and her husband, Raymond, were exposed to harassment and death threats in Montgomery, where they also lost their jobs. They moved to Detroit with Rosa Parks' mother, Leona McCauley, in 1957.

The action of this one woman impacted an entire nation. She was willing to do what was right when the culture around her said it was wrong. Her example should also be an inspiration to Christians around the world. Her attitude and courage remind me of the words of the apostle Paul who wrote...
With the Lord's authority let me say this: Live no longer as the ungodly do, for they are hopelessly confused. Their closed minds are full of darkness; they are far away from the life of God because they have shut their minds and hardened their hearts against him. They don't care anymore about right and wrong, and they have given themselves over to immoral ways. Their lives are filled with all kinds of impurity and greed.
But that isn't what you were taught when you learned about Christ. Since you have heard all about him and have learned the truth that is in Jesus, throw off your old evil nature and your former way of life, which is rotten through and through, full of lust and deception. Instead, there must be a spiritual renewal of your thoughts and attitudes. You must display a new nature because you are a new person, created in God's likeness--righteous, holy, and true. (Ephesians 4:17-24)

We must be different. We must live different. We must be willing to take a stand for what is right even when the culture says it is wrong.
Abortion.
Homosexuality.
Materialism.
Sexual freedom.
Dishonesty.
Euthanasia.
Selfishness.
Greed.
The list could go on and on.
The question that remains is this. Are we willing to take a stand for God no matter what? Are willing to sacrifice the comforts of this world to serve the Kingdom of God? Can we lay down our crown so we can pick up our cross?
Jesus Himself said the following...
"If any of you wants to be my follower," he told them, "you must put aside your selfish ambition, shoulder your cross, and follow me. If you try to keep your life for yourself, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will find true life. And how do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul in the process? Is anything worth more than your soul? If a person is ashamed of me and my message in these adulterous and sinful days, I, the Son of Man, will be ashamed of that person when I return in the glory of my Father with the holy angels." (Mark 8:34-38)
What are you willing to give for Jesus? He was willing to give it all for you.
Rosa Parks was willing to pay a fine, suffer death threats, and lose her job to take a stand (and a seat) for what is right. What are willing to give?

Take a stand (or a seat)

This week our nation mourned the loss of a pioneer. Rosa Parks passed away at the age 92 on October 24. Yesterday her funeral was held here in Detroit.
Here is a portion of the news report about Rosa...
Parks was 92 when she died Oct. 24 in Detroit. Nearly 50 years earlier, she was a 42-year-old tailor's assistant at a department store in Montgomery, Ala., when she was arrested and fined $10 plus $4 in court costs for refusing to give up her seat to a white man on a Montgomery city bus.
Her action on Dec. 1, 1955, triggered a 381-day boycott of the bus system led by the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr.
The U.S. Supreme Court ruled in December 1956 that segregated seats on city buses were unconstitutional, giving momentum to the battle against laws that separated the races in public accommodations and businesses throughout the South.
But Parks and her husband, Raymond, were exposed to harassment and death threats in Montgomery, where they also lost their jobs. They moved to Detroit with Rosa Parks' mother, Leona McCauley, in 1957.

The action of this one woman impacted an entire nation. She was willing to do what was right when the culture around her said it was wrong. Her example should also be an inspiration to Christians around the world. Her attitude and courage remind me of the words of the apostle Paul who wrote...
With the Lord's authority let me say this: Live no longer as the ungodly do, for they are hopelessly confused. Their closed minds are full of darkness; they are far away from the life of God because they have shut their minds and hardened their hearts against him. They don't care anymore about right and wrong, and they have given themselves over to immoral ways. Their lives are filled with all kinds of impurity and greed.
But that isn't what you were taught when you learned about Christ. Since you have heard all about him and have learned the truth that is in Jesus, throw off your old evil nature and your former way of life, which is rotten through and through, full of lust and deception. Instead, there must be a spiritual renewal of your thoughts and attitudes. You must display a new nature because you are a new person, created in God's likeness--righteous, holy, and true. (Ephesians 4:17-24)

We must be different. We must live different. We must be willing to take a stand for what is right even when the culture says it is wrong.
Abortion.
Homosexuality.
Materialism.
Sexual freedom.
Dishonesty.
Euthanasia.
Selfishness.
Greed.
The list could go on and on.
The question that remains is this. Are we willing to take a stand for God no matter what? Are willing to sacrifice the comforts of this world to serve the Kingdom of God? Can we lay down our crown so we can pick up our cross?
Jesus Himself said the following...
"If any of you wants to be my follower," he told them, "you must put aside your selfish ambition, shoulder your cross, and follow me. If you try to keep your life for yourself, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will find true life. And how do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul in the process? Is anything worth more than your soul? If a person is ashamed of me and my message in these adulterous and sinful days, I, the Son of Man, will be ashamed of that person when I return in the glory of my Father with the holy angels." (Mark 8:34-38)
What are you willing to give for Jesus? He was willing to give it all for you.
Rosa Parks was willing to pay a fine, suffer death threats, and lose her job to take a stand (and a seat) for what is right. What are willing to give?

