A historic election

This morning I watched as the pundits debated who McCain would choose. The reporters were looking for an angle so they could break the story. As the morning progressed, potential running mates dropped off the radar. Tim Pawlenty. Mitt Romney. Both were gone. Then the rumors. A plane from Alaska had come in late Thursday evening. Suddenly, we heard a name not known by many...Sarah Palin. Sarah who?

A little over an hour later, John McCain introduced Sarah Palin, governor of Alaska, as his running mate for the 2008 Presidential election.

One thing is for sure. On January 20, 2009, there will either be an African-American or a woman inaugurated. Barack Obama will become President or Sarah Palin will become Vice President.

Last night, on the 45th anniversary of Martin Luther King, Jr's "I have a dream" speech, an African-American accepted the nomination of the Democratic Party to be their Presidential candidate. Less than twenty-four hours later, as our nation celebrates 88 years of women's right to vote in the United States, John McCain named Sarah Polin as only the second woman on the Presidential ticket of a major political party.

This is a watershed moment in the political history of our nation. Regardless of who wins in November, history will be made.

On a side note, I was impressed with John McCain's ad last night. I appreciate his willingness to give Obama the spotlight and take one night off of mudslinging to acknowledge the historical significance of the moment. Whether it was a political move, a sincere message, or a combination of the two, it was a humble gesture.

Now that the historical significance has been acknowledged, let the battle begin. This coming week, the Republican National Convention will take place in Minnesota. Over the next 67 days, we will hear speeches, debates, and more. Time for the circus to move to center stage.

shine!
Jason

All you need is love

Love is so crucial to our Christian walk. I am not talking about the purely emotion-driven love that our culture seems to thrive on. This is not the love that says, "If you love me, you'll..." It's not the love that demands or is self-centered. That is the love that you and I are surrounded by every day.

It's not the love that drives people to say "because we love each other" we can do whatever feels good. It is a love that puts the best interests of the other person first. The real, long-term best interests.

This is the kind of unselfish love that genuinely puts others first. It means loving your parents, even when you disagree with them. It means loving your siblings, even when they drive you crazy. It means loving your friends, even when they let you down.

This is the kind of love that changed the world. While the Roman Empire crumbled, the Kingdom of God grew. While nations have risen and fallen, the Kingdom of God has marched on. While power and violence may rule in the short term, real, godly love will never be defeated.

Jesus said, "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." (John 13:34-35)

When we can learn to love each other as Christians should, the world will notice. In a world where hate is the norm, and selfishness is expected, we can be a light in the middle of darkness. But when we don't look much different than everyone around us, what kind of an impact can we make?

Let's agree to love our friends, and our enemies. Let's search out ways to lay down our lives for those around us. Let's replace selfishness, gossip, and hatred, with selflessness, kind words, and compassion. When we are willing to love like Jesus, we can change the world.

shine!
Jason

 

Olympics, Democrats, golf, and the pursuit of sleep

Last night, the Olympics came to a conclusion. Phelps, Bolt, questionable documentation, censorship, and a variety of other events that provided great theater, the Games of the 29th Olympiad are over. Beijing can go back to normal, whatever that is.

Tonight the circus arrives in town (via TV). The Democratic National Convention kicks off tonight. I must confess I am a bit of a political junkie. (Little-known trivial fact: I have a minor in Political Science) I will do my best to take in the convention. For some reason, no one wanted to plan an event in the Eastern Time Zone, so I will have to continue my sleep deprivation for the next couple of weeks.

I am fascinated by this year's presidential election. For the first time since I was born, the incumbent POTUS (President of the United States) or his VP are not on the ticket. In fairness, I haven't followed politics as closely as I used to. Honestly, I don't have the time or desire to dig into all the details like I used to. But I at least try to be informed. I look forward to seeing how each party will sell it's candidate and platform to the American people.