Monday, October 31, 2005

"Christians" are the biggest obstacle to the gospel

When I talk to people about Jesus I often get objections. I guess I say objections because I worked in sales for a number of years and objections is our fancy term for excuses. Now, I don't say excuses to say that some are not valid. As a matter of fact, most objections/excuses that people have are legitimate. And most sincere objections can be overcome with discussion and evaluation.
But there is one objection that I struggle with overcoming. That is when people say that they don't want to follow Christ because of "Christians" they have experienced in life. Hypocrites. Self-righteous. Holier than thou. The list goes on and on, but the essence is the same. People don't want to follow Jesus because "Christians" don't always follow Jesus.
Now, before you overreact and start quoting bumper stickers (i.e. "Christians aren't perfect, just forgiven") let me explain. I understand that all sin and fall short of the glory of God. However, some don't even aim for the glory of God. It is hard to "fall short" when you are not even aiming for the target. There are a lot of Christians who wear the jewelry, sit in the pew, and dress the part. But many of these people fail to pick up their cross and follow Him. They would rather look like a Christian than live like one. This can be a dangerous proposition because it is dishonest. In his second (recorded) letter to the church in Corinth, Paul writes that we are representatives of Christ. That His followers are to be His ambassadors in this world. Our duty is to point people to the Christ. We must do that in the way we think, the way we act, and the way we speak. It is more than words; it is action!
Mark Steele writes in his book flashBANG...
Those who say, "I follow Jesus; follow me to Him," while not being responsible to actually live the truth consistently are in essence leading mankind somewhere else that God did not intend.
Where are we leading people? I ask this question to each of us as individuals and as a body. Are we leading people to the Christ? Or are we leading them to our self-selected, self-imposed vision of what "Christianity" looks like? Are we making them followers of Christ or followers of "the church?" The church is not the essence of Christianty. We should not practice Churchianity.
As I finish this rambling I guess I would look at my own life and realize that too often I have been all about the church and not about the Christ. Jesus is taking me on this journey that continues to draw me closer to Him and away from the obstacles that I have placed in my own life. I have allowed non-central items to act as central items and distract me from the real core of Christianty, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Maybe you are in a similar situation. Are you often torn between religion and relationship? Or maybe you're torn between church and Christ? None of these things are inherently bad, it just depends on who or what has preeminance. Our relationship with Jesus should shape our religion, not the other way around. Christ should define the church; the church should not define the Christ.
Are you an obstable to the gospel? I believe we all are at times. But as we are drawn closer to the cross we learn John's motto that, "He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less." (John 3:30)
Become less so that Jesus may be everything to the world.

"Christians" are the biggest obstacle to the gospel

When I talk to people about Jesus I often get objections. I guess I say objections because I worked in sales for a number of years and objections is our fancy term for excuses. Now, I don't say excuses to say that some are not valid. As a matter of fact, most objections/excuses that people have are legitimate. And most sincere objections can be overcome with discussion and evaluation.
But there is one objection that I struggle with overcoming. That is when people say that they don't want to follow Christ because of "Christians" they have experienced in life. Hypocrites. Self-righteous. Holier than thou. The list goes on and on, but the essence is the same. People don't want to follow Jesus because "Christians" don't always follow Jesus.
Now, before you overreact and start quoting bumper stickers (i.e. "Christians aren't perfect, just forgiven") let me explain. I understand that all sin and fall short of the glory of God. However, some don't even aim for the glory of God. It is hard to "fall short" when you are not even aiming for the target. There are a lot of Christians who wear the jewelry, sit in the pew, and dress the part. But many of these people fail to pick up their cross and follow Him. They would rather look like a Christian than live like one. This can be a dangerous proposition because it is dishonest. In his second (recorded) letter to the church in Corinth, Paul writes that we are representatives of Christ. That His followers are to be His ambassadors in this world. Our duty is to point people to the Christ. We must do that in the way we think, the way we act, and the way we speak. It is more than words; it is action!
Mark Steele writes in his book flashBANG...
Those who say, "I follow Jesus; follow me to Him," while not being responsible to actually live the truth consistently are in essence leading mankind somewhere else that God did not intend.
Where are we leading people? I ask this question to each of us as individuals and as a body. Are we leading people to the Christ? Or are we leading them to our self-selected, self-imposed vision of what "Christianity" looks like? Are we making them followers of Christ or followers of "the church?" The church is not the essence of Christianty. We should not practice Churchianity.
As I finish this rambling I guess I would look at my own life and realize that too often I have been all about the church and not about the Christ. Jesus is taking me on this journey that continues to draw me closer to Him and away from the obstacles that I have placed in my own life. I have allowed non-central items to act as central items and distract me from the real core of Christianty, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Maybe you are in a similar situation. Are you often torn between religion and relationship? Or maybe you're torn between church and Christ? None of these things are inherently bad, it just depends on who or what has preeminance. Our relationship with Jesus should shape our religion, not the other way around. Christ should define the church; the church should not define the Christ.
Are you an obstable to the gospel? I believe we all are at times. But as we are drawn closer to the cross we learn John's motto that, "He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less." (John 3:30)
Become less so that Jesus may be everything to the world.