On a different note, I hit the golf course this morning before 7:00am with one of my teenagers. We had a blast! It was the first time I had walked 18 holes in a long time. And I didn't shoot all that bad considering my lack of recent play. Regardless of the score, it was great to get out and just walk around the course. It was pretty quiet, there were no crowds, and we just enjoyed playing and talking.

I hope Michelle Obama isn't too long-winded tonight. I would like to hear her speech, but I also have to meet my men's group tomorrow morning at 6:00am followed by a day full of appointments, meetings, and ministry. But I get to go home this weekend! :-)

shine!
Jason

The Clone Wars

Today we took Matthew to see Star Wars: The Clone Wars. It was pretty fun to surprise him. :-)  Here is how it went down...

We told Matthew to get in the car because we had a surprise for him. He started guessing immediately. His first guess was Great Lakes Crossing. I said, "Maybe, maybe not." I guess he figured that meant it was the location, because he stopped asking and went out to the car.

After we headed east on M-59 instead of west, he was confused. This wasn't the way to Great Lakes. He looked around, hoping for a clue. Then we got off at the Mound Round exit, and from the back of the car I hear, "This isn't where Great Lakes is." He was checking out every store and sign for a clue.

We pulled into the AMC 30 parking lot and he figured we were going to see a movie, but he had no idea which one. I ran ahead to get the tickets so he wouldn't know. Then, somehow, we got him into the theater without letting him see the sign above the door. (Michelle did a good job of distracting him. Normally, we can't sneak much of anything past him.)

We found a good seat and waited. First the advertisements. Then the previews. Finally, it was show time.

When the LucasFilm logo popped up on the screen, Matthew was intrigued. But then the next thing on the screen brought a huge smile to his face...

"A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away..."

Matthew looked up at me and said, "The Clone Wars!" He was grinning from ear to ear.

For the next hour and forty-five minutes were treated to action and adventure. Lasers and lightsabers. Sith and Jedi. I really enjoyed the movie. It stayed true to the Star Wars story and was enjoyable.

I am sure some major Star Wars junkies might find some imperfection or something, but I was thoroughly entertained. Anakin acted like Anakin. Obi-Wan was Obi-Wan. There were a lot of Star Wars "regulars" and a few new characters as well. I was not disappointed.

There was some violence. It is The Clone WARS. But the violence is not graphic and mixed well with the action. There are not many slow moments, and even the slow moments weren't dull. Before I knew it, the movie was over.

Whether you are a big Star Wars fan or not, this is a good movie to go see. I don't like to spend the big money to go to the theater. (Although AMC's new $5 weekday prices make it better.) This movie is worth seeing on the big screen. Enjoy!

shine!
Jason

Stranded!

Last night we were in a boat on Atwood Lake in eastern Ohio, headed out to enjoy a quiet dusk evening. We had stopped in the middle of the lake and I shut the engine off.

After about 10 minutes, I needed to turn the engine on and move the boat a bit since we were drifting. That's when it started.

The engine wouldn't turn over. I turned the key, and all I heard was a quiet hum. No engine kicking in. No sign of life from the engine.

I waited a minute or two. The result was the same.

I checked the battery connection. It was fine. Nothing appeared to have changed from a few minutes earlier. But no engine.

So there we were, a big, silver, glorified flotation device. We were at the whim of the breeze that was gently nudging us across the lake.

By this time the sun had set completely and the reflection from the lights on the shore was about all the light we had. Night had come and there didn't seem to be any other boats on the lake.

Then in the distance we saw the lights. They came closer and closer. I flashed the flashlight and they flashed back. But as they started to pass we realized they didn't know we were in distress, so we started yelling. Then they figured out we were in trouble and pulled up next to us.

After listening to our engine and figuring out it was probably the starter that had gone bad (for the record, I am pretty clueless about these kinds of things), they tied our boat to their boat and started to tow us across the lake. The trip seemed like it took forever, but the longer it lasted, the more I began to admire the sky. I could see stars I normally don't see at home and even recognized a part of the Milky Way.