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

No rules, just right

Recognize this phrase?
This famous slogan for Outback Steakhouse could also apply to Christianity. Before you think I am saying that Christianity has no guidelines, hold on. Hear me through on this one. Take in the big picture.
So many today have turned Christianity into a list of rules that define "living right." Tell the truth. Don't steal. Speak kindly. Treat others with love. Don't cuss. The list could go on and on. So isn't that right? Well, I would say yes and no.
Will a follower of the Christ exhibit these traits? Yes. Will someone who exhibits these traits be a follower of the Christ? Not necessarily. I know plenty of people who try to look like Christ-followers. They say the right things. They do the right things. But many of them are miserable on the inside. Why?
Because they are living by the rules, not following the Ruler. They are obeying a religion of guidelines, not a relationship with the Savior. They are trying to earn acceptance by God though works, not finding the acceptance offered by His grace.
Lewis A. Drummond, in Reaching Generation Next, states, "No one can live out the ethics of Jesus without the transcendental experience of knowing Jesus personally in religious experience, because that is where the power to live out Christian morality is found. Moral precepts alone are not enough. They must be lived out in a person's life, and that can be done only through Jesus Christ."
I believe that this is precisely what is destroying our culture and our country. People are trying to live the ethics of Christ without the relationship. They are attempting to enforce His "rules" without introducing people to the One who frees us. Religion is becoming a burden as opposed to a release. We are returning to legalism instead of grace.
For some reason, when religious folks feel like they are "losing control," they want to enforce more rules and put pressure on people to conform. Jesus was never about that. He showed people His love, lived a life of righteousness, and invited others to join Him.
Jesus never converted a prostitute by calling her names. He showed her unconditional love. Jesus never converted a tax collector by rejecting him. He ate dinner with him and showed that he was a person too. Jesus reached people where they were. He was a doctor for the sick.
Let us strive to be servants of the Great Physician in our day. In Christ we have the only cure for this illness called sin. We will never cure people by telling them how horrible they are. But when we fulfill the law of Christ and love our neighbors as ourselves they will be drawn to the One who didn't come to create more rules, but came to bring a righteousness that can only be found in Jesus.

No rules, just right

Recognize this phrase?
This famous slogan for Outback Steakhouse could also apply to Christianity. Before you think I am saying that Christianity has no guidelines, hold on. Hear me through on this one. Take in the big picture.
So many today have turned Christianity into a list of rules that define "living right." Tell the truth. Don't steal. Speak kindly. Treat others with love. Don't cuss. The list could go on and on. So isn't that right? Well, I would say yes and no.
Will a follower of the Christ exhibit these traits? Yes. Will someone who exhibits these traits be a follower of the Christ? Not necessarily. I know plenty of people who try to look like Christ-followers. They say the right things. They do the right things. But many of them are miserable on the inside. Why?
Because they are living by the rules, not following the Ruler. They are obeying a religion of guidelines, not a relationship with the Savior. They are trying to earn acceptance by God though works, not finding the acceptance offered by His grace.
Lewis A. Drummond, in Reaching Generation Next, states, "No one can live out the ethics of Jesus without the transcendental experience of knowing Jesus personally in religious experience, because that is where the power to live out Christian morality is found. Moral precepts alone are not enough. They must be lived out in a person's life, and that can be done only through Jesus Christ."
I believe that this is precisely what is destroying our culture and our country. People are trying to live the ethics of Christ without the relationship. They are attempting to enforce His "rules" without introducing people to the One who frees us. Religion is becoming a burden as opposed to a release. We are returning to legalism instead of grace.
For some reason, when religious folks feel like they are "losing control," they want to enforce more rules and put pressure on people to conform. Jesus was never about that. He showed people His love, lived a life of righteousness, and invited others to join Him.
Jesus never converted a prostitute by calling her names. He showed her unconditional love. Jesus never converted a tax collector by rejecting him. He ate dinner with him and showed that he was a person too. Jesus reached people where they were. He was a doctor for the sick.
Let us strive to be servants of the Great Physician in our day. In Christ we have the only cure for this illness called sin. We will never cure people by telling them how horrible they are. But when we fulfill the law of Christ and love our neighbors as ourselves they will be drawn to the One who didn't come to create more rules, but came to bring a righteousness that can only be found in Jesus.