After about thirty minutes, we arrived at our location and floated into our dock with the help of a few fishermen who happened to be fishing on the dock where we had to park the boat. We went back into the house and enjoyed the Olympics.

There are a few things I was reminded of on this trip.

God will often use the most unlikely people in our lives to help us on the journey. A random boat passing by and a few fishermen were the only difference between us sleeping in our beds and floating on the lake most of the night.

Life will sometimes throw us a curve. We need to roll with it and enjoy the ride. I never really felt like I panicked, even though I was concerned. Life is too short to get that bent out of shape about situations that aren't life-threatening.

Finally, I was reminded that in the midst of darkness, there is always a light waiting to rescue us. Just like the boat passing in the night, God is present in our lives, even in times of darkness. One difference is that while the people on the boat didn't know we needed their help, God always knows. But sometimes He waits for us to call out to Him. Whether it's waiting for us to ask or waiting for us to acknowledge our need, God wants to be the light in the darkness that leads us home.

A lot of us spend time just floating through life. Sometimes we even find ourselves floating in the darkness. When we feel stranded, we should always remember that God wants to meet us in the midst of our trouble and take us into the light. Often we just have to be willing to throw Him the rope and follow where He leads.

shine!
Jason

Expression or impression?

I really wrestle when it comes to dealing with entertainment, especially music. There seem to be two schools of thought around music's role in someone's life.

Expression. One side of the argument would say that music is an expression of one's emotions and thoughts. (I am referring to the listener, not the author of the song.) The belief here is that music is helping the listener express how they are feeling. As someone listens to a song, it aids them in understanding their feelings. Some would even say that it helps them express something they cannot put words to themselves.

Impression. The other side of the coin would argue that music impresses emotions and thoughts. The thought here is that music shapes how we think and feel. Obviously, this is not occurring in a vacuum, but those who lean towards impression would say that music creates or over-amplifies feelings.

I believe that both are valid, but that discernment must be applied to our music choices. Music is one of the - if not THE - most direct pathways to our hearts. Music can create or reveal emotions that few other things can. The right song with the right lyrics can bring tears to our eyes or a smile to our face.

But hidden within the magic of music is also the risk. While music can reveal hidden emotions or help us express how we feel, it can also create emotions in us that were either not previously present or amplify emotions to a place they weren't before - and maybe don't need to be.

To get an idea of what teens are listening to, I looked at the Top 40 for this week. Here are the lyrics to the top two songs on the charts:

Leavin' by Jesse McCartney

Hey baby girl
I've been watching you all day
Man that thing you got behind you is amazing
You make me want to take you out and let it rain
I know you got a man but this is what you should say

[Chorus:]
Why don't you tell him that I'm leavin' never looking back again
You found somebody who does it better than he can
No more making you cry
No more them gray skies
Girl we flying on a g-5, g-5
And we're leavin' never looking back again
So call your shawty you tell him you found a new man
The one who's so so fly
The one to keep you high
Have you singing all night, like that

Now if I talk it girl, you know that I will walk it out
Man I'll put my money money where my mouth is
Cause you're the baddest little thing that I've ever seen
So I'm gonna ask you one time if you got a man

[Chorus]

Don't stress, don't stress, don't stress
Just tell him to the left left left
Don't stress, don't stress, don't stress
Cause we gone & we gone & we gone
No stress, no stress, no stress
Girl you deserve nothing but the best
No stress, no stress, no stress
Girl you need to tell him...