Saturday, October 15, 2005

Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants

Ok... First of all it's confession time. Yes, I have a problem. I actually enjoy "chick flicks." Yes, those movies that get all girly and make you teary-eyed. I enjoy them.
I have to confess this as I prepare this entry, because I just watched the movie "Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants." I have to confess that as I stood in Blockbuster earlier tonight with three teenage girls I winced a bit when they picked this movie out. But it ended up being pretty good.
I am not sure if you have seen it or not, so I will be careful as to not indulge too much here. But be warned, I may reveal some plot points...
Anyway, there is a scene where Bridget, one of the main characters is thinking to herself the morning after she gives up her virginity to this young man at her soccer camp. She says something to the effect that she expected it to make her feel complete, but it actually made her feel so empty. You see, Bridget thought that sex would fill all of the empty holes in her heart, especially the one created by the death of her mother. She discovers that this is far from the truth.
How often do we buy into the same lie? Maybe it's sex. Or money. We might try drugs or alcohol. Some aim for success or fame. Others want the right clothes or the right car. You know what your thing is. It is that thing that you hope will bring you fulfillment.
But there is only One that can bring true joy and satisfaction. And that One said, "So don't worry about having enough food or drink or clothing. Why be like the pagans who are so deeply concerned about these things? Your heavenly Father already knows all your needs, and he will give you all you need from day to day if you live for him and make the Kingdom of God your primary concern." (Matthew 6:31-33)
Jesus warned us to be careful about where we seek to find completeness. We are only complete when we pursue our Lord and Savior with all of our heart.
Paul, in his journey of following the cross wrote, "Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the priceless gain of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I may have Christ and become one with him. I no longer count on my own goodness or my ability to obey God's law, but I trust Christ to save me. For God's way of making us right with himself depends on faith. As a result, I can really know Christ and experience the mighty power that raised him from the dead. I can learn what it means to suffer with him, sharing in his death, so that, somehow, I can experience the resurrection from the dead!" (Philippians 3:8-11)
Paul realized what was important. For years he had been seeking fulfillment in himself. His accomplishments. His efforts. His heritage. But along came Jesus and He changed everything. Suddenly it didn't matter who Paul was. What really mattered was who Paul knew.
I would imagine that the day after his encounter with Jesus on the road to Damascus, Paul had a Bridget moment. Obviosuly not because he lost his virginity, but because he finally realized how all of his accomplishments left him feeling empty. When he met Jesus his whole perspective changed.
Have you met Jesus in such a life-changing way? Do you still struggle with seeking ways to feel complete? Let me invite you to know the One who made you and wants you to feel the completeness He created you to desire and have. Paul said about Jesus that, "Everything has been created through him and for him." (Colossians 1:16)
Come to the cross and join the best family of all. It is a sisterhood and a brotherhood. It is the family of the traveling heaven-seekers. Join the journey!

Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants

Ok... First of all it's confession time. Yes, I have a problem. I actually enjoy "chick flicks." Yes, those movies that get all girly and make you teary-eyed. I enjoy them.
I have to confess this as I prepare this entry, because I just watched the movie "Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants." I have to confess that as I stood in Blockbuster earlier tonight with three teenage girls I winced a bit when they picked this movie out. But it ended up being pretty good.
I am not sure if you have seen it or not, so I will be careful as to not indulge too much here. But be warned, I may reveal some plot points...
Anyway, there is a scene where Bridget, one of the main characters is thinking to herself the morning after she gives up her virginity to this young man at her soccer camp. She says something to the effect that she expected it to make her feel complete, but it actually made her feel so empty. You see, Bridget thought that sex would fill all of the empty holes in her heart, especially the one created by the death of her mother. She discovers that this is far from the truth.
How often do we buy into the same lie? Maybe it's sex. Or money. We might try drugs or alcohol. Some aim for success or fame. Others want the right clothes or the right car. You know what your thing is. It is that thing that you hope will bring you fulfillment.
But there is only One that can bring true joy and satisfaction. And that One said, "So don't worry about having enough food or drink or clothing. Why be like the pagans who are so deeply concerned about these things? Your heavenly Father already knows all your needs, and he will give you all you need from day to day if you live for him and make the Kingdom of God your primary concern." (Matthew 6:31-33)
Jesus warned us to be careful about where we seek to find completeness. We are only complete when we pursue our Lord and Savior with all of our heart.
Paul, in his journey of following the cross wrote, "Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the priceless gain of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I may have Christ and become one with him. I no longer count on my own goodness or my ability to obey God's law, but I trust Christ to save me. For God's way of making us right with himself depends on faith. As a result, I can really know Christ and experience the mighty power that raised him from the dead. I can learn what it means to suffer with him, sharing in his death, so that, somehow, I can experience the resurrection from the dead!" (Philippians 3:8-11)
Paul realized what was important. For years he had been seeking fulfillment in himself. His accomplishments. His efforts. His heritage. But along came Jesus and He changed everything. Suddenly it didn't matter who Paul was. What really mattered was who Paul knew.
I would imagine that the day after his encounter with Jesus on the road to Damascus, Paul had a Bridget moment. Obviosuly not because he lost his virginity, but because he finally realized how all of his accomplishments left him feeling empty. When he met Jesus his whole perspective changed.
Have you met Jesus in such a life-changing way? Do you still struggle with seeking ways to feel complete? Let me invite you to know the One who made you and wants you to feel the completeness He created you to desire and have. Paul said about Jesus that, "Everything has been created through him and for him." (Colossians 1:16)
Come to the cross and join the best family of all. It is a sisterhood and a brotherhood. It is the family of the traveling heaven-seekers. Join the journey!