[Chorus]

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I Kissed a Girl by Katy Perry

This was never the way I planned
Not my intention
I got so brave, drink in hand
Lost my discretion

It's not what
I'm used to
Just wanna try u on
I'm curious for you
Caught my attention

(CHORUS)
I kissed a girl and I liked it
The taste of her cherry chapstick
I kissed a girl just to try it
I hope my boyfriend don't mind it
It felt so wrong
It felt so right
Don't mean I'm in love tonight
I kissed a girl and I liked it
I liked it

(V2)
No I don't even know your name
It doesn't matter
You're my expiramental game
Just human nature

It's not what
Good girls do
Not how they should behave
My head gets
So confused
Hard to obey


(CHORUS)
I kissed a girl and I liked it
The taste of her cherry chapstick
I kissed a girl just to try it
I hope my boyfriend don't mind it
It felt so wrong
It felt so right
Don't mean I'm in love tonight
I kissed a girl and I liked it
I liked it

(BRIDGE)
Us girls we are so magical
Soft skin, red lips, so kissable
Hard to resist so touchable
Too good to deny it
Ain't no big deal, it's innocent

(CHORUS)
I kissed a girl and I liked it
The taste of her cherry chapstick
I kissed a girl just to try it
I hope my boyfriend don't mind it
It felt so wrong
It felt so right
Don't mean I'm in love tonight
I kissed a girl and I liked it
I liked it

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As I look at the lyrics to both of these songs, I wonder what is going on. Is it expression or impression?

In many ways, today's teenagers are not much different than I was as a teen. They are trying to find their way. They are seeking direction and guidance. They want to figure out who they are.

The biggest difference is the voices that are calling out to them. There were voices when I was teenager. Whether it was Centerfold by J. Geils Band, Jack and Diane by John Cougar (before the Mellencamp), or Pour Some Sugar on Me by Def Leppard, we had plenty of songs to fuel our teenage emotions as well. It's just that today's stakes seem even higher.

It's amazing to me how, when I hear songs I haven't heard in almost twenty years, I still remember many of the lyrics. Is that expression or impression?

Music has the power to impress words, thoughts, and emotions on our hearts that can last for a lifetime.

I am not saying that music is the only cause of the increased sexuality, disrespect (for adults and peers), depression, and more. But when many teenagers walk around with iPods pumping lyrics like the ones above into their heads for hours a day, what can we expect?

This is not a call for censorship. It is not a statement that we should only listen to Christian music. I don't think that all "secular" music is bad. But, we need to be more intentional about our choices. We should be more selective about the words that shape our hearts.

I don't care how good the music is; if the lyrics have the potential to poison our minds, should we be listening? Is it more important to be entertained than Kingdom-focused? If we are going to be serious about being transformed into the image of God and enjoying the abundant life Jesus talks about, let's begin by controlling the pathway to our heart.

shine!
Jason

Mission: Cincinnati Wrap-up

This has taken me a few days to sit down and write because I have been recovering. My body was reminding me that I am 38 now.

Anyway... I wanted to take a few minutes to reflect back on M:C2008.

Last week was a great week. I have already talked about some of our adventures in my previous posts, but this is a chance to look back at the week as a whole.

As I have mentioned earlier, everyone on the team did a GREAT job last week. I don't remember ever having to ask someone twice to do anything. (Well, except when it was time to leave the center. Then I had to ask a dozen times, but I understand that.) They were more focused on their purpose than ever.

Last night in our Wednesday night youth gathering we had "circle time" (a time where we sit in a circle, turn off the lights, and light a candle in the middle of the room). Our sharing time centered around how Mission: Cincinnati 2008 impacted those who went and - just as importantly - how it was going to change the way they live now that they are back home.

One theme that surfaced several times was a desire to be a more welcoming group. Like most youth groups, we often struggle with integrating new people. One of the things that was really cool about our mission trip was that it didn't really matter what grade students were in, our team was a team. I watched juniors and seniors in high school interact with middle schoolers. There didn't appear to be an attitude of "we're better than you" that often haunts youth groups. This was a team in every sense of the word.

In addition, we struggle with welcoming people who are visiting our youth group. Whether it's the friend of a youth group member or someone who just moved into town, or even more shy students who have been at the church for a long time, we struggle with helping those students feel included. It is good to know that our students realize that and want to change it.