Wednesday, October 12, 2005

Never fun to say goodbye

Tonight the Belpre church had a special fellowship in our honor after class. It was very emotional and touching. Sometimes you never realize how many lives you touch until you leave somewhere. In an odd way, it reminds me of my mom's funeral. I never realized how many people my mom had an impact on until her funeral. Then they all came out to pay their respects.
Tonight kind of felt like that. People I usually don't get the chance to talk to were telling me how Michelle or I had an impact on their life. That brings up two thoughts...
First, don't ever underestimate how God is using you. It may not always seem like it, but you are touching someone for God and you may not even know it.
Second, don't forget to thank and appreciate people. We often go through life without telling people how much they mean to us. We should never wait until a funeral or a goodbye party to tell someone these things. We all do it. We all fall prey to this habit. Take time today to thank someone you have forgotten to thank in the past.
I guess the bottom line is that it is never fun to say goodbye, but it is good to know you are loved. I love the Belpre church. I love the Belpre teens. I want to thank them for all they mean to me. We may be separated by miles, but our hearts will always been near.

Never fun to say goodbye

Tonight the Belpre church had a special fellowship in our honor after class. It was very emotional and touching. Sometimes you never realize how many lives you touch until you leave somewhere. In an odd way, it reminds me of my mom's funeral. I never realized how many people my mom had an impact on until her funeral. Then they all came out to pay their respects.
Tonight kind of felt like that. People I usually don't get the chance to talk to were telling me how Michelle or I had an impact on their life. That brings up two thoughts...
First, don't ever underestimate how God is using you. It may not always seem like it, but you are touching someone for God and you may not even know it.
Second, don't forget to thank and appreciate people. We often go through life without telling people how much they mean to us. We should never wait until a funeral or a goodbye party to tell someone these things. We all do it. We all fall prey to this habit. Take time today to thank someone you have forgotten to thank in the past.
I guess the bottom line is that it is never fun to say goodbye, but it is good to know you are loved. I love the Belpre church. I love the Belpre teens. I want to thank them for all they mean to me. We may be separated by miles, but our hearts will always been near.

Tuesday, October 11, 2005

Never give up!

Well, before I head to bed I want to comment about the football game I just watched. It was a back and forth battle between the Chargers and Steelers. Of course I wanted the Steelers to win...and they did!
Reflecting on the game, our walk with God is often similar. We have ups and downs. Sometimes it seems like we're winning. Other times it feels like we are losing.
The biggest difference between the football game and our Christian walk is that we KNOW that we will win in the end. It doesn't matter what our enemy throws our way, victory is sure!
Consider what John writes in his revelation...
Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the old heaven and the old earth had disappeared. And the sea was also gone. And I saw the holy city, the new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven like a beautiful bride prepared for her husband.
I heard a loud shout from the throne, saying, "Look, the home of God is now among his people! He will live with them, and they will be his people. God himself will be with them. He will remove all of their sorrows, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. For the old world and its evils are gone forever."
And the one sitting on the throne said, "Look, I am making all things new!" And then he said to me, "Write this down, for what I tell you is trustworthy and true." And he also said, "It is finished! I am the Alpha and the Omega--the Beginning and the End. To all who are thirsty I will give the springs of the water of life without charge! All who are victorious will inherit all these blessings, and I will be their God, and they will be my children. But cowards who turn away from me, and unbelievers, and the corrupt, and murderers, and the immoral, and those who practice witchcraft, and idol worshipers, and all liars--their doom is in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur. This is the second death."
No temple could be seen in the city, for the Lord God Almighty and the Lamb are its temple. And the city has no need of sun or moon, for the glory of God illuminates the city, and the Lamb is its light. The nations of the earth will walk in its light, and the rulers of the world will come and bring their glory to it. Its gates never close at the end of day because there is no night. And all the nations will bring their glory and honor into the city. Nothing evil will be allowed to enter--no one who practices shameful idolatry and dishonesty--but only those whose names are written in the Lamb's Book of Life. (Revelation 21:1-8, 22-27)
Which team are you on? If you are on Jesus' team, victory is assured. If you're not, what are you waiting for?

Monday, October 10, 2005

Never give up!

Well, before I head to bed I want to comment about the football game I just watched. It was a back and forth battle between the Chargers and Steelers. Of course I wanted the Steelers to win...and they did!
Reflecting on the game, our walk with God is often similar. We have ups and downs. Sometimes it seems like we're winning. Other times it feels like we are losing.
The biggest difference between the football game and our Christian walk is that we KNOW that we will win in the end. It doesn't matter what our enemy throws our way, victory is sure!
Consider what John writes in his revelation...
Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the old heaven and the old earth had disappeared. And the sea was also gone. And I saw the holy city, the new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven like a beautiful bride prepared for her husband.
I heard a loud shout from the throne, saying, "Look, the home of God is now among his people! He will live with them, and they will be his people. God himself will be with them. He will remove all of their sorrows, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. For the old world and its evils are gone forever."
And the one sitting on the throne said, "Look, I am making all things new!" And then he said to me, "Write this down, for what I tell you is trustworthy and true." And he also said, "It is finished! I am the Alpha and the Omega--the Beginning and the End. To all who are thirsty I will give the springs of the water of life without charge! All who are victorious will inherit all these blessings, and I will be their God, and they will be my children. But cowards who turn away from me, and unbelievers, and the corrupt, and murderers, and the immoral, and those who practice witchcraft, and idol worshipers, and all liars--their doom is in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur. This is the second death."
No temple could be seen in the city, for the Lord God Almighty and the Lamb are its temple. And the city has no need of sun or moon, for the glory of God illuminates the city, and the Lamb is its light. The nations of the earth will walk in its light, and the rulers of the world will come and bring their glory to it. Its gates never close at the end of day because there is no night. And all the nations will bring their glory and honor into the city. Nothing evil will be allowed to enter--no one who practices shameful idolatry and dishonesty--but only those whose names are written in the Lamb's Book of Life. (Revelation 21:1-8, 22-27)
Which team are you on? If you are on Jesus' team, victory is assured. If you're not, what are you waiting for?

Saturday, October 01, 2005

Friends are friends forever

Today I have been thinking a lot about the teens here at Belpre. I will miss so many of them. We have some incredible relationships and my heart aches as I think about moving away...
Sheena - I will miss seeing her sitting on my love seat for hours at a time talking to Michelle and me.
Meridith - I will miss the way she always asks about the details of every trip we are taking.
Michael - I will miss his honest, open struggle to constantly grow as a Christian. He is growing into a powerful man of God.
Davey - I will miss his ability to know what to say and how to say it. He seems to know when to pray and how to comfort.
Kelsey - I will miss her smile and the energy she always has.
Brian - I will miss his silent leadership and strong desire to serve others without wanting any recognition.
Seth - I will miss having him spend the night spotaneously and running around Parkersburg.
Katrina - I will miss her willingness to take a stand and say what needs to be said.
Katelyn - I will miss her absolute passion for God.
Caleb - I will miss his humor, his servant's heart, and his love for kids.
Kyla - I will miss her looks that say "I love you."
Rebecca - I will miss the way she can always find the application in anything I say and package it in a way that is memorable. ("Love is like constipation" - need I say more?)
Rachel - I will miss her encouraging e-mails that always seemed to arrive just when I needed them.
Sara - I will miss being able to have in-depth "nerdy" conversations about school stuff.
Lucas - I will miss the way he says very little, but when he speaks you know he means it and has thought about it.
Vanessa - I will miss her willingness to say whatever she is feeling.

I know this is not everyone, but I think I have mentioned all of the juniors and seniors that I see in class on a regular basis. I am sure I will have more to say in the days to come, but I needed to share some of my emotions. I will really miss these guys and gals. But I can find joy in knowing that God has great plans for them far beyond their time in the Belpre youth group!

Friends are friends forever

Today I have been thinking a lot about the teens here at Belpre. I will miss so many of them. We have some incredible relationships and my heart aches as I think about moving away...
Sheena - I will miss seeing her sitting on my love seat for hours at a time talking to Michelle and me.
Meridith - I will miss the way she always asks about the details of every trip we are taking.
Michael - I will miss his honest, open struggle to constantly grow as a Christian. He is growing into a powerful man of God.
Davey - I will miss his ability to know what to say and how to say it. He seems to know when to pray and how to comfort.
Kelsey - I will miss her smile and the energy she always has.
Brian - I will miss his silent leadership and strong desire to serve others without wanting any recognition.
Seth - I will miss having him spend the night spotaneously and running around Parkersburg.
Katrina - I will miss her willingness to take a stand and say what needs to be said.
Katelyn - I will miss her absolute passion for God.
Caleb - I will miss his humor, his servant's heart, and his love for kids.
Kyla - I will miss her looks that say "I love you."
Rebecca - I will miss the way she can always find the application in anything I say and package it in a way that is memorable. ("Love is like constipation" - need I say more?)
Rachel - I will miss her encouraging e-mails that always seemed to arrive just when I needed them.
Sara - I will miss being able to have in-depth "nerdy" conversations about school stuff.
Lucas - I will miss the way he says very little, but when he speaks you know he means it and has thought about it.
Vanessa - I will miss her willingness to say whatever she is feeling.

I know this is not everyone, but I think I have mentioned all of the juniors and seniors that I see in class on a regular basis. I am sure I will have more to say in the days to come, but I needed to share some of my emotions. I will really miss these guys and gals. But I can find joy in knowing that God has great plans for them far beyond their time in the Belpre youth group!

Moving isn't fun

Any time I move, I remember how much I don't enjoy it. So many things to box up and get ready. Books. Furniture. Clothes. Etc...
How much easier would it be to move if I could just leave everything here and leave? I think I would enjoy moving a lot more if I didn't have to worry about all the stuff in my house.
Maybe that's why we have such a hard time moving towards heaven. Maybe we are too attached to our stuff. Popularity. Success. Possessions. The pleasures of this earth. What is it that you feel like to you need to pack and take with you on your journey towards God? Jesus met a man who wanted to bring some things with him as well.
As he was starting out on a trip, a man came running up to Jesus, knelt down, and asked, "Good Teacher, what should I do to get eternal life?"
"Why do you call me good?" Jesus asked. "Only God is truly good. But as for your question, you know the commandments: `Do not murder. Do not commit adultery. Do not steal. Do not testify falsely. Do not cheat. Honor your father and mother.'"
"Teacher," the man replied, "I've obeyed all these commandments since I was a child."
Jesus felt genuine love for this man as he looked at him. "You lack only one thing," he told him. "Go and sell all you have and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me." At this, the man's face fell, and he went sadly away because he had many possessions.
Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, "How hard it is for rich people to get into the Kingdom of God!" This amazed them. But Jesus said again, "Dear children, it is very hard to get into the Kingdom of God. It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God!"
The disciples were astounded. "Then who in the world can be saved?" they asked.
Jesus looked at them intently and said, "Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But not with God. Everything is possible with God."
Then Peter began to mention all that he and the other disciples had left behind. "We've given up everything to follow you," he said.