While there are several amazing things I could share from the trip and last night, the other one I want to focus on is the idea of boldness. Last night one of the students shared an experience from earlier this week. She talked about how she was in line at a clothing store and got into a conversation about God with a guy in line with her. She talked about the fact that she had never really done that before and she was somewhat surprised by her boldness.

Another student talked about how she met a guy who did not go to church, but the more they talked about Jesus, the more intrigued he was. That weekend, he ended up going to church and when they saw each other again, he thanked her for giving him a new outlook on Christians.

One of phrases I remember from last week was "crazy enough to believe." This was something Pat Pugh said a number of times as he talked about how God is working in Cincinnati. Whether it was their new building, the direction their ministry is going, or the ways he sees God at work, Pat kept telling us he is crazy enough to believe.

I am crazy enough to believe that God has changed the lives of some of our students. That He is about to unleash something powerful through the students in our ministry. That God is about to pour out His Spirit among us in a very powerful way.

I am crazy enough to believe that God will fulfill His promises when we are crazy enough to follow.

shine!
Jason

Mission: Cincinnati Update #2

I have a few minutes here in the middle of the day to send out another update. First of all, I realize that some readers may not know the details about our trip. Here is the short version:

Several years ago I met Pat Pugh. Pat serves in a full-time inner-city ministry called Cincinnati Urban Ministry Outreach (CUMO). For the last seven years or so, Pat has been leading CUMO. For the last several years, he has worked in the Millvale Community. Two years ago, we brought a group of eleven students to spend a week working with the children in this community. Last year we brought nineteen students. This year, thirty-five students are serving here in Millvale.

Much of our work occurs in the Millvale Community Center. We build relationships with the children through games and activities. We help Pat in his ministry through various tasks. And we usually end our time at the center with Bible time. I hope this provides a brief overview of our work here.

The picture with this post is the new building that CUMO will be moving into next month. God has truly blessed the ministry with a great opportunity in the middle of a community that needs God's love.

Yesterday morning, we traveled to the location (it's a few minutes from Millvale) to pray over the community, the church building, and the move. We met Yack while we were there. Yack (obviously his nickname) has family in the neighborhood. When it came time to pray, Yack joined us and began our time of prayer. It was truly an encouragement to meet and pray with this man. This is further evidence that God is at work in inner-city Cincinnati.

During the time at the Community Center, our students have continued to shine! Even now, they are playing sports, talking with children, and building relationships. At our evening devotionals, students have shared how much these kids and this experience have touched them. It is obvious to me that the children here in Millvale are impacting our students as much as - if not more than - our students are impacting them.

Our team has continued to do a great job of serving and laying down their lives. They have poured everything they have into this work. They are maturing as Christians right before our very eyes. I believe that many of them are experiencing life-changing moments this week. God is certainly at work!

This morning, we went to the school here and assembled over 400 bags of school supplies for the children. We were visited by the principal during our time there. We asked him if we could pray for him and he was excited to let us do that. Our team of over forty people surrounded the principal and another staff member and we spent close to 10 minutes praying over them, for the students, for the staff, and for the upcoming school year. We could sense that God was present among us in a special way.

Well, its almost Bible time and I need to get back. I just wanted to let you know how things are going. This will probably be my last update until our return. I will likely not have internet access again before I get home. Thanks again to all of the parents who allowed their children to be a part of this experience. You may not get the same person back that you sent down here.

shine!
Jason

M:C 2008 Update

I am taking a break from the craziness and sitting in the computer lab at the Millvale Community Center. This is only our second day here at the Center and so much has happened already. :-)

Monday was mostly a travel day. We pulled out of the RCC parking lot shortly after 9:00am and started the journey south. After a few bathroom breaks and lunch at Wendy's/Taco Bell, we arrived at Pat Pugh's house in time for dinner. We spent most of the evening hanging with Pat, his family, and a few friends who were there. We ended our time there with Pat bringing us up to speed with what is going on in their ministry.