And Jesus replied, "I assure you that everyone who has given up house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or property, for my sake and for the Good News, will receive now in return, a hundred times over, houses, brothers, sisters, mothers, children, and property--with persecutions. And in the world to come they will have eternal life. But many who seem to be important now will be the least important then, and those who are considered least here will be the greatest then." (Mark 10:17-31)
How many of us are like this young man?
Is the following the discussion we would have with Jesus?
Us: Jesus, what must I do to go to heaven?
Jesus: Love the Lord your God and love your neighbor as yourself.
Us: Jesus, I have done that.
Jesus: OK. One more thing. Sell your house and car, then give all the money to those in New Orleans.
Now, I don't think Jesus was telling the young man (or us) that we must sell everything and give it away to get to heaven. But His point was that we must have an attitude that we are willing to sacrifice to help others. The young man wanted to have heaven without giving up the world. He allowed his possesions to be his god, the place he put his trust. How many of us serve similar gods?
The question is not whether or not you own your possesions. The questions is whether or not your possesions own you.
Jesus got to the heart of the matter at the end of the above passage when He said, "But many who seem to be important now will be the least important then, and those who are considered least here will be the greatest then."
I don't know about you, but I struggle with pride. Most of us want to be important. We desire to be noticed and recognized. And the world teaches us that what we have defines who we are. But the lesson that God continues to teach me is that when we are willing to stop packing our life full of the world we will experience true success and move closer to Jesus.

Moving isn't fun

Any time I move, I remember how much I don't enjoy it. So many things to box up and get ready. Books. Furniture. Clothes. Etc...
How much easier would it be to move if I could just leave everything here and leave? I think I would enjoy moving a lot more if I didn't have to worry about all the stuff in my house.
Maybe that's why we have such a hard time moving towards heaven. Maybe we are too attached to our stuff. Popularity. Success. Possessions. The pleasures of this earth. What is it that you feel like to you need to pack and take with you on your journey towards God? Jesus met a man who wanted to bring some things with him as well.
As he was starting out on a trip, a man came running up to Jesus, knelt down, and asked, "Good Teacher, what should I do to get eternal life?"
"Why do you call me good?" Jesus asked. "Only God is truly good. But as for your question, you know the commandments: `Do not murder. Do not commit adultery. Do not steal. Do not testify falsely. Do not cheat. Honor your father and mother.'"
"Teacher," the man replied, "I've obeyed all these commandments since I was a child."
Jesus felt genuine love for this man as he looked at him. "You lack only one thing," he told him. "Go and sell all you have and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me." At this, the man's face fell, and he went sadly away because he had many possessions.
Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, "How hard it is for rich people to get into the Kingdom of God!" This amazed them. But Jesus said again, "Dear children, it is very hard to get into the Kingdom of God. It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God!"
The disciples were astounded. "Then who in the world can be saved?" they asked.
Jesus looked at them intently and said, "Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But not with God. Everything is possible with God."
Then Peter began to mention all that he and the other disciples had left behind. "We've given up everything to follow you," he said.

And Jesus replied, "I assure you that everyone who has given up house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or property, for my sake and for the Good News, will receive now in return, a hundred times over, houses, brothers, sisters, mothers, children, and property--with persecutions. And in the world to come they will have eternal life. But many who seem to be important now will be the least important then, and those who are considered least here will be the greatest then." (Mark 10:17-31)
How many of us are like this young man?
Is the following the discussion we would have with Jesus?
Us: Jesus, what must I do to go to heaven?
Jesus: Love the Lord your God and love your neighbor as yourself.
Us: Jesus, I have done that.
Jesus: OK. One more thing. Sell your house and car, then give all the money to those in New Orleans.
Now, I don't think Jesus was telling the young man (or us) that we must sell everything and give it away to get to heaven. But His point was that we must have an attitude that we are willing to sacrifice to help others. The young man wanted to have heaven without giving up the world. He allowed his possesions to be his god, the place he put his trust. How many of us serve similar gods?
The question is not whether or not you own your possesions. The questions is whether or not your possesions own you.
Jesus got to the heart of the matter at the end of the above passage when He said, "But many who seem to be important now will be the least important then, and those who are considered least here will be the greatest then."
I don't know about you, but I struggle with pride. Most of us want to be important. We desire to be noticed and recognized. And the world teaches us that what we have defines who we are. But the lesson that God continues to teach me is that when we are willing to stop packing our life full of the world we will experience true success and move closer to Jesus.

Monday, September 26, 2005

The Ripple Effect

Last night in our college group we talked about impacting other people. One of the things that kept coming up is "the ripple effect." The basic idea is that what we do is like throwing a rock in the middle of pond. The ripples go out from where the rock lands and they affect the things around them.
Paul wrote the church in Colosse, "And whatever you do or say, let it be as a representative of the Lord Jesus, all the while giving thanks through him to God the Father." (Colossians 3:17)
It is important that everything we do represents Jesus well, because it all has influence. Everytime we interact with someone, what we do will either draw them closer to Jesus or push them away from Jesus. Even the small things like the words we speak and the way we act will tell people a lot about our character.
People will "listen" a lot more to our actions than they will listen to our words. Our lifestyle must be consistant with our message. The apostle John wrote, "Those who say they live in God should live their lives as Christ did." (1 John 2:6) We can't just talk the talk, we must walk the walk.
The bottom line is this. If we are going to make a difference for Jesus in this world, our ripples need to be Jesus-like. Jesus Himself said, "You are the light of the world--like a city on a mountain, glowing in the night for all to see. Don't hide your light under a basket! Instead, put it on a stand and let it shine for all. In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father." (Matthew 5:14-16)
When we are willing to live like Jesus and shine for Him, then we will send out ripples that will draw people to Him.

The Ripple Effect

Last night in our college group we talked about impacting other people. One of the things that kept coming up is "the ripple effect." The basic idea is that what we do is like throwing a rock in the middle of pond. The ripples go out from where the rock lands and they affect the things around them.
Paul wrote the church in Colosse, "And whatever you do or say, let it be as a representative of the Lord Jesus, all the while giving thanks through him to God the Father." (Colossians 3:17)
It is important that everything we do represents Jesus well, because it all has influence. Everytime we interact with someone, what we do will either draw them closer to Jesus or push them away from Jesus. Even the small things like the words we speak and the way we act will tell people a lot about our character.
People will "listen" a lot more to our actions than they will listen to our words. Our lifestyle must be consistant with our message. The apostle John wrote, "Those who say they live in God should live their lives as Christ did." (1 John 2:6) We can't just talk the talk, we must walk the walk.
The bottom line is this. If we are going to make a difference for Jesus in this world, our ripples need to be Jesus-like. Jesus Himself said, "You are the light of the world--like a city on a mountain, glowing in the night for all to see. Don't hide your light under a basket! Instead, put it on a stand and let it shine for all. In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father." (Matthew 5:14-16)
When we are willing to live like Jesus and shine for Him, then we will send out ripples that will draw people to Him.

Sunday, September 18, 2005

Don't just show up

This morning in our teen boys' class we discussed spiritual warfare against sin and temptation. During class we talked about George Patton, the great WWII general. He always planned for battle, down to the smallest detail. The location of every hill. The layout of the land. The best place to fight. Patton would know every aspect of the battle he was about to engage in.
We must be the same in our battle against sin and Satan. So often we just show up and expect to be victorious. We are in a serious battle that requires serious preparation.
Paul wrote, "For we are not fighting against people made of flesh and blood, but against the evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against those mighty powers of darkness who rule this world, and against wicked spirits in the heavenly realms." (Ephesians 6:12)
We should never casually approach sin and temptation. We must make decisions every day that put us on a battlefield where you have the advantage.
Struggle with lust? What movies and TV shows are you watching?
Struggle with foul language? What music do you listen to?
Struggle with gossip? Who do you spend time talking to?
Struggle with cheating? What kind of people do you surround yourself with?
Fighting the war against sin is never easy. And one last thought. Never enter battle alone. Find one or more people you trust and have them keep you accountable in your battle. When you enter the battle with someone watching your back you are much less likely to experience a surprise attack.
Shine!

Don't just show up

This morning in our teen boys' class we discussed spiritual warfare against sin and temptation. During class we talked about George Patton, the great WWII general. He always planned for battle, down to the smallest detail. The location of every hill. The layout of the land. The best place to fight. Patton would know every aspect of the battle he was about to engage in.
We must be the same in our battle against sin and Satan. So often we just show up and expect to be victorious. We are in a serious battle that requires serious preparation.
Paul wrote, "For we are not fighting against people made of flesh and blood, but against the evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against those mighty powers of darkness who rule this world, and against wicked spirits in the heavenly realms." (Ephesians 6:12)
We should never casually approach sin and temptation. We must make decisions every day that put us on a battlefield where you have the advantage.
Struggle with lust? What movies and TV shows are you watching?
Struggle with foul language? What music do you listen to?
Struggle with gossip? Who do you spend time talking to?
Struggle with cheating? What kind of people do you surround yourself with?
Fighting the war against sin is never easy. And one last thought. Never enter battle alone. Find one or more people you trust and have them keep you accountable in your battle. When you enter the battle with someone watching your back you are much less likely to experience a surprise attack.
Shine!

Tuesday, August 30, 2005

First Post

Not sure what to say or how many people will read this. But here it is.

First Post

Not sure what to say or how many people will read this. But here it is.