I want to share with you something Pat shared with us. He told us that at the beginning of June, some of the people from the church started meeting an hour before service on Sunday mornings and walked about the community. They would stop at certain places and pray. This is something that have continued to do. Then in a meeting about a week ago, some of the officials from the community informed Pat that the crime rate had dropped significantly in the community for the month of June! Praise God for His faithfulness!! Before we left, we surrounded Pat and prayed for his, his family, and his ministry.

When we arrived at the retreat (our home base for the week) everyone unloaded and got settled in. We ended the evening with a brief devotional. It was good to hear many of the students share what they hoped God would do this week.

Tuesday morning we awoke to rain...a lot of rain. We were supposed to go hand out postcards in the community for a few hours, but instead we went to the center. This actually worked out great. We were able to connect with the kids in the center. After lunch we ran an obstacle course and played kickball. I was so impressed with the way our students worked together and worked hard, without having to asked very much.

When it was Bible time, our students went right to work again. They were singing, smiling, and helping the children get engaged. And when they went to class time, they jumped right into their tasks. It was amazing to see how hard they working and how on task they were. I told them last night that this was my seventh mission trip with a group of teens and Tuesday was the best day on a mission trip I had ever experienced. Every time I looked, everyone was working. I didn't have to ask anyone to do something more than once. They always did it the first time. When they were with the children, they were focused on the children and not engrossed in each other.

If you are a parent of one of the students on this trip, you should be proud. Your children are doing an awesome work down here. They are displaying the love of Christ. They are revealing their character. They are growing spiritually right before my eyes. Thank you to the parents who have labored for years to plant the seeds that are now bearing fruit. You have helped make this trip unfold the way it is. Your work has not gone unnoticed or unappreciated. Thank you!

On a less serious note, we did get to enjoy dinner at Sonic yesterday. The troops were very happy! :-)

shine!
Jason

Leave a good tip

On Thursday, our family observed a day of Sabbath. This wasn't anything special, per se. Basically, I didn't do anything for ministry. (Confession time. I am a work-a-holic. This is a trait I inherited from my mom.) Taking an entire day without any ministry happens far too little in my life. I need to be more disciplined about taking breaks.

Near the conclusion of the day, Matthew, Michelle, and I went to East Side Mario's for dinner. (Side note: it's a great little place to eat.) If you know me at all, you know I can be rather frugal at times. Well, when we were deciding where to go for dinner, I asked Michelle to find the coupons. This would determine our dining destination. Well, East Side Mario's had a "buy one dinner, get one free" coupon. We have a winner!!

So we sit down for dinner and up comes our waitress. The first thing I do is ask her if we need to give her the coupon. She goes ahead and takes it then ask for our drink orders. Michelle and I both ordered water with lemon. (I really couldn't justify $2.49 for a soft drink.)

At this point I get the vibe from the waitress that she is thinking we are cheap. Well, she is half right. I am cheap when it comes to ordering my food; however, I am not cheap with my tips. Unfortunately, the waitress couldn't distinguish between the two.

This became painstakingly obvious when my water was seldom refilled and her visits to our table were infrequent most of the meal. She was polite, but not very present.

So the meal ends and she brings our bill. I always smile when I feel like I saved some money. :-)

When it came time to calculate the tip, I added the cost of my "free" meal into the deal and figured out what a 15% tip would be and rounded up. I do the same thing at Applebees when we go for half price appetizers after 9:00pm. (Another frugal dining experience.)

When it comes to living my life, I look at how God treats me and tip others accordingly. Even when I only give half of my effort, God still blesses me with all of His love. He pours out His Spirit regardless of my accomplishments.

Whether it's dining on the town, walking the halls of your school, engaging the co-worker in the next office, or shopping in the mall, God calls us to give what we have, whether the other person deserves it or not. Whether it's 15%, a smile, a hug, or a word of encouragement, be sure to leave a good tip.

shine!
Jason